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Date: December 14, 2022
I would probably first talk about it with someone I trust. Get all the tears out. Maybe write about it, maybe talk to a therapist. Therapists can be helpful for sorting through the emotions, deciding on whether to confront, and role playing the conversation (I have done this myself for my own parents). Process the emotions and then write a list of simple questions you want to know. If there are boundaries you think you need to set with your mom (e.g., her not asking you to help with the quincenera anymore), then write those down too.
Then I would just ask her those questions. Then you can explain how it was hurtful to you because of what it was like for you when you were younger. You can say it felt as though when she refused the quincenera she rejected you as a daughter, but then embraced your cousin by going dress shopping and everything. You can say you wonder if she is doing purposely doing this to hurt you.
I would expect her to argue back and have her reasons. If you feel yourself getting to emotional or like it's escalating too much and you're not able to actually listen, process, and respond — then tell her that you think you've both said how you felt and you think it's better to pause the conversation and think more about it later. This is where you also set whatever boundary you need to have set.
I've had conversations with my parents where I felt like I was proud of myself for how I handled it, but ultimately was very disappointed in what felt like a poor outcome at the time — it wasn't until years later I realized agreement isn't the only good outcome, and what people take away from a conversation can take years for them to process and enact. I think it's still worth having the conversation to atleast hear the different perspective, challenge it directly, and most importantly, to set my own boundaries. I have a fulfilling relationship with both of my parents now that's definitely not easy (messy family history), but I've been able to make the relationships work for me and to be in a healthier space now as an adult through these types of conversations and boundary settings.
Break it off before Christmas. There’s no use delaying the inevitable.
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My friend who I love asked my for $20,000 for cancer treatment. Only trick is he is married and has recently tried to fix his marriage. I'm conflicted on what I should do because I tend to ignore or refrute any advice I am given on this sub……
She is only remorceful she got caught and now has to face the concequences. Think back to everytime she said “I love you” she said this knowing what she did, everytime she kissed and hooked up with you she knew what she had done. Why would you want to be with someone like that? I know it hurts man, but you're better off without her
Fair enough
How is someone asking you to get naked manipulating you?
All of a sudden she forgot she had a husband? God, people are so dense.
Honestly OP, there comes a time when you have to admit defeat and you did. It was in your best interest. You cannot fix this woman, but you can do what needs to be done for yourself, which was removing yourself from the situation. You tried to work things out and she didn't want to. You're doing what's best for you, which a lot of people won't do because it can be hard. I think you did the right thing in blocking her. At this point, just stand your ground if she tries to get in contact with you again.
There's a couple things here; first, did anything happen in your room? You didn't mention that. Or wait, did she immediately say no and get angry? We need that clarity.
As for drinking, is she not an adult? Did she not have her own agency and make a decision to drink? Now, before anyone reads that statement and applies it to what could happen after, understand that I'm focusing exclusively on the act of drinking and nothing else. If you forced alcohol down her throat, yeah, you should be arrested.
But logically you two just were hanging out, drinking and having fun. When we move onto what happens next, what's important here is the context isn't that you two weren't drinking where then you started making potentially suggestive moves; the hand under the shirt. Getting on top of you. You didn't do those things; she did. If it was you, then I'd absolutely be able to find her premise as a real possibility.
The reality of this situation is that she's upset with herself for letting go of her inhibitions and doesn't want to come to terms with it, so she's blaming you like you took advantage of her (and it would have gotten worse). That's honestly fucked up. It's a serious accusation to suggest. Unless you're lying to us here, if we're to assume we're being honest, someone you consider a close friend seems to believe that you'd rape her. Pretty crazy.
So again, unless you're lying, I don't understand how you hurt her. The only malice occurring is what she's saying right now. What you need to do right now is nothing. Don't apologize (you didn't do anything). Don't beg for her to let you fix things; nothing's broken. If I'm you, I might consider talking to your parents about this, and then I'd also talk to your friends about it to get ahead of it. Good luck.