She’s seeing someone else. If she’s upset because you’d like to get updates, something is wrong. If there’s been no change in your behavior towards her, and she suddenly is offended you want to be updated, she’s hiding something. I’d dump her.
There’s more red flags here than at the CCP conference.
Lovebombing you with a proposal after 4 months, negging you over your abortion 7 years ago… ruuuuun. He’s playing mind games and at your age you need to have more about you and recognise this abusive behaviour
I get that you the way you met influenced the age gap, and really in the scheme I wouldn't normally say boo about a 26 and 35 yr old, but it isn't surprising either. You are continuing to grow and mature and he is… stuck. It doesn't usually get better from here, he'd have to want to change. He actively searches out partners who are at his maturity level and you've grown past him.
Over 100 response here and no one is in support of you. This is also the responses you have received irl. When do you realize that you are a terrible wife?
Stop talking about it. He’s getting off by torturing you. TELL your fiancée that he will not be admitted if he is dressed inappropriately. The end. Do not engage further with her, him or their parents about it.
Make arrangements with the venue, hire security (without telling anyone), do whatever makes you comfortable on your day.
She’s seeing someone else. If she’s upset because you’d like to get updates, something is wrong. If there’s been no change in your behavior towards her, and she suddenly is offended you want to be updated, she’s hiding something. I’d dump her.
There’s more red flags here than at the CCP conference.
Lovebombing you with a proposal after 4 months, negging you over your abortion 7 years ago… ruuuuun. He’s playing mind games and at your age you need to have more about you and recognise this abusive behaviour
Personally I find it weird how everyone is infantilizing a 22 yo. The age gap isn't that bad.
I get that you the way you met influenced the age gap, and really in the scheme I wouldn't normally say boo about a 26 and 35 yr old, but it isn't surprising either. You are continuing to grow and mature and he is… stuck. It doesn't usually get better from here, he'd have to want to change. He actively searches out partners who are at his maturity level and you've grown past him.
Helps, for men especially. Op is controlling af.
Over 100 response here and no one is in support of you. This is also the responses you have received irl. When do you realize that you are a terrible wife?
One can still be attracted to other people even while in a relationship.
Just be professional and keep your distance.
Decoy venue… full of clowns… IT'S PERFECT
Stop talking about it. He’s getting off by torturing you. TELL your fiancée that he will not be admitted if he is dressed inappropriately. The end. Do not engage further with her, him or their parents about it.
Make arrangements with the venue, hire security (without telling anyone), do whatever makes you comfortable on your day.
Oh and fuck your immature asshole BIL.