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Date: October 22, 2022
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She has weaponized her anxiety disorder against you. Serve her an eviction notice. Do not sleep in the same bed. Tell her to take the couch or take it yourself. You have wasted YEARS of your life living like this. 30 days will be over in a blink.
Him feeling responsible for her is why he's in this position, he's not she has family who should be getting her help. I just hate the idea that it's the victims responsibility to coddle an abuser, it's why so many people are trapped because of that mindset.
You have profound psychological issues so no I can't. If you're really interested in change then you need psychiatric help and you shouldn't enter somebody else's life until you've got it.
I really hope you do, both for the people you might hurt and to help yourself to become more human instead of a character. Good luck.
Ok. This is a really new relationship. This behavior is alarming to me. I think you need to insist that he 100% stop all of the play slaps – the playful slaps that you aren’t allowed to return.
If you EVER EVER sit around wondering “what just happened” ever again, leave him.
I would say leave him now just because it’s pretty easy to leave at the 4 month mark, and the cost of failure is high. But I also understand that you probably won’t leave him over this. You definitely need to tell him that his behavior was completely out of line & you won’t have it.
Thank you. This is how you make decisions. Always using kindness. Especially if you tell someone their boyfriend is cheating on them.
I know. I’m talking about my own spouse. Still working on it.
Yeah I’m really struggling right now because he texted me this morning asking if we could please talk on the phone sometime tonight because he is struggling so much with us not speaking ….I can’t tell you how hard it is to ignore his messages. We have a no contact order too !
It’s not required but you can’t be fully committed to a person if you’re not married. Marriage is the ultimate commitment you make to someone, which is why it’s not easy to break up when you are married.
Do you pay for lots of stuff, or do stuff for her?
You don't have to stay with someone because they say so. Just leave if you're not being treated well.
It's literally whatever YOU are comfortable with. If you want to now, go for it! ?
It’s bizarre he hasn’t explained why they broke up. Also, if she doesn’t have that great of a personality, why is he still such good friends with her?
It can be that painful without medical issues. My first few guys felt horrible, both penetration and oral. Either a bit painful, uncomfortable or just feeling nothing. I thought this was what sex was supposed to be like and accepted that for the next 3 or 4 years having only bad sex (but not realizing that).
Fast fieward 10 years and I had some guys make sex feels fucking amazing. And still had guys after that still making it feel painful or uncomfortable. It's possible that guy is just shit at sex.
With threw the ring away you meant sold it, you didn't just throw thousands worth of money away, don't you?
I am not trying to change him. I'm letting him know what my issues are and he's agreeing to do something about them and change, and then not doing that.
I have ADHD, I understand how things are. This is not it. He is not making any actual effort to sustain change. He sees the issue and does nothing of substance about it.
I think it’s time for him to stop talking about the women he has slept with with his friends. There is no way all of them have slept with 100+ people. They are most likely exaggerating.
While it’s okay to grieve the dumbassery of being a young kid that sleeps around, sounds like he was never that type of person anyways. So what is he even upset about? Even if he could go back in time, if he’s not the “hook up” type he wouldn’t have slept with a bunch of people anyways. Sounds like his friends base their self worth and his off of how many people they sleep with which is really immature.
Once you find someone that matters none of that casual, meaningless sex matters anyways ??♀️ instead of having regret of “missing out” maybe he should consider different friends that don’t base their worth off of how many people they sleep with. 100+ is quite a bit of people.
If anything he should be proud of himself for having better values and standards compared to his friends. And also be proud he didn’t lie about how many people he’s slept with. He shouldn’t change to fit in to someone else’s box.
As for opening the relationship, absolutely don’t. And as for him regretting things/ leaving you for meaningless sex, well, that would be entirely on him and would have nothing to do with you. Hopefully he isn’t stupid enough to throw away something real for that. That would be a huge loss for him.
If it was a post I made within the last week, it wouldn't have felt as weird. The fact that this post was long ago and she must have scrolled through a few pages of posts is what made me feel weird about it.
We discussed it further, it is in my update.
Don’t be in an exclusive relationship with someone you don’t trust.
Don’t snoop on your partner.
You’re allowed to leave for whatever reason you want. You don’t even really have to explain.
Women have left men for less with no explanation. ??♂️
You’re not going to get sympathy from people on here, as apparently men aren’t allowed to feel a way that isn’t approved by the sisterhood. People are a lot more helpful and nice about this when it’s the woman that feels this way.
My two cents? Do what you want. Give yourself time to think this through, then act.
It might just be you just need to work through some things. Maybe the breakup is what you need. Who knows?
There are some questions as a man, you can’t ask like this. People will try and put their agendas on you which aren’t necessarily to your benefit.
Ask people that actually care about you, instead of internet strangers who have their own biases.
Anyone that has had a previous partner more than likely has had sex before… you have to be realistic
You are married to a moron.
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Oh yeah dude I definitely won’t be a jock, and between you and me dude , MJ can do a lot better and deserves better. If likes me that’s great but she probably doesn’t.
Just a warehouse job
you know assuming makes and ass out of me and you… but mostly you bud
Yeah unfortunate I think your current relationship is pret6y much over :/ regardless of your friend confessing for you, your current bf isn't able to put in as much effort into your relationship and that isn't fair to you. And 7 more years being a best case scenario just isn' realistic. It's always hurtful when relationships end but by the time he is done you and him both will be completely different people 🙁
As for your friend who loves you, just go with your gut. You don't have to junp into anything you aren't ready for and it may take a little bit to dral with the end of your current relationship.
Wtf, you are a greedy asshole.
Thank you. It's good to know that what I wanted wasn't unreasonable.
Loving the poetic justice of how his computer's disk(?) Gave out last night and he missed another raid lol
Do you even cock bro?
why would this be terrifying???
She seems to do a lot of talking and not a lot of listening. Is that a pattern OP?
I had REALLY bad depression for 10 years and once went 5 weeks without brushing my teeth. While it’s incredibly unbearable to have a tooth go bad, once it does, it doesn’t just fall out whole. It breaks off in chunks. I’ve absolutely pulled chunks of tooth out of my mouth more times than I can count.
Even though tooth is bone, a few times I put it on a plate and used a fork to push down and it just smushed.
Alright, I'm going to point out some things, Reddit is just as reactionary as you are. Good advice here is seldom had. We tend to leap towards cheating, because it's more common than people think. However in this circumstance, your only evidence is he's trying to hide something on his phone, and you've never been over to his house.
Thing is, there could be many things other than cheating, that he's trying to hide. Porn, sensitive conversations, work information, family business, hell he could be planning a surprise, or a proposal. You have no idea what's going on. I would snoop on the phone if you can. But be prepared for a fight, because if it isn't something bad, you've probably done some serious damage to your relationship.
The more concerning thing is the home situation, you don't even know where he lives. This needs to change. You should sit down and actually talk to him, tell him you are concerned about this, and you feel seriously worried about the fact that he's never invited you into his home. If he reacts poorly or brushes you off, follow him home. Catch an uber, or a taxi, whatever. But follow him. You could try reaching out to his dad, but this can backfire. Then again if the bf isn't receptive to bringing you into his home, honestly fuck it.
I corrected my comment to avoid future confusion! ?
Get out while you can. This is how my sister’s relationship was for a long time. He’d be sensitive and blow things out of proportion, lose control over his actions, and then start hurting himself or things around him as a way to gain control of the situation. (He also broke his hand punching a door.)
It was escalated to a police matter because they fought and this time he decided that instead of hurting himself he was going to hurt her. Who knows what would have happened beyond what he managed to do before the neighbors got involved and had the police come out.
Don’t let it get to that point. This man has painted himself in red flags and it’s time to wake up to them and leave before things get worse.
No more getting together with her family if her sister is present.
Dude trust me when I say the best thing you can do is tell her to grow up and go quiet on her for like, a year. She hasn’t been appropriate with boundaries, is very overbearing, tried to make you her Mini-Me(?) which is insane of her, and she dislikes at minimum, everything that isn’t in her sphere of possibility. She is too close minded, too much of a hen. Unfortunately for you, this is a duel between you and your mother, and it’s one you have to win for your own sanity and peace. I’m very sorry ?.
I would suggest splitting the bill or dates for the future that way you can both start saving money and and it takes the pressure off of you both.
Getting him a card would be going over board but sending a fruit sculpture to his work isn’t??
Contact the police, and see a lawyer. It may be illegal to record someone without their knowledge.
It's totally normal for people who study Psych to suddenly want to diagnose themselves and everyone they know. This tends to wear off with some actual professional experience in the field. It's also totally normal for people to hit their early 20's and decide they need some space from their parents in order to develop into fully fledged adults. Almost no one who announces at 22 that they're cutting off a parent is still NC with that parent by 30. So if you need some time to get settled in life so you can approach Dad from a more powerful position you should do it. It won't be forever but just until you're feeling more in control of things. The transition from a minor child/parent relationship to an adult child/parent relationship is always a little fraught. So give yourself some space and then reevaluate as you mature.
OP isn't taking breaks, they're just taking the medication sporadically whenever they feel like it in order to complete a task.
He can maintain his share, i am having trouble maintaining mine because of the financial decisions he insists of having (for example he wants to stay in brand new apartments, in a certain area of town, he wants the fastest internet, he wants the newest phones) i want him to have these things, but he doesn’t see the big picture which is what may be easy for him to pay, is not so easy for me. And instead of looking into over living situations, he would rather get mad at me for suggesting we look i to cheaper housing, that may be a little bit out of the area he wants to live in .
I'd be happier living alone but not in this economy lol
Moving on is the goal. I just don’t want her involving herself in my life in any capacity. Even if it’s to tell potential dating partners I’m a great guy.
Big Vaush fan it seems lol your opinion is worthless.
Yeah I'm sure it probably was load moaning about how said pussy eating felt good or whatever but I'd like to think it's the other way and he was just yelling “mmm mmm good” at her vagina ?
I would definitely help her pack up her stuff up.
I absolutely love Monty Python!!! I don't want to be serious tho. I hope I'm not stuck with this personality trait my entire life. I never felt comfortable around my dad because he is so serious and it hurts me to think I inherited that trait.
Do you have any family, friends or acquaintances you can ask for a temporary stay? If there's none, there are NGOs that may help you find a temporary place till you're back on your feet.
As long as you're near proximity with him, you'll never be safe. If he is what you describe him to be, he'll convince you that you're trapped with him.
I would try looking for someone to take over his portion of the rent
Do you have any friends that could move in with you?
Stop drinking. Do NOT get with her best friend because that is just not worth it. Get your ex completely out of your life. Heal and move on.
Nothing good is happening!!
That seems a bit impersonal for 5 years together
Wow… a selfish disgusting old pedo… you need therapy… a LOT of therapy… and to be in jail…
Because you're single and lonely so even a shitty relationship appeals to you right now.
It'll get better with time.
How to get over him? Spend time with friends and loved ones, do things you love/pick up a new hobby, read a book, work out. Just takes time!
Thank you. I mean, this sub Reddit is called relationship advice . And it really did help me see an outside perspective and calm me down instead of building up constant snowballing worries inside my head.
So a person who is female and was employed by your husband is now apparently just going to fuck him because they are of the opposite sex?
Yeah, your insecurities are shining through.
If you don't trust your husband, end the relationship.
Yeah, I guess that is true. How awful for OP.
I needed to heard that ??thank you
What about all your comments on your profile? Does your wife know about those?
Come clean. Tell the whole damn story and add that you were turned on.
She may have said nothing because some people aren't as accepting as you are.
Talk to him before you lose your shit.
This. The classic I want an open relationship, but you can’t.
Calling it polygamous is another way he’s manipulating her. In reality it isn’t polygamous with multiple SPOUSES it’s just him fucking around
Talk to her about it. She’s gotta want to go off it.
He didn’t want to be bothered then. You moved on. I would not let my kids go with a stranger. And I’d block him and his family
Thank you for your perspective, I wouldn't agree completely though. The idea is we don't buy now and work on our relationship to hopefully buy in the future, obvs that can turn to shit pretty quick, in which case you would be right but I'd hope not.
Second to what @checkout_channel_9 said equity would split, marriage is arbitrary
See resentment already.
And you forcing home to marry you will cause huge resentment on his side.
There is no compromise on an issue this big.
Men who seek out passive women want to be in control and think of their partner as less than instead of an equal. They want a doormat who’s also a servant
If you have to ask maybe crack a book
It's not like it happened and I kissed this person back and invited them back to my hotel. I immediately got away and went to the back of the room to avoid him and I was sharing a hotel room with a friend. There were no men around me that weekend apart from the strippers which was a surprise finale to the conference weekend that I told him about. I didn't actively seek out anything and I was open and honest about everything immediately.
Why waste your time.
This feels fake af. Especially because you felt the need to mention his age twice like THAT is the thing we should be focusing on, not this stupid cat story that reeks of pure fiction.
You don't owe her your life. Especially if she still had family. Take care of you. You're way too young to be responsible for another 20 year old.
Nah this is BS, sorry. I’m 26 and I immediately notice when someone has a thing for me. Especially if I’m not into them. Either she is the most naive woman ever, or she’s lying. Since this includes sexual innuendo and “morning princess”, I’m betting on the second option.
I’ve recently had an experience like this, with constant compliments, “jokes” about marriage etc from a friend. All had plausible deniability. But I’m not an idiot. I can see what’s going on. At the age of 25/26, we have plenty of experience with these situations…
What other details would you like to know?