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Tell them you take the sterile cats and move out. Why are you already living together, you barely knew him.
But they still did things as a couple and slept together during that time according to OPs comments. It was more that they weren’t living together.
It’s no different then asking a new partner whether or not they’re sleeping with other people or the relationship is exclusive. If you lie, you’re cheating. It also exposes the other partner to STD risks and they’re 1000% entitled to that information.
Congrats on the baby! Your son or daughter will always be grateful to you.
From my perspective it sounds like 95% of the relationship is great.
Video games, being at slightly different stages and a difference of opinion don’t constitute grounds for a breakup in my opinion. Those all sound within the normal span of a relationship and a good sign of things you work on together.
Is there a chance this huge life changing decision is stressful and there’s a possibility of self sabotage at play?
Red flag ?
I really feel for you. You are not in an easy situation and that’s NOT your fault. You deserve compassion. End of story! I hope your therapist is helping you make progress there because it’s not an easy road to go alone.
I’m usually in favor of couples sticking it out and really trying everything to overcome their differences, but this situation and his actions have a lot of red flags for me. It’s worth expressing to him how his actions impacted you. Based on his response to that, you’ll have a sense of how capable he is of empathy. If he doesn’t realize and own up to his mistake I would seriously consider ending the relationship.
You cant have the cake and eat it too…you still young..you may be with him for a long time or it will end in few days if you keep want to explore your choice.. what would you feel, if one fay the person that you really love like crazy are having thought to cheat on you.. surely it's devastating…
You already state that he's a nice guy here..learn to be loyal.. it's worth than any dick atm…
It seems that the worst part of this is that his attraction is conditional. We can't go through our lives being perfect, and it seems like it would be incredibly difficult to be in a relationship that depends on continuing to meet someone's arbitrary standards.
If you're relationship was good otherwise, and this was the expression of a preference – without your intimacy being effected, then I'd be much more reassuring. But the idea of confronting you with this after 6 months should be imho, a deal breaker.
And imho 161 is a perfectly fine and healthy weight for 5'7″, especially if you're active. And if you're eating healthy food, then you're probably stronger and more resilient than most. (and if you want to lose 10 pounds that's perfectly fine – but losing 30 probably wouldn't be good).
That looks so much better than a plane diamond. Diamonds are over rated and over priced. There are awesome Jules out there Look into a beautiful Jule for or wedding ring Kudo to your man for breaking the status quo
OP is evil incarnate, selfish beyind belief, and deserves nothing less than to suffer for the rest of her miserabke life.
Suggest he do some counseling with someone experienced in dealing with autism. There must be strategies for handling discipline that does not include physical violence. My guess is he was subjected to physical discipline as a child and feels it has a place in parent/child relationships.
Maybe there are books available that you can review and chose one and ask him to read it. Having more options can help him move away from hitting.
Bring the house down. Fuck feelings, no one has thought about yours. Sometimes you have to play dirty. Or you could just use your original account and tell the woman what's going on. Hurt, hurts regardless of a holiday. Get it over with. P.S. I am 46 SWF, a southern Belle, cough cough..lol.
Was it a holiday party? Had it been planned for a while?
Communication is a big factor in relationships, you must stress this fact to him. If he's not willing to compromise and work on his communication, and continues to act like this, then it might be best to end things.
Couples Therapy is an option as well, if you both are committed to making it work and last.
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I hope
Her kids, her life, her business and her problem to solve. Just make sure she doesnt tear you down while she tears down herself.
I'm the girl? I just want to be careful
Good job we’re proud of you ???
If you do end up staying with this AH, and you do buy a house with your inheritance:
The deed and mortgage have only your name on it. Leave him with no legal claim to the asset.
Pick out the house you want and can afford on your sole income. The inheritance is to get enough equity in the home that the monthly payments are affordable. If you can't make the payments on your own, then you risk losing the home if/when you break up. Which potentially means losing your inheritance.
I would split the expenses as you pay the mortgage, he pays everything else. You also save and pay for maintenance and upgrades to the home. Again, this protects your investment from any possible claim he might have. (Also check tenancy laws in your area, so you can kick him out quickly and easily if need be.)
Or just leave him on the side of the road, because who needs to carry around a gold digger? You're not Midas.
A real lawyer would know that no judge would accept those terms of a prenup, especially in the event children become an issue
LDR and it's only been 7 months. Honestly I probably wouldn't be “in love” either.
Not everyone is as comfortable emotionally face planting into things. It's fine either way.
If that doesn't work for you then yes, you should break up if your distance issue isn't likely to be resolved in the near future and it's causing stress giving him the time to get there (he might never, who knows)
Sounds like you're ready to move on though which is fair enough.
Wtf dude. Either you're a troll or a massive asshole!
You're offering to send pics of your wife's breasts and have the audacity to complain about what she wants to do with her body.
I'm out of here, no need to feed the trolls.
He likes to see other naked woman apart from you. Now he is addicted. He needs professional help. Porn addiction is a serious issue.
I don't know where you're from, but uncirconcised is first natural, and second, standard
No, I didn't want him sleeping there either
Make sure to get proof since she is your GF best friend so you can’t just willingly make accusations without proof but next time she even remotely tries anything’s get proof and immediately show her. If you just go and tell her with no or off her friend can just keep denying ever trying anything and it will become BF vs Best friend
that's a possibility but he has such a fear of cheating and has always been afraid that I'm gonna breakup with him, and ig it just seems crazy to me if that's whats happening, but it's not something I'll dismiss entirely because I know it can come from someone you least expect.
Oh, so she must know he cheated then?
Just pointing out something very big and disturbing she didn't seem to be worried about initially. This post is likely fake anyhow. It hits all the rage bait points here.
grass is greener syndrome
if you jump, you might find that you went from the frying pan into the fire
Yeah I know the one, I remember it. Its an awful situation honestly
Always pleasant to meet a fan?
what the hell did I just read? He did not have good intentions. He effectively committed kidnapping
I don't even have words if you can't see that this was a terrible thing
I don’t think dating men her age will bring her any more mature men, says me her age and knowing what’s out there.
That’s rough, I don’t think you need to be the one to support them, that just makes them more dependent. Be kind, give their support network a heads up and make sure they are available.
Or fake your death
honestly, try to meet people IRL, bars, parks, coffee shops, dont be scared to walk up to people. the worst someone can say is no. not that ive tried that, my technique for dating was always staring at a guy until he spoke to me. so i don't know, go to random places and stare at people til they notice you. i think the staring thing only works for girls so since you're a guy i would say just talk to them, regardless, the worst someone can do is say no or call you a weirdo. im 24 and have the same fear, my ex bf recently died so obviously im not jumping up and down to date again but im worried im already too old or that when im ready to date again i wont find anyone. the staring method was always very effective for me, hopefully neither of us die alone
Did you live on campus? I'm only saying this because it was normal to see 18-19 year olds with people 21+ a lot at college.
Silence. This is obviously a useless, unhelpful response.
I've witnessed a unicorn today. A woman who wants her spouse to check her when she's being outrageous or embarrassing.
I know it's not the end of the world if we don't talk for 1 day, or even a week if they need to, I don't mind that. But they should be able to communicate that. and it wouldn't have made a difference the way she's done this before is she goes silent for days and ignores my text / call. And the funny thing she would get even more upset if I don't reach out at all for days. and it happened EVERY single time she was upset, it stopped for almost a year and she would instead say something like ' I'm mad at you I don't feel like talking atm '.. then she's done it again. which I saw as really disrespectful.
Well first off OP, you didn’t get rejected. Second. You made your play. Kudos there. You are not one of those guys who hides in a corner wondering what might have happened. Finally. You’re not going to succeed in everything you do. That’s life. Learn from this and move on. You made a boss move and, it would appear, it didn’t pay off (She could have been just totally taken aback by your sudden request). Back in the saddle my friend. Good luck.
From your post, it seems like the household is struggling with money.
“Anything other than essentials are not feasible”.
“We have enough to pay bills but not much else”.
Hobbies aren’t essential. Grow up.
Am I the only one that questions the age gap and her absolute distrust in herself? As soon as she hits 50 he is living off his retirement stuff and she doesnt intend to improve her own life. A forty year old guy impregnated an 18 year old
Glad you’ve finally manned up enough to leave her.
Personally I wouldn’t be able to tolerate that disrespect for even a day. But you’ve dealt with it for years.
I'd be interested to know how the friend asked about you.
Sounds like you've put up with a lot of BS from her and it's time to cut ties. No need to feel guilty about leavin' her hangin' either, she's been lyin' and cheatin' on you multiple times. That's not the behavior of someone who truly loves you and is committed to the relationship. Plus, you got a new job and she just quit hers, so it's not like you're leaving her in the lurch financially. You gotta look out for yourself bro, don't let her manipulate you into stayin' in a toxic relationship. Good luck on your new journey.
It’s a fresh relationship. Tell him you need more time.
It’s a guy thing, we’re very territorial with women
There’s not really much you can do he’s just going to have to get over it or end the relationship…balls in his court
Yeah, exactly, I think that's a very normal way to feel. If your partner has the good fortune to have more than you in certain areas, then you should be happy for them rather than jealous. But I think once you're in a serious live-in relationship you would also expect a loving partner to want to share those things. E.g. paying bills in proportion to salary or doing chores in proportion to free time.
haram 🙁
PPD that developed two weeks ago? Which is 5 years after giving birth? Come on now, maybe she’s just a deadbeat.
You’ve gotten a lot of good advice already, but I’ll still add my two cents.
I think your worries about the relationship say a lot about what’s really happening between the two of you. You have observed how he treats you (as a body, as a sex object) and you don’t feel good about it. You know that an age gap means a power dynamic imbalance, but you’re making excuses for why your relationship is different from other (more obviously unhealthy) age-gap relationships.
Instead of trusting your gut, you’re looking for reassurance that this guy can be everything you want. Why are you doubting yourself? Is it because he tells you what you want to hear? Actions speak louder than words, and his actions have already spoken. LOUDLY.
Please stop making excuses for him. I think you have a good head on your shoulders, but you’re not trusting yourself enough to realize the full severity of your situation. One day in the not too distant future, I absolutely guarantee that you will wake up and be HORRIFIED with the realization that a 30 year old man was attracted to a barely legal teenager.
You have so much life left to live, don’t saddle yourself with a predator. You deserve someone who will love and respect you, and not just see you as a sex-object and trophy.
Oh okay thanks haha
She likes to hold auditions for boyfriends. She ended up choosing you. Enjoy the relationship
Spending money on it is a sign of low intelligence. For it to be an addiction, though he would have to be missing work because of it, or something like that.
Her penance is not done by telling the wife about the affair she benefited from and continued to have symbiotically with this man. It’s not her duty to bring this information to the wife. It’s okay for her to walk away, and she has no obligation to fix it. And she doesn’t need to carry the shame of breaking a marriage that was would’ve been broken regardless if she was in the picture or not. This can get really ugly by personally bringing this information to his wife. “Hey I’ve been screwing your husband for 10 years”. It really is not her cross to bear, and whatever guilt we spectators try to shame her with and impose on her is not absolved.
I think you might be right. I think this next month of my life will really be the deciding factor.
You've been together for a WHILE now – is this something that has just popped up, or is this something that's been dragging at the relationship the whole time?