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Model from: us
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1986-07-01
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityMixed
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorGreen
Subculture: subcultureHousewives
Date: April 1, 2023
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The first few weeks, even the first few months, should be butterflies and roses, it's the honeymoon phase. 6 large arguments in 3 weeks, to me indicates that you are not compatible. I'd be exhausted too and running for the hills before I spend more time with this person and become more invested. It's good that you both remain mature and respectful during the arguments but honestly that's standard and exactly how all relationships should be, it's not an indicator that he's a special unique human with qualities extremely amazing. It just means that he's capable of having a healthy relationship, but not with you because you just don't seem compatible.
so he didn’t do anything physically wrong.
Yes he did.
I would approach her while she is outside of class and apologize. Just an “I'm sorry, I never meant to upset you, I hope you can forgive me.”
This should result in one of a few possible responses:
She tells you either she isn't upset or doesn't know what you are talking about. Then you can explain you were upset when she gave you the cold shoulder and want to fix whatever caused her to do that. Hopefully this leads to an opportunity for you to spend time with her. Let her know you think of her often and hope to get to know her.
She tells you it isn't your fault but she isn't looking for romance. Offer friendship. (Romance can be brought up next year).
She tells you she isn't looking to make friends. Tell her you understand but hope you can at least be friendly. Tell her you are available if she needs help with anything or just to talk.
She tells you that she doesn't forgive you. Then it's time for clarification with a, “I've probably done many things to upset you. What were the worst behaviors, so I can correct them in the future?” Hopefully she'll tell you something. If it is something you did, try to make it right. If it isn't, let her know you can't be sorry for things you didn't actually do (unless she is upset you didn't do something…)
Or, she tells you you just don't appeal to her and while she sees you are interested in her, she's not interested in you. Then you at least know that it's time to look elsewhere.
Honestly I'd say it's better for you than something like watching tv. Gaming improves hand-eye coordination and problem solving skills. Tv is just… Sitting there watching other people do things. And I say this as someone who loves doing both.
Dude. This woman deserves to be in a relationship with someone that loves her and sees a legitimate, fulfilling future with her.
You're using her to fulfill your own boredom.
AND she has kids.
So you're just gonna enter their lives, get them attached to you, and dip out the first time someone you actually see a future with comes along? Do you have any idea how damaging that is?
You don't even like this woman. You've had nothing positive to say about her other then you “hope she does well.”
I hope strangers do well. When i read about car accidents in the news, i hope the injured are okay and make full recoveries. Not actively hating a person isn't an excuse to date them.
This is a human being with a life, wants, desires, thoughts and feelings. This isn't a goldfish you win at the fair and keep around because what else would you do with it.
You need therapy, not a relationship. You are being incredibly selfish, and honestly shitty.
You are wasting her time, and her children's time. Every minute she spends on you, could have spent investing in a partner that DOES view her as a long term relationship. She's trying to build a future, and you're telling her what she wants to hear in the moment without any actual intention of commitment.
It's okay if you don't love her. You aren't obligated to. Sometimes people just don't click.
It's NOT okay to lead her on because you want someone to entertain you until something better comes along. It's NOT okay to involve yourself with her kids when you know damn well you aren't sticking around long term. They deserve better than this.
It's pretty sad you feel like you need to check his phone
Did you even read the post? And this is what you're focusing on? Jesus christ
He does compliment me a lot, he tells me I'm pretty every day all day – and there is nothing miserable about what he does, it's more that he makes jokes and seem to be rooted in truth.
I am not feeding anything, I keep reassuring him, and honestly, I think that, as lots of people have said, therapy and time are the key to it improving.