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Date: October 6, 2022
i respect your story although it doesn’t really help me with mine haha, but yeah ive been talking to other people lately and getting close to another girl it’s definitely helping a lot. i do thing putting too many rules on a friendshio is weird when you end up having 30% of your lives that you just cant talk about
Where does her money go?
Thanks a bunch
The different desires is something I haven’t heard before so thank you! I will definitely look into that. I would say 90% of our sex is very fulfilling, fun, and exciting. The other 10% is when it feels rushed or I am feeling down about not having sex in forever. Thank you for the more positive outlook on this situation
You said you smoke in your car, that’s an enclosed space
Needs more context, as long as it wasn’t inappropriate that’s fine imo. I’m married and my husband and I both have friends/coworkers/acquaintances of the opposite sex that we chat with from time to time or send memes to. Flirting, thrust trap replies, or other sketch behaviour is a no-go though.
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Some random thoughts I had when reading your post. All or none of this might matter:
Your boyfriend not caring about an anniversary is, in itself, not saying that he is caring less about you than you about him. Some people just don't care about these dates (or birthdays or Christmas or Valentine's Day or whatever).
It can be both true that your boyfriend has memory problems/genuinely forgot and also didn't really care, thus him not making enough effort to remember the date.
I notice a great disconnect when it comes even to the planning of the day:
I made the reservations a month in advance.
I had plans not just for dinner but for other stuff I wanted to do with him during the day as well.
It doesn't read like this anniversary was something he was involved in in any way or form. You were the one making all the reservations, you were the one planning everything and filling it with things you wanted to do. I don't see him involved at all. Did you ever communicate with him about the day and if he wants to contribute/what he wants to do? Because I feel like this is where everything already went wrong.
If you asked him what he wanted to do and he just said “I don't really care”, well, then there was your answer: He really just doesn't care about your anniversary. Again, that doesn't have to mean that he also doesn't care (or cares less) about the relationship and you as a whole, but seeing how this was clearly important to you and thus, it should matter to him at least for that reason, it might still be true.
However, if you just… never asked him or tried to involve him in the planning, then that's where the issue lies: If he already has memory problems, then being involved would have clearly helped. Also it seems strange to me that an anniversary wouldn't be about what both people want to do, but what just one wants to do and the other “has” to go along with it.
Overall, I feel like this whole date wasn't tackled by you two as a couple. No clue if that was his fault or your fault, but in the end, that already says a lot. You two aren't really aware of each other at all – you both did your thing (you planning frantically and making the whole thing in your head to this overly huge event while he clearly cared very little) and didn't notice how the other person was in a very different headspace regarding this.
This is a very clear communication fail. You should have sat down together and talked about what each of you wanted from the day. From “Hey, which restaurant do you want to go to?” to “I don't really want to go out at all and would rather just stay in” to “Let's meet up at 7pm” – no matter what, plans for an important day should be made as a team, both people should know what is happening when and at which time and place. If that's not happening, then, well… then the event of “an anniversary of the couple” has shown that the two people involved aren't acting as a couple/partners/teammates. And that means that something is wrong in the relationship.