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Bad bad idea.
You clearly don't want to do it.
That is not the sort of thing you can put a stop to, and it's very likely to escalate. For your safety you need to leave. Run.
It’s one or the other. I tried the Brady Bunch thing and it didn’t work out.
It’s not realistic to permanently keep your kids compartmentalized. Maybe find out what her hang ups are (that will take time) and if you can’t get through them then this isn’t the relationship for you.
What are the reasons for the relationship ending?
I think you’ve said a lot of true things here. I am very tired. I have a lot to think about. Thanks for your help :’)
Depression can be debilitating. Don't let his depression destroy your life. Separate residences gives him the opportunity to get back on his feet without turning you into his mom/caretaker. Stop financing him. (You may help him find other financial resources i.e. move back in with family, unemployment, etc)
I’d talk to the brother because he’s getting screwed as well. He may agree with his brother breaking up or not, he may have known about it, but that’s not what you’re there to discuss: you’re there to discuss how you lease will work going forward given your bf has just skipped and might not want to break the lease but instead expect you both to pay his rent for 9 months. That wouldn’t work with strangers, but hey, they’re brothers, so it’s ok, right?
Brother should be furious with him for that move. BF needs to take some responsibility for his rent.
I hope you get something sorted.
Why burn the bridge? Why not just fade out of their life?
Giving the card as-is is fine unless you think it would offend them. Making a “Happy Holidays” card also fine, and I'd say it's more professional because you don't know what someone may or may not celebrate. Making a Hanukkah card when you don't really understand it could backfire if he takes it the wrong way, so that's the worst option.
It sounds like you are not compatible.
You want a healthy strong fulfilling relationship. I’m not sure what it is he wants but it’s coming across as someone to split the bills and help with childcare. If any of this hits a nerve then maybe it’s time to really carefully consider your future
Well, in two months you'll see. Not a terrible length of time to wait.
Amicable breakups exist and it makes sense for people to wait out their lease.
Just call a lawyer. Get your money lined up AND your divorce papers.
You guys are incompatible. Please ditch this guy. Imagine if you were married to.him and had 2 screaming kids at home. Bye I'm off to gamble with my buds…
Not antivax, and am in fact vaccinated for COVID, but do have to point out that it doesn't not actually block you from getting it.
Plenty of people get COVID after being fully vaccinated. What it does is reduce the chances of serious illness, by giving your body the starter antibodies, essentially. That's what having COVID and recovering does, too. The big plus to vaccination versus 'natural immunity' is that you are skipping the damage to your body/health that comes from getting sick/maybe recovering.
I mean I say I love you to male friends all the time but would be interesting to see the way both him and her act infront of his girlfriend, make it happen and gauge the girlfriends response and go from there.
But with all relationships there has to be communication and boundaries. Run through some hypothetical scenarios to see what's ok and what's not with eachother about everything not just when it comes to the opposite sex. It helps develop trust and awareness of eachother.
Idk it still seems super shady and there is nothing stopping her from doing that to me. The fact that she had a new guy lined up not even 2 weeks after the break up suggest that she kept him around as a back up or was cheating on Jake
The fact that she even entertained the first message means that she isnt loyal. Attention is like currency to women so I wouldn't be upset id just take my interests elsewhere or just keep her around til I find the next woman
This is the way
Nailed it! ?
Sounds like he is lazy
I agree that I think it is best if we spend our Christmases separate this year and some relationships within our families need to be repaired/built.
Yes, just tell him, “Go back to your chocolate factory, Charlie. The Oompa Loompas and the production line need you, Charlie.”
It would be best for everyone if y'all spent time with your own families for the holidays and had a little space to get past the holidays.
Lmao why did you get with a 19yo girl if you can’t keep up with her. Stop whining and enjoy the ride
Run away
I'm not reading all that but I'm happy for you or sorry that happened to you!
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Tell him to pack his fcking crap and get out and go stay with the h he got pregnant!! Tell him divorce papers will be ready soon. Also get tested for STD'S and tell him that if he doesn't leave you will tell everyone including his company that he and her were f*cking while working.
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You misspelled EX gf
Lmao you sound unhinged unless there’s something I’m missing.
There’s something going on. She might be good at her work ok but that much good that he can’t get over it for days. She should have a promotion then why stay in this job .
No he’s telling you all this so you won’t doubt why he’s always taking her and gave her an office close to his.
He probably has an affair with her.
You can still go nc. And I think that their insistence that you are putting words in her mouth comments are worrisome enough that your kids shouldn’t be around them unsupervised. The brothers are justifying this behavior so even if they didn’t say it out right, their mind set is faulty.
You can get couples counseling before being married. We didn't get it until after we're married, but it helped immensely.
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Maybe HE needs to set boundaries with her? No text messages, no discussions about my marriage, if that is what he wants. How she handles those simple requests will tell you a lot.
You need to send her to live with your parents. If you don't you're never gonna have any peace and trust me you will niy have a life ever. I went through something similar to this and let me tell you it's hell to deal with. Get some help for her and try to work it out with your fiance.And don't let her drive. People that mentally unstable don't ever need to be behind the wheel of a car. It's dangerous.
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How to leave without her hurting herself? Inform local authorities. They'll respond to potential suicide risks. You can also reach out to her friends/support network and let them know she's a risk.
What it boils down to, though, is that her life is not in your hands. If you end things, you are not responsible for the actions that follow. You should never stay in a relationship just to prevent what “might” happen to your partner, should you try to leave them.
You might not be able to stay friends. It's my understanding that divorced people rarely do…and that's okay. You don't need to be her friend, and she's not obligated to be yours. Find your love wherever it is, and don't tie both of you down just to tough this out for another decade of unhappiness.
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Yes if the kids are older then both people can have more freedom. Imagine wanting your partner to be home at a reasonable time to help wirh the kids (at night or in the morning). Imagine wanting your partner not to stay out all night but to want to be with you. Imagine having young kids and having to set a curfew for a grown man in order to get him to come home at a reasonable hour.
Lmaoo
Some people say that if you both agree to these rules, there’s no problem.
But let me propose this: the rules are a symptom of insecurity.
They passively indicate you don’t trust your partner to do the right thing when you’re not around.
Or that you don’t trust his friends – which passively means you don’t trust his judgement.
Neither is good.
As well, it’s disrespectful to friends to assume the worst of them when they haven’t given you a reason to. You’re being a bad friend.
And if they do give you reasons to always think the worst of them – why be friends at all?
These rules are more trouble than they’re worth.
You can absolutely have a preference that you’re included and be respectful of that. Sure. But it might not always happen.
I prefer my wife is included on all invitations. But sometimes a friend of mine needs one-on-one time, to talk about something that’s more difficult in a group. Vulnerability is hard, and even know they know I’ll talk to my wife about it – they appreciate the time and space.
What if his female friend is physically disabled? Or very ugly? Or identifies as asexual? I would bet dollars to doughnuts the rules would bend. You’re already bending it for family and colleagues.
Being in a healthy relationship means two complete people coming together. Your rules deny your agency and will stagnate your ability to trust.
It’s fine for now. I wouldn’t call it toxic – but it’s still an artificial limitation rooted in fear, not love. So I’d consider rethinking this.
He said she referred specifically to old married men
If I'm wrong it'd just be kinda awkward since we hang around in the same circles
Condoms desensitize. Women don't like sex without stimulation. Men don't either. Vascectomies are often irreversible and come with their own risks. He is 24… women have multiple brands of prescriptions, patches, inserts, and various other forms of birth control available without surgery or desensitization.
I don't think she should take something hormonal if she doesn't like the way it makes her body feel. There are other methods as well. And if she is getting her Tubes tied anyways, why force the condoms or vasectomy?
It is time for you to move out. You are an adult and don't need to be answering to your mother.
Let's start with therapy hun. Your boyfriend sexually and physically abused you,don't downplay it.You have been hurt by too many people in your life that you think your problem,when in truth is their the problem they just take advantage of your vulnerability.
So he's a liar and a cheater, and you have to ask if you should stay true to your word and leave?? Really?? Understand this: he is not going to stop with her. Stay if you want to live with that. Leave if you don't. Choose wisely.
Yup
Your boyfriend thinks your value is based on how you use your vagina. Which just means that your boyfriend is a misogynistic asshole. The only danger masturbating poses is that you'll have intimate knowledge of what you do and don't like, how to get to orgasm, then you'll tell your boyfriend to fuck off forever because he's bad at sex.
Your boyfriend also has absolutely no understanding of female anatomy whatsoever. Vaginas are elastic. If something being inside a vagina made it stretched out forever, no woman would ever be capable of having satisfying PIV sex after a vaginal birth.
Ultimately, you should have enough self respect that you don't ever have sex with someone who has told you that sex with you isn't special because you masturbate.
Smh
Just take his money and leave… start a new life with someone new
Yeah I feel like you know what you need to do, youre just too attached to pull the trigger.
Just be aware if you stay she will just hurt you more and it'll suck significantly worse than walking away now.
You are a very smart woman.
Your life without him will be a million times better than his life without you in his lunatic fantasies of what he will never have.
Either “it may be useful” “why throw away a perfectly good straightener” or even just “what trash bag does this even go in?”
I kept an iron for four years because I wasn’t sure which of the six kinds of bag it should go in.
I'll absolutely use them to masturbate sometimes. Cleanup is way easier.
If I'm looking for a “longer” session not having to deal with precum leaking is easier.
Or if I intend to keep going clear through the climax and out the other side, where normally I'd need to stop at the moment of climax and do the “urgent tissue” to catch the mess before the bed/chair and I are wearing it, using a condom means I can ride the climax out a little longer by masturbating through the ejaculation itself.
Or I'm just looking for a little different sensation (I'm circumcised, so having a bit of extra condom tip with plenty of lube inside feels markedly different than what I'm used to on my own).
That's all to say, if I was you, I wouldn't consider missing condoms, on it's own, a red flag, or frankly any flag at all. If there's other flags you should consider those, but “husband masturbates in varying ways” isn't suspicious.
Guy is crazy and needs major help. You feel bad so you keep giving him chances. Love yourself more, feel bad for yourself more. Insanity is to continue doing the same thing again and again and expecting things to be different. Move on. Find someone that's not volatile.
My stbxw always overshared our marital issues. She had no filter whatsoever and would often fabricate things out of whole cloth and would tell quite literally anyone who would listen. This is all her work friends ever heard from her about me. So they decided that the solution to her problems with me was to have an affair. They actively encouraged her to do it and then ran cover for her after the fact.
The other effect of this was that I became reluctant to open up to her once I wised up to the fact that she was reporting everything I said, or did, or didn’t do, to everyone, including mutual friends. I was even getting in trouble at work based on the rumours that ended up swirling around.
She is and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I’m sure other guys don’t care but me personally I like girls who aren’t like that
Yup some of these comments are hilarious. No one is saying you can't do what you want with your body, I'd just kind of assume if you're with someone you'd care about what they think about a major physical change at least enough to say something so they can brace themselves even if you're going to do it anyway. I'm crazy though.
I feel really sorry for your partner and I hope he finds someone better.
Do you not want the attention you've been craving now you have it?
Left him. Basically got ghosted on valentine's day
It's a new relationship you don't actually know anything about him.
One thing I'll say about abusive people is they care a lot about how other people view them. My abuser was perfect if you weren't dating him, I was trying to figure out if it's another way to control me or if it was just the typical I need everyone to admire how awesome I am.
I'm older and wiser now, if I went through what you did I'd end it. Decent men don't speak to women like that.
If they're being mean whilst drunk, believe them.
“I guess I'm single now.”
YES!!! Yes, make him single! If you stay with him, you are setting yourself up for this to be a pattern for the entirety of your relationship. He will be all sweet and warm and fuzzy, until he's not. And when he's not, it will be very bad, like the evening you are talking about. Let me assure you, all the sweet and warm and fuzzy is fake. The very bad is who he really is. Do not continue this relationship unless you want to be off balance, never knowing what he's going to become angry about and how he will show that anger, for the rest of the relationship. For your own sanity and safety, end it now.
He says he won't cheat and gets mad when I'm expressing my concerns about it. I said to him pretty much similar thing, yet he thinks it should be a normal thing for everyone and that I'm the one who thinks this way.
Thanks, I feel a bit better that I'm not the only one who thinks this way
RED FLAG!!!! Run, run as fast as you cant. Get out now before its too late. Arrggggg 🙂
Dump her
Her way of coping with anxiety has been to become the most normal person she can be and to copy those around her. Which means she’s really uncomfortable doing anything that she hasn’t been around a lot… and she hasn’t exactly watched a lot of people hookup lol
The photos are from 3-4 years ago.
Get over yourself.
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Totally true, I will likely be one of them. Still, 35 is when your docs start referring to your pregnancy as geriatric and high risk. It’s a real ego boost.
She is right to be doing this as well. A wise person vets her partners and why should either of them waste time if at least one of them is dating with a goal toward serious life goals.
Here's the issue and why it will never be equal between when men and women post here
I am also repulsed by that specific facial hair choice
There was a poll once and this subreddit is 65% women, and less than 30% men (the rest were other or refused to specify). Basically women will always emphasize with a woman being turned off by her husband, but will feel attacked when it's a man turned off by a woman since that hits them in their biggest insecurities. The thought of a man losing attraction if they gain weight or cut their hair feels bad because they are self-conscious about their own body and don't like the thought of the men they are dating caring about their appearance even after years of dating.
Well she had dinner. His cum…lmao
Complete opposite of that, but ok.
So is this going to be just one sided non-monogamy? Is it going to be a “Don't Ask/Don't Tell” situation? Is she not allowed to seek outside relationships while you are?
The problem with situations like this is there is no way that it is not totally unfair to your girlfriend. What happens when you meet someone that you start sleeping with and you start developing feelings for this other person? What happens when you start imagining a life with a partner who is not disabled and who you can regularly have sex with?
There is no way that you can make a rule that says “you can sleep with other people, but you can't develop feelings.” That's not how humans work unless you plan to have exclusively one night stands with people you never see again. If you are routinely having sex with other people, eventually feelings are going to develop whether you intend for them or not.
I don't think this is going to work out for you both.
Wanted to update since this made me to contact him again if he needs me to come, bring food, hug or talk and he answered he’ll get back to me.
Thank you ♥️
Right. Everyone else is completely wrong and only the OP and the reddit clams are correct
Block him when you're all packed up and ready to go. Don't talk to his parents. You don't want him coming home and trying to stop you.
Listen – partners sense things, and she's waiting for info so that's why she's asking. Part of the breakdown of my marriage was my ex and I not talking about topics that 'stressed me out'. He didn't handle stress well, I reacted badly to his attitude, and it created a divide between us. Talk to your wife, let her share your burden while you help her share hers. Times like this *strengthen* your relationship. Don't let them push you apart.
Couldn't even finish reading the whole post. Dude she sounds like an entitled and inconsiderate asshole. What redeeming qualities does she have, if any?
This is a 'him' problem and you have done nothing wrong.
I am trying to decide which is dumber, the fact that she thought it was a good idea to compare dicks overtly, or that she chose to do so via TikTok lol.
She doesn't sound all that bright. At 28, she should know better,
I mean your dad was physically violent first. Your husband made it clear to never touch your like that again. I think it's too risky to go back bc there's no telling what will happen to you.
Your dad forfeited his relationship with you when he hit you in front of your extended family. There's no reason they can't come back. They aren't in danger of being abducted or harmed as long as your dad keeps his hands to himself. On the other hand, if you travel there, they may try to hold you hostage or much worse. Don't go back. They can come see you or they can forfeit the relationship.
INFO: can you go stay with your brother or other family that can help you while you recover? Because frankly, you aren’t going to get it from your husband. And yes, call the lawyer. Then he can’t use them as you spoke to them first.
INFO – Has your father or brothers ever struck you before? How was discipline handled when you were young?
Yeah it's not hormones. Your husband has sucked so astronomically throughout this whole process and literally given up nothing. You should divorce him and find a partner, not stay with the unhelpful overgrown man child you're with now.
What's appealing about holding yourself back because someone else can't get their shit together? Because he's cute?!
I did contract Chlamydia about 6 months into the relationship when I found out. I assumed it was from one of his past flings (he had quite a few partners before meeting me, whereas I only had 2 (I tested in between)). He said that he had never been tested (even though we had the sex talk before having sex and he said he was clean). I just tested again in February to make sure everything was cleared up and I didn't show positive for anything. I definitely saw that as a red flag as he was either lying about being clean or genuinely didn't know and put my health in jeopardy. I asked him then if there was someone else that should be aware of our diagnosis and he said no. Things are just starting to add up and I can't shake the feeling that he's not being truthful
OP -what are you missing? He used you. What do you miss about that? He's now blocked you because you had to go to extremes to get your car back -what is wrong with this picture? Why would you miss a guy who treated you like shit?
Get your head screwed on straight. Anyone who treats you like that, to the point where you had to call the police to get your car back, is NOT worth your time or attention.
We were all young once and have been taken advantage of at some point. You know what you do with people like that? You scrape them off your shoe like old gum, and don't look back. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Go find one who won't treat you like crap.
I truly think it is. It will be hard, but it’s worth it. Ignore people who thinks your son can’t possibly be your husbands because it’s been four years. Look into secondary infertility. It’s very real and can cause even a DECADE to go by without conceiving again.
First step is to figure out if your husband is the dad or not. Figure everything else out later. I think you should tell your husband beforehand but I can’t make that choice for you. The only thing I think you absolutely HAVE to do is find out paternity.
Good luck.
My sister and her bf are both in med school. They took a gap year after their undergrads to study for their mcats. One passed their first try the other passed the following year. If your career is the most important thing to you, it might be worth focusing on that more than anything
The one who you need to drop… IS YOUR FRIEND
Well you clearly know absolutely nothing about behavioral or mental health.
Of course, good luck!
Yeah, deep talks over the phone aren't nearly as good as in person for a lot of people. Plus if they haven't ever talked on the phone much, there's always a weird learning curve trying to figure out each other's phone speaking style.
Do you want to stay together, just not get married? Do you want to remain friends and coparent together? Know these answers first.
Plan some time together someplace comforting. If you live together do it at home, and make arrangements for you to stay elsewhere in case she asks for space.
I’d start by bringing up the cake tasting and that you got the impression that the fight was about something more. Acknowledge that it could just be you projecting, but you got the impression she doesn’t want to marry. Then, stop talking. Give her space to reply. She may open up, she may get defensive. Be prepared for either.
And just be honest. Tell her that you don’t think marriage is the right step RIGHT NOW.
Listen, it could be she doesn’t want to be planning a wedding while pregnant, maybe she’s not ready for marriage or maybe she’s not sure about marriage with you. I always feel it’s best to leave a relationship when you still like the person enough to care; otherwise you hurt each other and that’s not a good way to honor what you once had together.
Pregnancy changes things, and romance isn’t a constant in relationships- I’m going on year 10, married at year 9, and sometimes we’re not “romantic” at all for weeks. But, we love each other and we understand that sometimes life interrupts and we make our way back to romance. The times in between, we still laugh and play together and love. Hopefully that makes sense.
Dump this person out of your life.
She’ll hurt you again and you’ll wonder how you didn’t see the signs earlier.
What a fucking baby he is… inconsiderate as fuck too.
I think you know the answer. People do all kinds of stupid shit because they want to feel they belong. I know a guy that got married to a pretty girl, 10 years younger, she had good solid family support, she was educated, basically she had everything he didn’t have growing up. Know what happened? He cheated on her and was chronically unhappy. See he was blinded by the delusion of by being with her, he would have what he always wanted. A nice family. His kids would have normal grandparents and aunts and uncles.
Know how I met that guy? Online. We went on a date. Three years later he tells me the entire time he was cheating on his wife. Duh. She wasn’t a horrible person, but she would be out of touch with what his childhood was like. She was quite snooty in my opinion and as a younger sibling birth status, quite selfish and entitled. So yeah he was cheating. I get it. The point is when they separated, he lost her family even though they have a child.
Look, it’s shitty, but some of us just don’t have solid families. We CANNOT fill that void by marrying into or being with people that do. Guess what? Their parents and aunts and uncles etc die and we will still be here with the person we are with. Their siblings move away. Maybe they will have internal conflict. Family or no family, you need to select someone that is good to you.
Drop this loser. Move on. Make a family of your own with someone that really cares about you. The persons family does matter, but just remember at the end of the day what will provide you true happiness is the person you are with. Stop looking at the package they come with.
I appreciate this, thank you. I hope to deserve better one day
To do what exactly? You just stand there while she pees?
Very badly actually
Fucking what?!
I'm obviously not going to change your mind, but you need to be more aware of how manipulative people act rather than assume people who can see through that shit are closed minded.
Your entire marriage as you knew it, is over. Do with that info as you will. Make changes and communicate (if even possible at this point- he’s prob very checked out of this relationship sexually and maybe emotionally,) or sit and watch it crumble. Prob gonna be the end either way unfortunately.
Around 3% to 4% in Ireland. Though they're rising pretty quick right now
I think you have to decide if now refusing, after agreeing, is going to blow this up into something you’d rather avoid.
Instead see this perhaps as your final good wishes for her. Be the mature one and come to terms that your friendship has run its course. No need to badmouth her or create any tensions with others.
If your friend ever reaches out, be calm and civil and explain that you were hurt by the snub and the secrecy. Maybe she’ll want to rekindle the friendship and I hope then that you’re able to be pragmatic about whether you want to or not.
So all i am hearing is that Yu are fighting for something and someone who has given up years ago.
I would.be open with him and say that either he gets into therapy for his troubles and starts working WITH YOU on the troubles, you don't think it has a future. Because that is the fact, this can not have a future if he expects you to do it all while he wallows in self pity
Because blackmail of this is your child pay me or I'm telling your family you're a deadbeat to multiple men pays better than child support from the court But considering this post screams creative writing it's because the op doesn't know how these things actually work
Just FYI as a mental health professional, people who aren't autistic very rarely even ask themselves if they might be autistic. It's likely that his self dx is accurate. Take into consideration that your understanding of what autism is may be underdeveloped. A lot of people have an incredibly narrow perspective of what autism can look like. From the outside, it can be imperceptible.
She is toxic and abusive. You tell her to return your car or you're calling the police for theft and that the relationship is done.
If you can't bring yourself, to make the severity of your distress completely clear to her, then you will fail. A lukewarm approach is useless here. If this is too hard, then maybe breaking up would easier for you?
There's away to view deleted txt on iphone. Click the little dots in the upper left hand corner in his msgs and at the bottom it should say deleted msgs click it.
He’s cheating for sure.
If you’re not finding incriminating text messages it’s because he’s deleting them or their real messages are through another secret app.
Hunny, I’ve been where you are. Trying to rationalize, wanting to believe, pulling your hair out. He’s got you running around acting crazy.
This is not your worth. You deserve so much more and so better than a man who shamelessly lies to you.
Get out now while no children are involved. Take what you have and go to a lawyer. Depend on your family. Just get out.
I replied to another comment here. I guess it’s always been somewhat an issue in our relationship but always salvageable. The fights are way different. Divorce is the topic every time. The degrading and name calling has been 100x worse.
I’m trying to get out my feelings as best as I can, but this post sheds a little more light on the whole picture.
i spoke to him about it a little bit ago and he said he does it because being hurt infront of me is embarassing, i said it doesnt really help but in the middle of it he got hiccups and started punching himself again, i asked him to stop but he told me to go away which hes never done before (we have been together a long time too)
i dont want to throw it away because i have never been so understood and loved by someone before. This man takes care of me when im sick, not even sick, even just on my period or down, he immediatly goes out and buys all my favorite foods, cooks for me at 3 am if i have cravings, has offered to pay for my car, schooling, apartment, etc. He does so much more for me than i can list, in his long term decisions too. thats just the material things aside from all the emotional and intimate things weve experienced together too. To leave just because he self harms (which he already used to cut, i did too, but a different form of self harm) seems weird to me
Yes yes and yes, I'm not Filipino but they both are ? She said Imma be the ninang so okay, sounds good ?
And if her phone shows nothing sketchy will you still trust the condoms? Or the long trips? It seems like you mistrust core aspects of her lifestyle
Why not, instead of gifts, ask people to donate to a charity you both support? That way the people who want to spend money can, and it goes to a good cause.
It felt like it to me, as he had reassured me he wasn’t seeing anyone else or on tinder and we’d agreed to take it slow. I said I wanted to wait and have sex, as I realised I needed to be fully comfortable and trusting of the person first, and he said he was fine with that. But now finding out he slept with someone else, makes me think he wasn’t fine with it and was looking for other people to sleep with in the meantime while dating me and progressing to a relationship.
wtf does that even mean? Is he racist AND misogynist?
That's definitely true. It's also true that drinking the water in Mexico often causes diarrhea.
Both those things have an identical amount of relevance to the matter being discussed.
No we did not agree that side gigs would not be shared, the whole side account started because when we got married (June of 2022) we opened a new joint account that he wanted to do at his bank and decided to combine his account with our joint account. That being said he mentioned how he should have left his original balance in a separate account to which I agreed. We agreed he could build it up to what it was before we fused the account. The issue is it has now surpassed that amount.
OP, you need to join an online support group for the loved ones of addicts. There's absolutely nothing you've said here that isn't absolutely within the wheelhouse of someone dealing with addiction. This is a mental illness of a sort and it's not just related to cessation of the drug of choice. People become addicts because of existing deficits in their ability to cope with the world. These problems don't go away just because someone has stopped using. If this guy isn't in ongoing treatment he needs to be. Also jsyk, almost all addiction recovery experts advise clients to stay out of relationships until they've been clean and in treatment for at least a year. So you may just be fighting a battle here that's not worth it right now.
I mean he sounds honest. You both even saw a films progress going up with both of you not doing anything.
If you trust him then I think nothing here says he is lying and his explanation sounds plausible given the evidence you both witnessed.
Obviously he really hasn’t done that or you would not feel like a third wheel when you all went somewhere together. You talked about the way he looked at her and he doesn’t look at you the same way. He is no longer as dedicated to this relationship as he was. Once this emotional affair turns physical and I’m sure it will he will leave you for her because right now you are providing the physical release he isn’t getting from her. Do yourself a favor and walk away now before you are more deeply hurt. Don’t meet up with her as your husband is just finding excuses to see her and also get to talk to you more about how wonderful she is. You deserve better don’t settle for her sloppy seconds.
Well shit, I hope she does get human trafficked now. In the name of…whatever ideology you have adopted as your identity. You know, the thing that prevents you from objectively and critically thinking about something and deciding that you might actually be wrong.
Because, you know, people spend thousands of dollars on a group of girls they barely know all the time, and men are toxic controlling patriarchs. Or something.
Think of my lines of text the next time you can't get a date on tinder.
There will be the hippies adoring the ethical non-monogamy thing, but it really won't be ethical with her. You know that though.