Take the lead and tell her you want more. There’s a good chance she could be worrying the same thing, and if you don’t make a move she might get scared and try to run. Make her feel secure about you as a romantic partner.
OP, for as much as you are mourning this loss, his family is mourning him much more. You dated for a year and broke up, they made him, carried him, gave birth to him, and raised him. Their loss is now deep within their bones. It’s time for you to leave them alone and not add unnecessary stress to their tragedy. Give it time and they’ll probably come around, but right now, they aren’t thinking right and just want to be left alone.
Even if there was a chance, I would not take it. You’re emotionally invested so it’s hard to see from an outsider’s perspective, but this person is not a good partner for you. She sounds checked out, and the harder you try to fix it, the worse it might get. Focus on yourself. Time will heal this wound.
No, they kissed and talked about having feelings for each other before leaving for the club.
She’s wasn’t his girlfriend yet, but things were on their way to getting there. She chose to make out with someone else in front of him on the same night, within hours of their conversation and kissing, which to him was disrespectful at the least. Which bit of that is so difficult for you to understand?
Little boy? If the 94 in your username referred to your birth year, I was doing this shit when best part of you was running down the crack of your moms arse.
Captaincanada94, trying to change people’s perceptions of polite Canadians one idiotic post after another.
I hear you. But you know, one could make the argument that I wasn't trustworthy. That being said, she is loyal. Maybe I'm torn because I know I fucked up before and feel like I owe a debt.
I understand what OP is saying I just don't think they're getting their point across clearly…It's not about the money at all. If I was the friend I would have split the money just because A) it was OP who asked to just borrow a dollar and B) they were playing together, it didn't matter who pulled the handle. OP doesn't feel entitled to the friends money, all the pulls led to that specific pull to be the winner-both contributed to the win so both should get a little something regardless of who put the initial $5 in. I absolutely would have shared it.
Take the lead and tell her you want more. There’s a good chance she could be worrying the same thing, and if you don’t make a move she might get scared and try to run. Make her feel secure about you as a romantic partner.
So you both disagree and have different viewpoints that won’t change.
Why are you (both) still together?
Where was the conclusion talk?
OP, for as much as you are mourning this loss, his family is mourning him much more. You dated for a year and broke up, they made him, carried him, gave birth to him, and raised him. Their loss is now deep within their bones. It’s time for you to leave them alone and not add unnecessary stress to their tragedy. Give it time and they’ll probably come around, but right now, they aren’t thinking right and just want to be left alone.
Even if there was a chance, I would not take it. You’re emotionally invested so it’s hard to see from an outsider’s perspective, but this person is not a good partner for you. She sounds checked out, and the harder you try to fix it, the worse it might get. Focus on yourself. Time will heal this wound.
What?
No, they kissed and talked about having feelings for each other before leaving for the club.
She’s wasn’t his girlfriend yet, but things were on their way to getting there. She chose to make out with someone else in front of him on the same night, within hours of their conversation and kissing, which to him was disrespectful at the least. Which bit of that is so difficult for you to understand?
Little boy? If the 94 in your username referred to your birth year, I was doing this shit when best part of you was running down the crack of your moms arse.
Captaincanada94, trying to change people’s perceptions of polite Canadians one idiotic post after another.
I hear you. But you know, one could make the argument that I wasn't trustworthy. That being said, she is loyal. Maybe I'm torn because I know I fucked up before and feel like I owe a debt.
You’re extremely clueless
I understand what OP is saying I just don't think they're getting their point across clearly…It's not about the money at all. If I was the friend I would have split the money just because A) it was OP who asked to just borrow a dollar and B) they were playing together, it didn't matter who pulled the handle. OP doesn't feel entitled to the friends money, all the pulls led to that specific pull to be the winner-both contributed to the win so both should get a little something regardless of who put the initial $5 in. I absolutely would have shared it.
If she’s that dope, either wife her up or let her go.
Stop playing games.
My advice would be to block him, have your locks changed if he has a key and report him for harassment if he shows up at your house.
He doesn’t get to simply ignore your breakup and force you to remain with him. It doesn’t have to be an intense fight.