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IM NEW– my 1st time on Cam. Send TOKENS, Please so I can learn how this site Works !
Date: October 16, 2022
IM NEW– my 1st time on Cam. Send TOKENS, Please so I can learn how this site Works !
It sounds like she’s already found two willing individuals, and is planning on it. She probably just wanted to “include you” so it didn’t seem like cheating. Run
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Yea, it has never happened to me and it made me a little insecure
It’s great that you want to protect and provide for her, but she’s not a damsel. She’s capable of picking up any slack you drop. Let her be your partner; it’ll just make your relationship more deep and meaningful.
Just talk to her. Relationships should be fluid and open to change if you want it to last. You say the two of you plan for her to be a SAHM someday. That doesn’t mean she can’t work and contribute financially until that point. It doesn’t make you less of a man.
It does sound like she is interested in him… perhaps as more than friends.
Guys can be clueless. Sit him down. Tell him that when all his friends commented of how he was gushing about you, it made you happy and secure. Tell him you trust him, and feel close to him. Tell him you want to be with him forever.
Take a deep breath. Tell him you think this girl is interested in him as more than a friend, doesn't like you because you are his gf and wants to drive a wedge in there so she can get him from you. Shy girls MUST play the long game. Tell him that if he wants to ensure the safety of your relationship with him, he must take steps to defend it from accusations.
Ask him how he thinks you would react if this girl called you up and bragged about how she got him alone and they were holding hands, hugging and laughing. If she called to tell her next time she was going to put her tongue in his mouth? Tell him that if not this girl, than another will. If he respects your relationship with you, he won't put himself in a position where lies told by another would hurt it. You are willing to be in a friend group. You are willing to have her along sometimes, but his “just the two of us” moments should always be with you unless he is trying to put doubts in your heart.
Guys can have 'just friends' with girls, but they can't ALONE. The alone part is where 'just friends' moves to 'dating'.
Jesus Christ! This is nightmare shit. He had to have been putting it in his food or something?? How would you even get a three year old to take those things? OP, how about you? Did they test you? And, not sure if anyone has asked but, I mean, are you ..OK?
Just take her off the list and don’t worry about it anymore. Isn’t worth the headache and if she wants to talk to you, she doesn’t have to be cryptic about it
People are asking why he wants a gf.l despite his schedule.
Some people are happy to find one. Also sex. For sex.
Would you like to scroll 100 tinder profiles and message 5 that likes you back daily in the hope of 2-3 dates monthly if you don't have time? No. Of course not.
Cap Flies away
Btw she knew from the beginning that I hated cheaters and that it was the worst thing she could do to me as I just came out of a relationship that brought me to my mental edge almost unaliving myself multiple times
Can you actually give advice.
As a species? We are killing it lately.
WAIT.
He has you hiding that you are in a relationship in front of her?
He says she’s crazy?
He sleeps in bed with her?
He tells you cruel details about sexual acts with her?
And here you are believing him that you are special to him and he’s just being nice to her?
I’m so sad for you right now. It’s time to wake up from this dream. This guy is playing you so hard right now.
As a babyface myself, the difference in dressing professional (and a bit frumpy) vs. dressing in athleisure and graphic t-shirts and backpacks and chunky sneakers is HUGE. Easily 10yrs in appearance
Don't go back to this dude, he's abusive and manipulative and you deserve better.
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This and if you are forced to marry this woman take every measure possible to not have children.
As a mother myself this breaks my heart. I've never seen my children as an investment. My dreams for them are to be and do better than I have. I want them to be happy. I am so sorry you're going through this OP. I wish you the best of luck and please keep us updated.