She's manipulative and needy and selfish and insecure and IMO it will only get worse. Take this time to seriously consider if the relationship and her are worth it.
So this is INSANELY weird to me. But really the important part is what do you think about this behavior from your dad. If this makes you uncomfortable. Talk to your dad, tell him that this caused issue, it wasn’t funny and you are uncomfortable with this kind of behavior so he needs to stop and if he doesn’t. He is out. This is a prime situation to put up a very clear boundary with your dad.
Or if you are fine with your dads behavior, be very clear with your GF and I would say don’t be surprised if your GF breaks up with you. Accepting this sort of behavior would be a “nope, too weird I’m out” for me.
Yeah no, he makes enough to pay the rent, yeah daily expenses and groceries can be done 50/50, but if he wants a 3k place just because he has to pay for it, and like others have said examine if this is the person you want to have a family with, dude is not fair, if you wherent making half of rent a month it wouldve be different, if you where the one choosing the place it wouldve been different, if you where his sife before doing all of this it wouldve been different, also he is already a 40 yo man, he wont change its ways, he just taking advantage of you and that is making you anxious if youre willing to be in this situation all the time youre living with this man, then go ahead, be with the guy, but believe me it will always be like this…unless, sit down with this man an talk, and i mean TALK and get to know wth is he thinking forcing you to live like that, once you get the info do what you have to, wish you the best
It's the Liberation pledge. That's his choice and his activism. If you two aren't on the same page and you don't want to eat at only at fully vegan restaurants, then you two should break up. This isn't a discussion about him being too strict…etc. If your values don't align, then part ways.
The point is your a scumbag.
Someone to be his bangmaid, raise his kids and keep the house clean.
Yeah, bullshit.
She's manipulative and needy and selfish and insecure and IMO it will only get worse. Take this time to seriously consider if the relationship and her are worth it.
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Yes, that's everyone is telling you! It's normal
Jesus Christ just murder her already, OP
OP, this is not a healthy relationship for you to be in. He needs professional help and you deserve better. Please leave.
Nah I did get it the first time
So this is INSANELY weird to me. But really the important part is what do you think about this behavior from your dad. If this makes you uncomfortable. Talk to your dad, tell him that this caused issue, it wasn’t funny and you are uncomfortable with this kind of behavior so he needs to stop and if he doesn’t. He is out. This is a prime situation to put up a very clear boundary with your dad.
Or if you are fine with your dads behavior, be very clear with your GF and I would say don’t be surprised if your GF breaks up with you. Accepting this sort of behavior would be a “nope, too weird I’m out” for me.
Yeah no, he makes enough to pay the rent, yeah daily expenses and groceries can be done 50/50, but if he wants a 3k place just because he has to pay for it, and like others have said examine if this is the person you want to have a family with, dude is not fair, if you wherent making half of rent a month it wouldve be different, if you where the one choosing the place it wouldve been different, if you where his sife before doing all of this it wouldve been different, also he is already a 40 yo man, he wont change its ways, he just taking advantage of you and that is making you anxious if youre willing to be in this situation all the time youre living with this man, then go ahead, be with the guy, but believe me it will always be like this…unless, sit down with this man an talk, and i mean TALK and get to know wth is he thinking forcing you to live like that, once you get the info do what you have to, wish you the best
He’s your ex.
Don’t worry about it.
It's the Liberation pledge. That's his choice and his activism. If you two aren't on the same page and you don't want to eat at only at fully vegan restaurants, then you two should break up. This isn't a discussion about him being too strict…etc. If your values don't align, then part ways.