It just shows your bf is a selfish person and a glimpse of what is in store for you in the future. Things will get worse and not better unless you can get him to understand that you are not satisfied and will negatively impact the relationship.
Don't rug sweep the problem as you are still young and there is still opportunities out there.
Guys almost 30 and he's acting like a damn teenager. What did he expect you'd be cool to just sit around and just “hang out” for the rest of your lives?
If he doesn't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend then he can't be mad if you go off and look for someone who will commit.
Forget it. It's a lost cause. That discussion would be massively uncomfortable and lead nowhere good. That price is much higher than whatever you spent on this lingerie.
If he doesn't find it first, maybe his next girlfriend will stumble across some of it one day. It'll make for a fun conversation!
I 100% will be honest. I guess I was just hoping there was a better way to say it… Like some verbiage I could use that still makes him feel cared for rather than it being his fault somehow. He tends to take any issue and make it his fault, even if I'm apologizing or being accountable too
How could it be for you if she's about to leave? It would grow back in the time she was gone. Why did she choose the trip to do it and not a time when she'd accrual be home?
These are questions you need to ask her but you already seem to know the answer
You remind yourself of the price she paid to be “set for life”. That’s how you handle it.
Look around at your family & friends and ask yourself, “What amount of money would be enough to make it OK if they pass away?”.
Remind yourself that this isn’t “free” money, and what it cost her to get it.
It just shows your bf is a selfish person and a glimpse of what is in store for you in the future. Things will get worse and not better unless you can get him to understand that you are not satisfied and will negatively impact the relationship.
Don't rug sweep the problem as you are still young and there is still opportunities out there.
Dump him. No one should waste any time with a misogynist.
Guys almost 30 and he's acting like a damn teenager. What did he expect you'd be cool to just sit around and just “hang out” for the rest of your lives?
If he doesn't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend then he can't be mad if you go off and look for someone who will commit.
Forget it. It's a lost cause. That discussion would be massively uncomfortable and lead nowhere good. That price is much higher than whatever you spent on this lingerie.
If he doesn't find it first, maybe his next girlfriend will stumble across some of it one day. It'll make for a fun conversation!
I 100% will be honest. I guess I was just hoping there was a better way to say it… Like some verbiage I could use that still makes him feel cared for rather than it being his fault somehow. He tends to take any issue and make it his fault, even if I'm apologizing or being accountable too
How could it be for you if she's about to leave? It would grow back in the time she was gone. Why did she choose the trip to do it and not a time when she'd accrual be home?
These are questions you need to ask her but you already seem to know the answer
But in a Long distance relationship, the line gets blurry. Imagine sitting alone at home and your SO is watching a movie enjoying themselves.
I am not saying anything is done wrongful, only giving a different view to think from.
Absence does not make the heart grow fonder. It will only magnify the smaller issues.