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I hope so
I guess what I’m wondering is, what boundaries has she actually crossed? Because from what you’ve described, she hasn’t done anything outside the bounds of your relationship or to breach your trust. She’s only ever hooked up with women since you got together, and you say you’re fine with that. She was in the house when this guy was having sex with someone else, but she didn’t participate or even try to – she just went back to sleep. So what has she actually done that’s crossing a boundary for you?
Also I’m a bit confused (and this is not a criticism) because you say you just want mutual respect but…how are you not getting that? You say you trust her not to cheat, and she trusts you to do the same. So how are you not getting mutual respect? It seems like you haven’t actually tried to set any boundaries – you’ve told her you’re uncomfortable about certain things, and then expected her to change the parameters of her behaviour and social life to accommodate that without actually asking her to do so, and while insisting you don’t want to change or restrict her. Can you see how that could be confusing for her? You say you don’t want her to stop being friends with this person but if that’s the case, what DO you want? I suggest you try to figure that out and ask for that directly, rather than saying that you feel uncomfortable but also don’t want to force her to change, and then feeling distressed when she does not in fact change.
I have a ten year gap in my relationship. I don’t think you provided enough information to say if things are fine or not though.
It worked really well for us, but I had a career and a lot of power in the relationship that I had to specifically go out of my way to balance.
If I have the house, the money, the resources, and they are still building their life, what’s to stop me from kicking them out randomly one day? What stops me from being a creep?
For me it meant giving them access to my money and my phone. Giving them space I would never violate. Going out my way to support everything they wanted in life whether it was school, work, or volunteering. I always put their needs before mine.
As we’ve been together over the years and they got more agency and ownership of things it’s not as needed as it once was. But I don’t think it would have made it these six years if I didn’t put so much effort into balancing the scales first.
how was i doing that? i asked a valid question.
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There's only one simple answer to this. It all depends on how important it is to you, that your partner is more fiery like you.
Here is an example of a list of values one might consider to look for in a potential partner:
Just a couple examples:
– Emotionally intelligent (emotional, empathy)- Knowledgable and experienced- Handsome/Cute- Loyal/Truthful- Matches your personality- Has long hair or a certain color of eyes- Is a sexual person with a high sex drive / libido- Confident and willing to step up for their partner- Isn't afraid to share their opinion
Now, in the end we all choose for ourselves what we find most important to have in a relationship. Is it really important that we have a hot girlfriend or boyfriend? or is it more important that they are loyal and speak the truth?
Is it important they match our personality?
All these questions are given value by one person. YOU. (and obviously everyone has their own questions) You decide how important it is to you. And to decide whether or not it is a dealbreaker if your partner lacks any of these values.
Don't try to add things to your partner that they don't have. If this truly bothers you and you feel yourself uncomfortable seeing a future with this man, then perhaps you cannot truly accept him for who he is. And that's okay. He may not be the right one for you.
If however you are comfortable with the way things are, then you should learn to let certain expectations go 🙂
Off topic, but do you take Synthroid or generic levothyroxine? Because my pills definitely taste horrible.
These “trends” are a giant red flag waving that paint a picture that your husband is at the very least creepy and, at the worst, displaying sexually predatory behavior. Stop thinking of it like “jokes” because very clearly more than one person in his life has made it clear his “jokes” are uncomfortable and creepy, not funny. Seems like he's testing waters and you're missing that's what he's doing.
Oh no no I was speaking generally. If anything I meant it reassures that I could find this with someone else.