Being blunt: You're going to marry this guy, and in three years you'll wake up with a black eye. He'll then convince you that he didn't do it, or didn't mean to, or you deserved it. Just call of the engagement and make sure someone helps you move out so you aren't alone with him.
Not sure exactly what you mean by “shady af.” Do you mean that you think she's seeing other people? Absent any clarification, that's what I would assume.
Sounds like you want to see someone else, but don't want her to.
Like most people have already said, you need to define whether or not your relationship is exclusive or not.
If you had an abusive household growing up this is pretty pat for the course. Just stick with therapy and do your best to treat your partners well. I’m sure most of your toxic behavior is subconscious so you really gotta make an effort
You gave a gift. It's hers now.
Being blunt: You're going to marry this guy, and in three years you'll wake up with a black eye. He'll then convince you that he didn't do it, or didn't mean to, or you deserved it. Just call of the engagement and make sure someone helps you move out so you aren't alone with him.
Not sure exactly what you mean by “shady af.” Do you mean that you think she's seeing other people? Absent any clarification, that's what I would assume.
Sounds like you want to see someone else, but don't want her to.
Like most people have already said, you need to define whether or not your relationship is exclusive or not.
Girl forget about the cheating MAKE BETTER CHOICES because there is no way you can afford 4 children. Geez
If you had an abusive household growing up this is pretty pat for the course. Just stick with therapy and do your best to treat your partners well. I’m sure most of your toxic behavior is subconscious so you really gotta make an effort