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Pope & Jake, 23 y.o.
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Date: October 19, 2022
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I have seen fewer men ruin their lives quicker…
Why are you in a relationship that is so demeaning? That is not good for your health. Please dump him ASAP!
But she’s also expecting him to give up his current lifestyle to prioritize living with her, and only thinking about what she wants…in addition to asking him to give up his house, when we’re living through a literal housing crisis. That’s a significantly larger “ask” than what he’s asking of her. They’ve only been together 1 year, have never lived together, and she’s already pushing for him to sell his house to live in a rented apartment? That’s kind of a huge red flag.
She could still enjoy her city lifestyle if OP moved in with her on a trial basis, but kept his house. Someone asking me to sell my house that early in a relationship would make question a lot of things, tbh.
Yes, he is.
That's what boy- and girlfriends do – grab body parts without specifically asking. You are probably not there yet, despite using the word.
Looks like your approaches to how much verbal you should be about sexual moves do not match. If you both decided to go with it maybe it worth discussing.
So now, a little bit information about why things went down.
He had recently started pursuing his dream career in cooking after giving up university, which I supported emotionally even though I and his family were against that. I myself have a master’s degree and even though my family did not approve of him because of his education they respected my feelings and did not engage in my relationship negatively.
I have never had problems with that. I was even the first one to support him into going to culinary school. I loved him from the bottom of my heart and I strongly believed that we could achieve everything as long as we were together and loved each other the way we did.
Things turned bad after the two families met to talk about the future and the engagement. Since we have talked about me moving in with him in the country where he and his parents lived after the wedding my mother asked if there was a job for him with decent income to provide for us since he doesn’t have a degree and with not that much working hours because I will be alone, jobless in a foreign country and if there is a definite place where we will live. Their only answer was that it will be managed with time. And his mother started silently crying. Got up without excusing herself and went to the bathroom. When we asked what happened she made up some excuse. It turned out later that she cried because my mom said he didn’t have a degree.
After that he went back to work and when we were talking he was cold again. When I asked him what the problem was he suddenly snapped, he told me that my mother made his mother cry and made up some scenario of how when we get married I will be living my life according to my family and if I can’t say “no” to them he would have to do it and this will lead to me seeing them only on holidays twice a year. He asked me if I could live like that. I told him that if he disliked my family for whatever reasons he is not obliged to see or be engaged with them but nothing can stop me from doing so. He then asked me if I wouldn’t be uncomfortable being with him in a situation like that. I said there was no reason for him to think about things like that because my family wouldn’t do anything to make me unhappy. I said I loved him. Then he suggested we set love aside and use logic. And told me that he would make a decision that would save us a lifetime of unhappiness. I could not believe it, so I asked him several times in case I misunderstood what he was telling me. I asked if he was making me choose between him and my family. He said yes and no. And told me to think about it. I was in shock. There were things I didn’t like about his parents too but I kept to myself because I didn’t want to upset him. And he was doing THIS over an imaginary situation.
I was so distressed. We didn’t talk for several days. He didn’t have the time to call me because he was at work and was being cold again. I could not comprehend the fact that when I was supposed to choose a cake for my engagement I had to choose between the love of my life and a life without my parents. There was actually nothing to think about. When he called and we met up, I had already made my decision. Then he said he didn’t mean any of this and it turned out like that because he was stressed from work and he didn’t even remember some of the things he said. He said he never meant to break up no matter what he said. But I could not believe how someone who said that loved me has ever even had the thought of making me choose something like that. I couldn’t trust him anymore. I was scared. What if he snapped again in the future where I am far away with no one to go to for something I haven’t done and didn’t remember it afterwards?
The reason for my fear of him snapping was actually because in the very beginning of our relationship we had a disagreement and he got pretty angry. It felt like he was a totally different person. He wasn’t abusive trying to hit me or anything but the way he talked and his facial expression made me pretty anxious and uncomfortable. And I told him the that I was scared of him. This time it was the same.
And when we were breaking up and saying farewell I was deeply hurting but I still had this strange feeling of fear towards him.
I feel so empty and sad. Why did he do this to us? All the time I thought he was my soulmate. I am deeply grieving all the love I have that has no longer a place to go.
There isn’t a single day when I don’t think of him. I cried for two months straight. I have been feeling a bit better lately but still get the urge to cry a lot. All the good memories come flashing back and I feel like all my dreams for the future are shattered and I will never be able to love and be loved like this again. There is a huge hole in my heart that feels like can’t be filled with anything no matter how hard I try. I can’t even get myself to talk to other boys that like me let alone start going on dates. It feels like I am comparing them to him and no one seems to be better. Everyone around me is either getting married or in a happy relationship and I just feel lost and terrible. My heart aches every single day. Will it ever get better?
Run! This is one of the red flags when someone is starting to show there abusive self. They will start on your self esteem, then remove you support system , family and friends by having a issue with them all. Then when they have you all to themselves, they can do whatever they want to you. So run! Faster than Bolt himself.
Electricians and other trades around here make over 100k a year. Also tend to be self reliant and can make their own home repairs.
God forbid someone should support their partner.
Lol. Mine was “database” when I still lived with my parents and couldn't afford my own computer.