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“her still being quite childlike and childish” – just gonna say you being a mom and treating her to subs on your dime probably won’t help her not be a kid ?❤️
He’s not going to see what he’s doing wrong because he’s an abuser, you’re approaching this as if he’s a logical empathetic person like you are but he’s not. He’s incapable of acknowledging his own behaviors and you trying to make him see it is only going to lead to more problems and hurt for you and your children.
I fully understand your mindset on this, I was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist for 4 years and it was like I couldn’t let it go because I so badly wanted that acknowledgement that he was wrong and had treated me horribly, I was desperate to get my vindication after years of being gaslit and manipulated. But it never came and it was never going to, and when I finally left him I realized I could give myself that vindication I’d been craving by building a happy independent life for myself away from him.
Leaving is your vindication, taking his power over you and your kids away from him is your vindication. Take it and run, just because you already sunk years into this relationship doesn’t mean you’re stuck with it
As someone who is 36, I would never date someone that young. What are we going to talk about? You’re just starting your adulthood. You may be mature for your age, but you still have a lot of growing to do. I promise. You should be focusing on figuring yourself out. Who do you want to be? Education? Hooking up to figure out what you like in the bedroom and what you like in a relationship with someone around your age. You should be hanging out with friends and doing stupid shit like everyone else did.
He has somebody else. I’m sorry you’re going through this just take care of yourself, but he has somebody else. That’s why he’s moved away in this cold and why he said there’s no chance zero chance of rekindling.
Never calling myself a solid or perfect man, all I’m trying to say is I’ve acted predictable recently and she hasn’t, and I consider that an issue, and I don’t see why that is automatically invalid
OP, I'm serious, get out of this relationship. He's just consistently gaslighting you and making it out like you're in the wrong here. You are not. LEAVE HIM. You CAN find better and be happier.
Your husband has SHOWN you that he IS putting EFFORT into cheating on you by going on dating apps and having affairs. THAT is all the proof that you need. Stop listening to pastors and other people that are trying to tell you that you're wrong. You have literal, real proof that your husband is a cheater and will put effort into cheating. You aren't imagining this. He is a cheater. Please, for your own well-being, leave him. He's trying to put blame onto you so that he can seem like the victim here. He is not a victim here. Again, leave him. He's a cheater and is gaslighting you.
“her still being quite childlike and childish” – just gonna say you being a mom and treating her to subs on your dime probably won’t help her not be a kid ?❤️
He’s not going to see what he’s doing wrong because he’s an abuser, you’re approaching this as if he’s a logical empathetic person like you are but he’s not. He’s incapable of acknowledging his own behaviors and you trying to make him see it is only going to lead to more problems and hurt for you and your children.
I fully understand your mindset on this, I was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist for 4 years and it was like I couldn’t let it go because I so badly wanted that acknowledgement that he was wrong and had treated me horribly, I was desperate to get my vindication after years of being gaslit and manipulated. But it never came and it was never going to, and when I finally left him I realized I could give myself that vindication I’d been craving by building a happy independent life for myself away from him.
Leaving is your vindication, taking his power over you and your kids away from him is your vindication. Take it and run, just because you already sunk years into this relationship doesn’t mean you’re stuck with it
And is open to trying when he comes back
As someone who is 36, I would never date someone that young. What are we going to talk about? You’re just starting your adulthood. You may be mature for your age, but you still have a lot of growing to do. I promise. You should be focusing on figuring yourself out. Who do you want to be? Education? Hooking up to figure out what you like in the bedroom and what you like in a relationship with someone around your age. You should be hanging out with friends and doing stupid shit like everyone else did.
My goodness.
She didn't get off too well here and deleted her account. ?
He has somebody else. I’m sorry you’re going through this just take care of yourself, but he has somebody else. That’s why he’s moved away in this cold and why he said there’s no chance zero chance of rekindling.
Never calling myself a solid or perfect man, all I’m trying to say is I’ve acted predictable recently and she hasn’t, and I consider that an issue, and I don’t see why that is automatically invalid
Scrubs & Waterfalls…is that the name of a song? Two different songs? I want to hear it.
OP, I'm serious, get out of this relationship. He's just consistently gaslighting you and making it out like you're in the wrong here. You are not. LEAVE HIM. You CAN find better and be happier.
Your husband has SHOWN you that he IS putting EFFORT into cheating on you by going on dating apps and having affairs. THAT is all the proof that you need. Stop listening to pastors and other people that are trying to tell you that you're wrong. You have literal, real proof that your husband is a cheater and will put effort into cheating. You aren't imagining this. He is a cheater. Please, for your own well-being, leave him. He's trying to put blame onto you so that he can seem like the victim here. He is not a victim here. Again, leave him. He's a cheater and is gaslighting you.
Bro, really?