you should tell him, if you don’t it will be your fault he has nothing to do with your child. if he doesn’t want anything to do with your child that’s on him. and you will be able to explain that to your child when age appropriate. your child also derserves to be financially stable so if you don’t need child support the money he gives could go to a collage fund. most children want to know at some point, and that will start sooner then you think. so when your child is older they will want to know both could blame you. that will don’t be good for anyone involved.
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online boyfriend? You are young and so is he. He is clingy out of fear of losing you. He isn’t confident in himself and that is something that comes from within.
If you are unhappy you should move on. It will help him grow as a person and realize his actions are what cost him his relationship.
You shouldn’t meet him in person if you don’t trust him. This could be a dangerous situation.
Your sister has your back here. While she wasn’t right to do this, she probably saw what was hard for people with rose coloured glasses in the relationship can’t see, which is that your bf has wandering eyes. Dump your bf and thank your sis
Let your fiance know since she finds this wedding not serious then you're going in a T. Rex costume. I'm sure you can be a nice joke to show up at the altar as a T Rex.
I think counseling isn't a bad idea. You have a lot of questions and feelings to get out and a therapist can create a safe space for a dialog. When my parents got divorced they went to a marriage counselor who also did divorce counseling. That way when they realized it wouldn't work out they transitioned into working together to find the best way forward for their kids.
Hi Poly woman here! Everyone who slammed on you is totally out of pocket!! Your feelings are completely valid and fair. It isn’t for everyone and that is absolutely ok 🙂
Im glad you stood your ground and made sure you didn’t sway just to please someone else!
you should tell him, if you don’t it will be your fault he has nothing to do with your child. if he doesn’t want anything to do with your child that’s on him. and you will be able to explain that to your child when age appropriate. your child also derserves to be financially stable so if you don’t need child support the money he gives could go to a collage fund. most children want to know at some point, and that will start sooner then you think. so when your child is older they will want to know both could blame you. that will don’t be good for anyone involved.
Maybe he likes your mom?
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Tbh that’s fair advice, thanks I’ll talk to her about it once she wakes up.
online boyfriend? You are young and so is he. He is clingy out of fear of losing you. He isn’t confident in himself and that is something that comes from within.
If you are unhappy you should move on. It will help him grow as a person and realize his actions are what cost him his relationship.
You shouldn’t meet him in person if you don’t trust him. This could be a dangerous situation.
I know ?
Your sister has your back here. While she wasn’t right to do this, she probably saw what was hard for people with rose coloured glasses in the relationship can’t see, which is that your bf has wandering eyes. Dump your bf and thank your sis
Let your fiance know since she finds this wedding not serious then you're going in a T. Rex costume. I'm sure you can be a nice joke to show up at the altar as a T Rex.
I think counseling isn't a bad idea. You have a lot of questions and feelings to get out and a therapist can create a safe space for a dialog. When my parents got divorced they went to a marriage counselor who also did divorce counseling. That way when they realized it wouldn't work out they transitioned into working together to find the best way forward for their kids.
Hi Poly woman here! Everyone who slammed on you is totally out of pocket!! Your feelings are completely valid and fair. It isn’t for everyone and that is absolutely ok 🙂
Im glad you stood your ground and made sure you didn’t sway just to please someone else!
Proud of you for knowing what it is you want!!!