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Date: November 6, 2022
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I don't think there is too much to worry rn. It's not a problem now, and it may never be. If you guys communicate well, I don't see big trouble in your sex life. Just be honest with one another if it comes to being not as spicy anymore in the sheets!
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He gave you a warning that if you didn't have sex with him long enough, he'd look for it outside of your relationship. Are you okay with that? Especially with you being long distance, this guy sounds like a ticking time bomb
My dude you left your kid in your car. I understand it was a mistake but I literally would never let it go either. Every single time you left the house with my baby I would be terrified you’d be tired and accidentally do it again. Babies legitimately die from this – you know this because you treated it serious in the moment.
I genuinely do not think this is something you can reasonable expect to be let go. You need to identify ways to have a productive argument so she’s not dragging random shit into the fight but you cannot be mad about this one I’m gonna be fr.
Anustart.
After I finished my PhD, I was offered a wonderful postdoc position in the EU
I mean most PhD or postdocs aren't overly great money either…. she clearly was supportive of you moving to Europe, and doing ld. How much are you able to save over the next few years with this position? What's your plan for after your postdoc?
“I'm sorry I said those things to you, I understand why it hurt you”
it's not for me but damn, this is exactly how I would've liked people to apologise to me rather than, sorry it offended you
Great advice
So I was in your position once, around a decade ago, and I had to learn back then that sometimes, a bit of tact goes a long way. What happened to me was that I had gotten my driver's license, but I hated driving so much that I just decided to not do it ever again – and I indeed haven't. When I started off my adult working life, my new – older – colleagues were very put off when they asked me about driving and I flat-out told them I don't drive and don't plan on doing it ever again. My mother then told me that it's not very diplomatic to just act so stubborn, even if I wasn't in the wrong, and that just going along with others and softening messages can go a long way.
What this means is that the issue isn't that you don't want to extend the trip – which is your good right – but that you don't make your girlfriend feel heard. By not even looking at the prices despite you liking that city she wants to go to, you sent a message of someone just being stubborn and possibly afraid to be wrong. Instead, if you had put in the five minutes to yes, look at the prices, to then tell her again how much in total you want to spend and how it's obviously not doable, you would have made her feel heard without betraying your position.
However, I also understand that she isn't listening to you not wanting to take more time off. And that is something you can negotiate by telling her, after you looked at the prices with her: “Okay, so, as I told you, I am willing to spend X money and take Y days off. If you want to visit that city so badly, then we need to cut something else out of the trip, like not visiting one of the other two cities and, because of the higher price in the city you want to see, we also will have a shorter trip since I can only afford two nights there instead of four. What is your suggestion?” Basically, give her the numbers to work with and see what she comes up with – at this point, it isn't clear to me how important that one city is for her. Maybe she is so insistent because it's more important to her than the other two combined, in which case the trip planning should maybe be redone completely.
My cousin was doing something stupid like this. So his girlfriend swapped the hand cream with jalapeño dip. Don’t do that, it is illegal. Drop the A
If his friends love the dog so much, perhaps it can be re-homed with one of them who has no children or other pets and he can visit it there.
Husband's friends are back seat drivers. It's easy for them to spew drivel out their cake holes when they have no stake in the matter.
I wouldn't bet any of them would volunteer to take dogzilla even if their homes were ideal.
Fair enough. I would suggest talking to a therapist (maybe a sex therapist!) about how you feel. Get to the bottom of why you feel like this. If it’s insecurity, then talking to someone might help you understand that people who watch porn rarely see the porn stars as anything more than tools to stimulate horniness. Sometimes when I watch porn I’m not even attracted to the video participants, it’s simply what they’re doing which gets me going. I don’t have any emotional reaction to them and I don’t give them a second’s thought when I’m not actually watching a video.
There’s also a tonne of porn out there- if you’re not someone who consumes porn, you wouldn’t believe the breadth and diversity of porn available. Tonnes of it features real, loving couples who don’t have surgeried bodies and who are very normal looking (sometimes even below average looking!). Maybe as a compromise you could ask that he experiment with watching more normal, amateur stuff that isn’t over produced. In my opinion this would be a fair ask as certain types of amateur porn are much less staged and are less likely to present sex as a performative, male pleasure focussed event.
I tend to suspect that most people who dislike their partner watching porn come from a place of insecurity (which is understandable- a lot of pornstars have had tonnes of plastic surgery and look like Instagram models) even if they say it’s because they feel porn is cheating. Porn is just a visual stimulation. The only way to totally remove someone’s sexual visual stimuli would be to delete their sexual history from their memory bank. I’m sure most of us would prefer our partners to watch a bit of porn if they want some light relief than spend their time visualising all of the women they’ve actually slept with.
My boyfriend and I have a 10yr age gap, I’m the older one. We are both consenting adults and have been together 5 years strong. I’m in no way a predator and don’t even think about the age gap. I’m not saying that this woman didn’t violate OP in this situation, just pointing out that a 10yr age gap means nothing when it 2 consenting adults
Why are you hiding it from other people if this relationship is completely normal?
No, they will hate him forever!
Might wanna wash it on a consistent schedule. At least once biweekly at worst man.
You are probably from South Asia. It's somewhat dicey going to the police, because they have, in my experience, a pattern of sometimes not taking such cases seriously when they have an ethnic background, especially if you are both very young (granted, if someone told me that some 18 year old kid had threatened to kill an entire family, I'm 99% think that it was just that – a kid with violent power fantasies talking out of his ass, but I'd still book him on the 1% offchance that he was actually violent).
If you can't seem to get “through” the first time you make a report, please keep pressing the issue. There are enough people with an understanding mindset in the police, but it's a numbers game.
Ew he just wants to hook up but doesn't want you in his place. Stop talking to him.
I am not upset with you for having to put your child first, that is the right thing to do. I'm upset that parents think they can hide a big thing from a potential SO and it is no big deal. Last date I went on she told me she had kids. Didn't need to know more than that, that is enough. However, that was enough to help me realize there wouldn't be a second date. Her kids are her priority, but they couldn't be mine. That is OK, but you guys need to understand that.
Are you serious? I have a baseball team of kids. My spouse travel for work. Now who does the laundry? I do. WITH the kids home. You will be alone and can't wash your own clothes or clean up after yourself?
Not of the people I know with herpes have trouble dating. Do watch out for people using it against you though. If a shitty partner tells no one else would be okay with that…. Then leave, it’s bs and an underhanded way to make you feel devalued.
I’m sorry your partner is so shitty. Cheating on you and endangering your health like this is terrible. You shouldn’t keep sleeping with him because he could you more STDs.
While this reads like some creative writing, your wife hit you. Do what you will with it. I suspect nothing.