Great example of toxic relationships warping future relationships.
To add to the consensus, yes. It's all too fast, too soon. After an abusive relationship, you'll need to heal. Otherwise, you'll bring some warped expectations, habits, and defence mechanisms into your next relationship. That's not to say that your new relationship won't be a good one, but by jumping in fast and blind you're not giving it its best shot.
“I know I don’t fit into his sexual preferences” Pray tell how you know this??? Honestly even without the porn this would make me consider breaking up ?
You’re allowed to have a boundary and your partner is allowed to accept it or not. If you had a boundary of your partner not going outside, I would doubt you would have many partners
Sounds like she’s in a relationship and using you for attention on the side.
Why have you posted this 4 times in two hours?
Great example of toxic relationships warping future relationships.
To add to the consensus, yes. It's all too fast, too soon. After an abusive relationship, you'll need to heal. Otherwise, you'll bring some warped expectations, habits, and defence mechanisms into your next relationship. That's not to say that your new relationship won't be a good one, but by jumping in fast and blind you're not giving it its best shot.
“I know I don’t fit into his sexual preferences” Pray tell how you know this??? Honestly even without the porn this would make me consider breaking up ?
That’s rape. Get tested asap and again in a few weeks.
Check out sunk-cost fallacy
Wanting him to cut contact with affair partners is the bare minimum he should be doing to prove himself but he's likely not to change.
You’re allowed to have a boundary and your partner is allowed to accept it or not. If you had a boundary of your partner not going outside, I would doubt you would have many partners
Yes, you’re right, thank you!