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Date: October 28, 2022
Just say no. I agree with you on this. I’ve never told any of my boyfriends to take my sister instead of myself. If I couldn’t make it I’ve always encouraged them to take a friend instead and have fun. One time a boyfriend bought tickets for us go to the movies but he forgot that I already had plans to go visit my grandma and had invited him to come along to meet her. He said he already bought the tickets and he really wanted to see the movie. I told him to take a friend instead because I wasn’t going to cancel my plans. He took one of his friends and that was that. We didn’t get mad at each other and didn’t hold it against each other. It was just poor planning/miscommunication and we dealt with it. No hard feelings.
Just say no and take your friend. Your girlfriend will let it go. I don’t know why she would get mad.
so you cheated once (that we know of) and were looking to cheat another time (that we know of) and you’re still trying to tell yourself you’re not a cheater? Like… really? Who do you think is buying that?
Not wanting to pay for transitions is different than being ‘transphobic’ i have a couple homies that I chill with that are trans. You’re a typical Reddit idiot leave me alone lol
He claims to have money, but he’s living with his parents. Girl he’s broke. He’s got nothing. He is using you, you’re nothing but a booty call. Get rid of him.
That is so disrespectful. When I was young and dating when a guy did that to me I never dated him again. I just couldn’t tell what kind of guy was who does it in front of the girlfriend. Show him this post.
This is what people are saying.
I'm enabling her and causing my own troubles, I have no self respect, nor a backbone. I need to set boundaries with her so this can feel like a partnership again. She's a monster.
One of these is definitely not true.
She certainly is depressed and needs help with that. I believe fixing issues 1 & 2 will help a lot with her depression too.
What am I missing?
A lot of comments focusing on the meowing, but it doesn’t really matter what she does, the point is it details the conversation so it either becomes about the meowing (aka you telling her to stop) or you give up. You said she’s doing it when your trying to be serious and talk about your day, maybe she doesn’t want to have the conversation and rather than verbalise it, it’s easier for her to be annoying until it’s over.
It’s not okay, and she needs to improve her communication, but I think it would be worth discussing it beyond the meowing and focus on the result; is she trying to shut down conversations? Is it a particular type of conversation she’s avoiding?
You might feel guilty about it, but when you tell him “i was just young and dumb”, that is dismissive. So it doesn't sound like you're feeling guilty about it even if you are! That's why you need to express those feelings so he knows how you really feel about it, otherwise he'll just fill in the blanks himself, and that never goes well.
You enabled this by 'doing everything' for him including his planning and thinking.
This relationship is now SUNK & worless let it go.
Next time you date ,start as you mean to on. Instead of doing eveything for a guy and hoping begging ( nagging) him to recipricate, Do nothing , he has 2 arms and legs just like you, you are not his Mom.
Live your life independant and if you move in together act as a flatm`ate ( with sex). Do your own cooking/washing and only clean up after yourself. If he cooks ( or any other job) for you once , recipricate once only. He does it again , recipricate again. But never agree to do anything “ongoing' because it will cause resentment long term if either of you is slow or fails to stick to the bargain.
At the begining of the relationship ask 'do you want to exchange birthday/xmas/valentine gifts?” if the answer is yes do so unless and untill he doesn't and then STOP. Don't compplain just cease. NEVER buy gifts/cards for the friends or family of a partner.
Finally if you have kids ESPECIALLY if you are a SAHM the fact you didn'talso act as his Mom from the begining will make parenting 1000 x easier.
Resentment is DEATH to relationships. Every day needs to be give AND take for both of you,
Long term hopefully you will share duties more and use your individusal skills to best advantage. But it takes years to learn to live together sucessfully so getting off on a very EVEN footing is imperative.
Whatever you do, be careful about it. A similar post to yours was in one of these subreddits a few days ago and there were a bunch of comments linking back to old threads where 3rd parties were actively sabotaging relationships with anonymous claims of cheating.
She shouldn’t even be going to the event if she’s so worried about your feelings. But since she is going, she doesn’t care. Classless tbh.
I wouldn’t talk to her personally, but you know yourself and your dynamic better than strangers online do. Make sure you have plans to meet up with a close friend directly after to debrief and for support.
Look up DARVO and tell me if that seems like a familiar dynamic in your relationship.
Nothing like a person calling themselves “humble”. A humble person never calls themselves humble just like a smart person never calls themselves smart. Yet all these fake “volunteers” use that hashtag or something similar.
Tbh, it was none of your business to begin with. I NEVER asked my man that nor has he asked me because it’s irrelevant… if you’re happy and she’s happy, who gives a shit how many people she’s been with? And not for nothing, I have forgotten people I’ve slept with lol and I’ve only been with like 10 people at 26. So I would 100% let that shit go or you may lose the relationship. It’s not worth even getting upset over TRUST ME. She may not have lied, or maybe she did. It’s an embarrassing topic! Don’t bring it up lol.
I don't at all feel ready yet. I think I will do this after the weekend. I need another day or so to sit and wallow