Just rip the bandaid off and don't break your own heart. If she's willing to separate to “try” this guy she's not loyal to you and doesn't love you. Someone who loves you doesn't do that to you.
Only thing you can do it speak to her about it. It won’t go away by itself & if she’s planning on going to college then it’s will be even “worse”. I say “worse” like that because there doesn’t seem to be anything that Indicates she’s cheating on you. I routinely stayed out/up that late at that age. Hell I still would now if I didn’t have a job. Talk to her.
Hmm I think you need to stop taking anecdotal evidence and generalising too much.
Statistically more than 80% of men like porn, and many that say they don’t only abstain for religious reasons.
It’s totally justifiable to dislike it yourself, and i accept the experience you are discussing is true, but as a man who enjoys it myself but doesn’t relate it to my romantic life in anyway way, I find your premise a little self centric.
For example, I find people who have a problem with people watching porn odd. But I don’t think that’s their fault, we are just different and I’ll date somebody I consider ‘normal’ who is concerned with things like physical or emotional cheating, and not porn.
safety does not have to mean free from physical abuse, but comfort and ability to relax… As a HUGE introvert, ANYTIME there is someone in my house, I feel like I have to be “on” – I can't just curl up on my phone with a coffee and be quiet, because that could be rude… If you added a linguistic barrier to that, I stand by my statement.
Im sorry but he was an ultra marathon runner that gained 20 lbs and topped out at 180 at 5'6″. I am 6'2″ and 200lbs and I dont have a six pack but my body looks decent, at 180 I would be rail thin, probably unattractively so. You think OP was a fat slob for gaining 20lbs? I bet he still looked better than 98% of the population, and in better shape too, probably still does.
This sounds like she's tired of you making her do things you should be doing for yourself. The straw that broke the camels back. On its own no big deal but amassed with a history of laziness and or incompetence totally understandable
I think you were both a bit shitty to each other to be honest.
She was shitty for not giving you the heads up that she was having guests over.
You were shitty for being impolite to her friend. I know you had a headache but you can still make polite small talk for 2 minutes before excusing yourself. I’m sure you came off as a grouchy ass.
Good news is that this problem can easily be avoided in the future if you both agree to make the other aware when guests will be in the house and to greet each others’ guests appropriately.
What was your experience like?
What are her reasons for not wanting to breastfeed?
Just rip the bandaid off and don't break your own heart. If she's willing to separate to “try” this guy she's not loyal to you and doesn't love you. Someone who loves you doesn't do that to you.
Only thing you can do it speak to her about it. It won’t go away by itself & if she’s planning on going to college then it’s will be even “worse”. I say “worse” like that because there doesn’t seem to be anything that Indicates she’s cheating on you. I routinely stayed out/up that late at that age. Hell I still would now if I didn’t have a job. Talk to her.
Leave your husband and quit making things all about you.
Hmm I think you need to stop taking anecdotal evidence and generalising too much.
Statistically more than 80% of men like porn, and many that say they don’t only abstain for religious reasons.
It’s totally justifiable to dislike it yourself, and i accept the experience you are discussing is true, but as a man who enjoys it myself but doesn’t relate it to my romantic life in anyway way, I find your premise a little self centric.
For example, I find people who have a problem with people watching porn odd. But I don’t think that’s their fault, we are just different and I’ll date somebody I consider ‘normal’ who is concerned with things like physical or emotional cheating, and not porn.
safety does not have to mean free from physical abuse, but comfort and ability to relax… As a HUGE introvert, ANYTIME there is someone in my house, I feel like I have to be “on” – I can't just curl up on my phone with a coffee and be quiet, because that could be rude… If you added a linguistic barrier to that, I stand by my statement.
Dude. I hope it all works out. I hope it's exactly as you say.
But get a paternity test done. It's the smart thing to do.
1 to 3 or 4 minutes at best
I cant get 4 buddies to even decide where to go out to eat.
Im sorry but he was an ultra marathon runner that gained 20 lbs and topped out at 180 at 5'6″. I am 6'2″ and 200lbs and I dont have a six pack but my body looks decent, at 180 I would be rail thin, probably unattractively so. You think OP was a fat slob for gaining 20lbs? I bet he still looked better than 98% of the population, and in better shape too, probably still does.
Why are you with such a selfish and inconsiderate person?
This sounds like she's tired of you making her do things you should be doing for yourself. The straw that broke the camels back. On its own no big deal but amassed with a history of laziness and or incompetence totally understandable
I think you were both a bit shitty to each other to be honest.
She was shitty for not giving you the heads up that she was having guests over.
You were shitty for being impolite to her friend. I know you had a headache but you can still make polite small talk for 2 minutes before excusing yourself. I’m sure you came off as a grouchy ass.
Good news is that this problem can easily be avoided in the future if you both agree to make the other aware when guests will be in the house and to greet each others’ guests appropriately.
? We're gonna figure it out for him!