Pack your shit in the middle of a night, call an Uber, and go home. And then get yourself an education or training, and become financially independent so you’re never in this position again. You’re young enough that this will be nothing but a blip in the timeline of your life. Save yourself now.
Lmao literally an hour ago I saw another post with some insane age gap on this sub. For Christs sake just stop. How many times is a relationship like that actually healthy and successful?
Just insane. Please go back to your parents before this pedo fucking gets you pregnant.
First off, people separate and divorce all the time – life is not absolute as in “you made a vow so too bad, you’re locked in forever now”. Maybe there are some people out there who would rather light themselves on fire to keep someone else warm because they made a vow decades ago, but most people won’t and most people wouldn’t exactly consider that a standard to live up to.
Second, addiction can be treated just like depression can be treated – in theory. And yet, many times treatments fail. There is no failsafe way to treat either and both failure and remissions happen all the time.
Third, being selfish almost inadvertently happens at someone else’s expense. But is that really applicable here? Is it fair to put the wife’s well being entirely on OP? Isn’t she, as an adult, also responsible for her own well-being? What about OP’s well-being? Is it fair to say well if he leaves and she suffers, it’s his fault? I don’t think so.
Never say that because you don’t know who that kid is going to be, he could be Einstein, or Bach. And he or she would need you and love you and will change your life.
I’m so sorry for you…..I would leave him ?
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Pack your shit in the middle of a night, call an Uber, and go home. And then get yourself an education or training, and become financially independent so you’re never in this position again. You’re young enough that this will be nothing but a blip in the timeline of your life. Save yourself now.
Lmao literally an hour ago I saw another post with some insane age gap on this sub. For Christs sake just stop. How many times is a relationship like that actually healthy and successful?
Just insane. Please go back to your parents before this pedo fucking gets you pregnant.
Right? WTF?
First off, people separate and divorce all the time – life is not absolute as in “you made a vow so too bad, you’re locked in forever now”. Maybe there are some people out there who would rather light themselves on fire to keep someone else warm because they made a vow decades ago, but most people won’t and most people wouldn’t exactly consider that a standard to live up to.
Second, addiction can be treated just like depression can be treated – in theory. And yet, many times treatments fail. There is no failsafe way to treat either and both failure and remissions happen all the time.
Third, being selfish almost inadvertently happens at someone else’s expense. But is that really applicable here? Is it fair to put the wife’s well being entirely on OP? Isn’t she, as an adult, also responsible for her own well-being? What about OP’s well-being? Is it fair to say well if he leaves and she suffers, it’s his fault? I don’t think so.
Never say that because you don’t know who that kid is going to be, he could be Einstein, or Bach. And he or she would need you and love you and will change your life.