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Date: December 2, 2022
Yeah. I just genuinely don’t get it. She was pouring everything out yesterday, and all of it felt like it was really honest and something that was always in her head, but she then is like “yeah not actually”. I personally feel as though she’s either embarrassed about admitting it and wants to pretend it didn’t happen, or she’s afraid of how it would change things, but idk.
Seriously. What kinda asshole thinks that baby trapping. Having a baby planned is the total opposite of his friends situation and he needs to stop reflecting that shit in you OP. Your not his friends wife your his wife. What a loser. Trying to run from being a father
Sounds like this guy adds literally nothing to your life. He’s already told you he’s not going to change – there is no more hope to hold on to in this relationship. You KNOW you are worth more than this, you’ve just gotta keep telling yourself. Imagine if a friend wrote your post – what would you say to her?
As for the literal how you break up, it depends how long you’ve been together, if you live together, if you don’t do you have any belongings at each other’s places, etc. Personally I think if someone has been inconsiderate of you, it’s fine to break up with them over text. “Hey can we talk?” “Yeah what’s up?” “I’m breaking up with you” that’s all it has to be. If he asks why, reread this post and give him your reasons, and tell him you want someone who will treat you better. If he tries to say he will do better, tell him he has already had his chance and he blew it. If you have stuff at each other’s homes, get his stuff packed and in a box, and arrange a time with him to collect your stuff and drop his off. If you live together, it’s more complicated so I’d probably have a conversation in person to figure out rental agreements, moving out dates etc.
Don’t waste another day of your life on someone you’re not happy with. Just keep imagining it’s a friend going through this situation, and think about what advice you’d give them.
Women’s lives are literally put in danger by forced birth. I don’t understand people ( especially women!) who somehow consider it not a hill to die on. Your mental and physical health could be impacted by a man refusing your bodily autonomy but « not a hill to die on »??? What?
No relationship is “stable” at just three months in and of course it's “beautiful” because you're still very much in the honeymoon phase. But the bottom line is that you're never supposed to limit your own potential for a romantic partner unless you're already married and it's real investment in staying married (because there are actual stakes in that scenario). So if you can stay local and still do your MA that would be a good compromise. You can't, however, just not fulfill your potential over a guy. Try to make your plans accordingly.
Is it possible that he's an introvert?
He may not realise it himself, but he might just need a lot more time alone than most people do. It would explain why he can be nice and welcoming when you're together for a couple of days, but he becomes “cold” and more distant when you're there for a month.
At 23, he may lack some insight into his own nature and not realise what's going on. And it may be that he's too different from you to be able to resolve the issue. But it could be worth having a conversation with him about it.
If your needs aren't met on the same level he is met, then you stop. Talk it out, and if he doesn't change, stop giving him head. If you lack something in the relationship that is his responsibility to meet and he isn't motivated to do anything about it, you will need to move on.
Don't let him use you for only his benefits, and you are left in the dust.