Make sure you save all the messages she's sent you where she's harassing you. Tell her you'll want a paternity test if she decides to keep the baby but that you won't have a relationship with her. If she threatens to hurt herself, tell her you're sorry she feels that way and that you're calling 911 to do a wellness check on her and then actually call them. Look up what is required for an order of protection in your area and follow through with one if you are able. Keep it civil, you don't want to go off on her and have her accuse you of anything you didn't do. Don't meet with her in person or have someone you trust with you if you are meeting her in person. Don't take these things lightly, she could continue to escalate if she doesn't face any consequences. Hopefully she'll back off once she sees you're bringing law enforcement into the mix. Good luck, OP!
Break up with him and do not have any physical contact with him whatsoever. You need to know ASAP how best to get him out and what not to do to make it legally worse so get advice from a lawyer right way and follow it that advice. Do not let empathy cloud your judgement with this man you can give your sympathy to others that deserve it more later. He needs to know its done and he needs to know that staying will no longer be an option.
Maybe I am not the best at it but I actually enjoy fingering and going down on her. I do at least one of these every time we have sexual activity and I make sure she always finishes. I do not just look forward to satisfy only myself, it's selfish and would make me feel guilty if she doesn't finish herself too.
In fact, this post isn't about me being frustrated about her not wanting to fuck me but rather because she does not want any kind of sexual activity. Most times we don't even have sex when we have sexual activity, it's more of mutual masturbation or oral which I do not mind. Don't judge how I am in bed based on my other posts.
We talk about kinks and likes of each other. We even sext throughout the day. I assure you, she likes it when we do it, though I need to have this talk with her.
That erectile dysfunction was very short lived, I got my boner back the next day after making the post lol.
I can understand that the pregnancy scares might have repelled her from sexual activity, it's actually my best bet as of yet. It could also be due to stress as we both have our finals right now.
Thanks for your advice, looks like I will just have to talk with her and find the problem out.
Make sure you save all the messages she's sent you where she's harassing you. Tell her you'll want a paternity test if she decides to keep the baby but that you won't have a relationship with her. If she threatens to hurt herself, tell her you're sorry she feels that way and that you're calling 911 to do a wellness check on her and then actually call them. Look up what is required for an order of protection in your area and follow through with one if you are able. Keep it civil, you don't want to go off on her and have her accuse you of anything you didn't do. Don't meet with her in person or have someone you trust with you if you are meeting her in person. Don't take these things lightly, she could continue to escalate if she doesn't face any consequences. Hopefully she'll back off once she sees you're bringing law enforcement into the mix. Good luck, OP!
Break up with him and do not have any physical contact with him whatsoever. You need to know ASAP how best to get him out and what not to do to make it legally worse so get advice from a lawyer right way and follow it that advice. Do not let empathy cloud your judgement with this man you can give your sympathy to others that deserve it more later. He needs to know its done and he needs to know that staying will no longer be an option.
Maybe I am not the best at it but I actually enjoy fingering and going down on her. I do at least one of these every time we have sexual activity and I make sure she always finishes. I do not just look forward to satisfy only myself, it's selfish and would make me feel guilty if she doesn't finish herself too.
In fact, this post isn't about me being frustrated about her not wanting to fuck me but rather because she does not want any kind of sexual activity. Most times we don't even have sex when we have sexual activity, it's more of mutual masturbation or oral which I do not mind. Don't judge how I am in bed based on my other posts.
We talk about kinks and likes of each other. We even sext throughout the day. I assure you, she likes it when we do it, though I need to have this talk with her.
That erectile dysfunction was very short lived, I got my boner back the next day after making the post lol.
I can understand that the pregnancy scares might have repelled her from sexual activity, it's actually my best bet as of yet. It could also be due to stress as we both have our finals right now.
Thanks for your advice, looks like I will just have to talk with her and find the problem out.
I love how cute and clumsy and wholesome this post is.
Also, I identify with OP. Sometimes it'll be weeks later that I realized someone was flirting with me.