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Date: February 9, 2023
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yea…
this might be an unpopular opinion, but I cherish my sleep. Also having an animal in the bed is nasty in my opinion.
I like my bed to be very clean. I am a light sleeper and often having even a person in the bed makes it difficult to stay asleep.
I have dated women who sprawl out in the middle or crowd me on my side and it kind of ticks me off becasue I think there is a time for cuddling and there is a time for rest.
I have deeply struggled with insomnia in my life and I often need to set up my bed in aparticular way that makes it suitable for sleeping.
anyway….
having a partner who invited a dog to the bed and doesn't help me cherish my sleep would be a deal-breaker.
Oh he doesn't care about that. He's a vile POS.
You'd be surpised. I knew a guy like this irl. Every time he bitched to me about his gf I lost more and more respect for him. I'll admit he wasn't the most attractive guy in the world, so his self esteem played a part here. But it got to the point where I felt like he was playing a prank on me with the devious shit he let his gf do to him. Had to cut the dude off. Made me sick.
You’re delusional. A therapist can help you with the need to “fix” everyone
Well, He is not exactly relationship-positive, so you would just move on because what you are looking for in a relationship is very different from what he is looking for.
I am sure there are enough men who will step up to the challenge upon your request.
Maybe they both got tested
Haha what did you mean by “yo”? Sorry, unfamiliar with this but sounds random & funny.
I’ve heard that many men can get easily intimidated by women who earn more, are more objectively attractive etc. BUT I think this person is rude and likely not the genius she is portraying to be.
She doesn’t even view you as a friend? Find someone who does and let her find Mr Perfect.
Forgot to also add that if she doesn’t want to tell her dad, should I go, call him and speak to him myself?
Assaulted? Who and why?
Then you should articulate that with him, And express your needs.
Many people have asked you what is the division of workload and what you want him to help you with and you haven't answered. The original post doesn't say anything about that which is why you are getting the responses like this.
If he truly isn't helping with his portion then you need to sit him down and have an honest conversation about the expectations around the house. Maybe he does all laundry and you do grocery shopping or whatever.
But belittling his career and making it sound less important than yours because he works from home and has extra time is rude, petty, and makes me question why you are dating him in the first place. You also mention you think he is “privileged” for having well-off parents which shows me that overall you're just mad because he got a better start in life than you. Which I get being upset about, but if it bothers you that much you need to find someone else to date. Constantly throwing that in his face is ridiculous and solves absolutely nothing. You've been together for 4 years and are still harboring resentment over something like that, which NEEDS to be addressed.
Not true! If he's jealous she might just hide things so he doesn't snap.
Just. Walk.
It is completely illogical that your husband would put down an ultimatum on a friendship of yours. Especially one that you’ve had longer than you knew him. He’s telling you you don’t have a mind of your own and he doesn’t trust you.
I’ve had partners with douchebag friends, they could admit they were great friends but I never prevented my partners from hanging out with them. We talked about healthy boundaries that would limit my time around them.
Your husband is also completely oblivious that Sami is going above and beyond to save her marriage so this was not her choice.
Trust me when I say it's an even harder reality to live when you get so deep you feel like you can't crawl your way out again. I can't reach back in time and tell myself to make different choices, but maybe I can convey the gravity of the situation and help you save yourself. I read your post about having anxiety. I am telling you right now he is the source of your anxiety. Your body is screaming at you to get away. Please listen. ?
Thank you.
“I'd feel glad they shamed me as nothing should be shared on the internet. Anyone looking for advice should bottle it in and deal with it with their abuser alone.?”
That dude probably.
You literally put yourself last. Everything you wrote was “I don't actually matter”. You sound like the woman who gets breast implants after cancer because her husband has been thru so much. I'm sorry for your situation but damn….you only have one life to live. One.
Not harsh at all. If you reject suggestions to get tested because people you care about are being affected, you will suffer, as well as your family.
Buckle up buttercup. As a woman diagnosed late in life, it's not going to get any easier. And it ruins all types of relationships. If you refuse to get help, you're going to have to be ready for the consequences
Thanks for your reply. I appreciate it
You keep saying “i might be delusional” “i might be stupid” and second guessing yourself. Girl. You did NOTHING . And i mean NOTHING!!! Wrong!!! Stop doubting yourself, stop putting yourself down! You were put in a very shocking and scary situation, and went into freeze mode of fight or flight. Extremely proud of you for how you handled this all and taking safety precautions!!! (Hug) I’m so sorry love. Its always painful when a person we cared about changes for the worse. But we are never responsible for the paths people take, we can try if they are Open to it, but ultimately people do what they want to do.
You are so young and I hope this move is a fresh start where you can feel much more safe. Continue to be vigilant and smart ? being a loving friend is not a bad thing, especially if you consider that person like a sibling! But yes be careful and stay safe.
Instead of asking Reddit, why not speak to your friend about why she has never invited you. Your friendship is trash if you can't even be honest about how you feel.
What a bizarre response. I explain several times in my post that she never asked me, and yet you say ‘did she even ask you to go’.
Obviously you read what I said and decided it was a big lie, so why even bother responding. Very strange
And THERE’S the kerosene.
She’s weird. & a red flag. Don’t get back with her
But I don't?
Nothing. More feel for her husband. But he knows what he is getting himself into. I just feel the information about these incidents that until now have been withheld out of discretion might be more important now. But seems shitty to drop what isn't really even a bomb on a good moment for them.
Christ, this entire post is the answer to why he didn't answer her, and she keeps doubling down.
The kicking you out of the outing is a big red flag.
Going on an outing with the EX? Uh…no.
But in truth, the deeper problem is he says he “just doesn't know why he's did that?” I find that hard to believe.
I'll keep it real. I have an ex-wife. Trust me whenever I have a reason to even speak to her, I know exactly the reason why a conversation is necessary. You don't just forget details about an ex, if in your heart they are really your ex.
I’ve got arugula in my fridge older than this relationship.
Why didn't you get a dna test
Life is too short to date losers. Cooking is easy.
I don’t eat meat. He does. So I end up cooking dishes that can accommodate both of our dietary needs
I mean, that makes no sense.
He doesn't act this way in public or in front of friends or family so I think it's all for attention