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Date: October 30, 2022
You need to end it for your own health. He is not your responsibility.
Why wont he take no for an anwer?
To answer this question of yours specifically… because that is who he is as a person. He doesn't take “no” as an answer. He badgers and badgers until he gets his way. You are STILL his f-buddy, so, why stop if he could actually wear you down and get it?
Want it to stop? Cut him off and cut him out. Let him go badger some other f-buddy for it if you don't wish to oblige his fantasy.
You’re describing the cycle of abuse. Manipulative people can’t be terrible all of the time. That wouldn’t keep the target of their manipulation around. The good times are a device to keep you there through the periods of neglect and poor treatment. He has you trained to hang in there through his day to day neglect for the next period of good times. But as you become more trapped (shared property, marriage, children) the good times become shorter and farther between. Because they aren’t needed to keep you where he wants you. Stuck.
This man won’t change. He’ll get worse. And you’ll be caring for an infant alone. I had a wonderful partner and infant care was still the most soul crushingly difficult thing I’ve ever done. You’ll be doing it essentially alone. I would urge you to spend some time in the parenting, marriage, and mom subreddits to get a sense of what life is like for women who married people like your fiancé. They are miserable and full of regret. And now they stay to keep their families together, avoid being forced to sell the family home and figure out custody, admit this was a huge mistake, etc.
Have you ever heard the phrase, “If he wanted to he would.”? He doesn’t. Don’t waste your one precious life marrying someone who doesn’t want to be a partner to you. You’ll deeply regret it.
You described an expectation of exclusivity and an entwinement of financial and emotional resources. That's a description of a long term relationship and I don't want to get into that unless I know he's serious. I'm am quite happy to take the time needed going on dates and talking to him to determine compatibility. If he can't go say 6-12 months without sex while getting to know someone for the sake of a marriage that's on him, he can leave and I'll go on dates with someone else.
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I think yeah that’s a big part of what I struggle with. Wondering what the next thing truth come out to be. And the thing is I never asked him if he watched porn or said it made me uncomfortable he came forward with lies for no reason. There’s other things he says too without me prompting like “I never watch specific people or search for any specific person they’re alway random” and “I never get off to people I can have communication with.” Him saying those things when I didn’t ask makes me suspicious now because of the broken trust