I am SHOCKED that a man with fertility issues would proceed to make it his wife's problem. Shocked. Well, not that shocked. Actually I'm barely surprised at all. Actually I assumed it was all about some dude's insecurity from the beginning. Actually I was being entirely sarcastic
I was going to say the same thing. Kids are an absolute no no at this point. Between the depression and pain adding a child will make this nightmare so much worse. She can't cook and he's cooking after 12 hours. She in no way can care for a child.
There's a good chance he never really did this out of the kindness of his heart. I know that doesn't help you now but it might in the long run to understand he may never have just wanted to be your friend.
You don't want a friend like this anyway.
Regardless, you have nothing to be sorry about. You can ask him why he can't just be your friend but some guys simply cannot be friends with women. They never learned how.
For what it's worth distancing from you is probably for the best. I hope he doesn't feel as if you owe him anything because you don't owe him a relationship.
As painful it is to hear, that's really the best you can do. Let her go and hope she finds it in her heart to forgive you and give you a second chance. Love isn't enough for a relationship, it needs trust more, if not just as much. And that's what you broke. Put it this way, if you're a relationship with you, would you be able to fully trust you ever again?
If her forgiveness never comes, then learn from this and be better on your next relationship.
I am SHOCKED that a man with fertility issues would proceed to make it his wife's problem. Shocked. Well, not that shocked. Actually I'm barely surprised at all. Actually I assumed it was all about some dude's insecurity from the beginning. Actually I was being entirely sarcastic
I was going to say the same thing. Kids are an absolute no no at this point. Between the depression and pain adding a child will make this nightmare so much worse. She can't cook and he's cooking after 12 hours. She in no way can care for a child.
What about being busy woke you up to this realization?
There's a good chance he never really did this out of the kindness of his heart. I know that doesn't help you now but it might in the long run to understand he may never have just wanted to be your friend.
You don't want a friend like this anyway.
Regardless, you have nothing to be sorry about. You can ask him why he can't just be your friend but some guys simply cannot be friends with women. They never learned how.
For what it's worth distancing from you is probably for the best. I hope he doesn't feel as if you owe him anything because you don't owe him a relationship.
Well, there you. She said it herself, let her go.
As painful it is to hear, that's really the best you can do. Let her go and hope she finds it in her heart to forgive you and give you a second chance. Love isn't enough for a relationship, it needs trust more, if not just as much. And that's what you broke. Put it this way, if you're a relationship with you, would you be able to fully trust you ever again?
If her forgiveness never comes, then learn from this and be better on your next relationship.