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Date: October 31, 2022
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So today we came home from a dinner party and we had said we had to talk. Basically I told her exactly what you suggested. Sorry I can’t meet your expectations, this me is what you will have to accept or otherwise it’s better to split our ways.
She asked seemed upset angry at first and asked if I had anything else to say. I said I would like to know if she can accept me for who I am. After which there was a long silence and deadly stare from her side. After a while her eyes turned from angry to almost crying after which she asked if there was anything else. Shen then said she would go to shower and go to bed.
That’s the current situation. I think she probably hopes that this will fly over and I won’t bring it up again.. I guess I’ll have to repeat myself again or ask her to make a decision soonish.
What man in his 40s gets into fist fights over some young idiot saying “bitch”?
What?
Are you sure he's not 13? He needs to understand this isn't acceptable behavior. Roll your eyes at stupid kids and walk away.
Your husband is a liar and a cheater. Married earlier this year and he's already cheating. Thinks a lot of you and his marriage doesn't he? Didn't even make it a year. Christ.
Very sorry for you OP. My sympathies next time he goes on a work trip.
Lots of apologizing… did he apologize he didn't even last a year before he cheated on his wife?
OP – the kind of person who could do this to their new spouse is either very cruel, or very damaged. And / or a creep.
Can you share the photos and we will take care from here onwards…
Teach that boy to kiss properly. But don’t tell him he does a bad job. Present it as, “Let me show you how I like to be kissed.”
So everything about these scenarios is ok with you. Either trust him with it or don't. Check your jealousy or take action to prevent it.
If youre happy why are u asking if u ahould look into another man. The answer is easy. Stay with your man, some guys only want things they cant have. He sees you as unobtainable now so hes interested when he wasnt interested before. Dont ruin your happiness and your relationship w your bf so someone can scratch a itch.
If you're not meeting the other guy for sex, why would you ask this twice (in the post and in the comments) in a post about sexual compatibility?
I can't speak for everyone here, but I personally wouldn't suggest cheating is the answer.
You definitely need therapy. It’s probably also not a good idea to be dating someone nine years younger than you, especially since you’re very unclear about what it was you actually did to her to damage the relationship. What is her point of view?
You sound pretty insecure. Its his best friends wife so i assume hes known the guys wife a long time and are also friends. Its normal to text friends? Do you have friends of the opposite sex you text? Have you ever texted his best friend
, you don't know how 1. How she feels about you being a mother (could trigger her jealousy)
That's the one!
Did she like getting fucked by somebody that isn’t you? Damn
Did he initiate before?
You shouldn’t date(?) someone giving ?♂️effort and messages and then want more. This is the dating him package.
I think that as long as you don't understand why she's upset, you haven't yet earned advice for how to handle this situation.
sleep is a human need. be very careful when asserting your needs in the face of something that is basically biological. like, you're gonna shame him for sleeping?
basically it sounds like you're incompatible. you should break up. he can do better.
Ya…I suggest you re-read EVERYTHING you've written on here. It sounds like you have an answer for all of his behaviours you've listed.
In which case why are you asking for opinions.
OP, you didn’t do ANYTHING WRONG!!!!
Cheating: conscious decision to have a new one time or reoccurring act of intimacy that is in violation of a monogamous relationship; Sexual Assault Victim: unfortunately OP, you.
Your bf is manipulating you. From the ‘we will only break up if you want to, bc I know I do dumb shit a lot’ to the ‘come home and WoRk off your lie’.
HE IS NOT THE ONE FOR YOU!!!!!!
You revealed that you were the victim of a heinous crime and he’s gaslighting the shit out of you.
YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THIS!!!!!!!
I’m confused about OP’s relationship. She met the guy on a sugar baby site. He’s 35 and pays for companionship so he’s not relationship material. He payed up at first then started cheaping out on her. At that point he should have been cut loose. OP is a sugar baby so she can be paid to provide companionship not do charity work with man babies. This is like working a crappy job and asking to be paid less than minimum wage.
If you want to think you are overreacting, far be it for me to tell you what to think. However, you are hearing wisdom from people older and wiser than your friends, who know from our own experiences that you are not. Your boyfriend is allowing and encouraging a female co worker cross boundaries. Did you know a majority of the cheating that takes place is with co workers? But by all means, go ahead and keep excusing him and listening to people who don’t have half the experience some of us do here, and feel miserable and shitty about him all the time.
Thank you so much. I think about that too… being with a partner that makes me feel good in the skin I’m in currently. He does try to, but his actions contradict his words sadly. I guess if it keeps on going this way, staying broken up would be best. I’m happy you’re with someone who appreciates and loves you! ?
The only thing I can tell is that I don't think your train of thought is correct. Not because you don't want children mind you, but the reason why that is.
You shouldn't hate yourself, it seems you feel like it you are blaming your character for your parents neglect of you. You should address it on therapy. If the reason why you do not want children only stems from traumatic life you might end up regretting not having them later in life.
Obviously as it is right you are incompatible with your bf.
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I finally found by chance th piece of paper with the login info ro be able to log in and come back here! I can't believe it's been 4 months! thanks again
I finally found by chance th piece of paper with the login info ro be able to log in and come back here! I can't believe it's been 4 months! thanks again
This marriage has been expired for a long time & here are the highlights as to WHY:
we’re both home we’re like boats passing in the fog.
We have sex maybe once a month and she acts like it’s a chore
Also can we talk about this too?
Forcing consent to an open relationship, which is duress/pressure to agree, which is basically cheating if you also didn’t consent and she sprung it on you.
Op, she cheated, she’s unhappy, you two act like roommates and basically have a DeadBedroom.
Time to hit eject button and divorce her.
I mean, this post is sexual in nature. Op is comparing his size to her ex so it's super obvious that he's also comparing their sex life. He could bring up their shared hobbies, her sense of humour etc but it would all be super irrelevant to what he's actually here for and Reddit posts have way too much filler as is
So, if your future wife wants to be taken seriously she has 2 ways to handle this.
1 is to set the boundary and the consequence. She needs to inform her brother that if he arrives in anything other than a tux, then he will be turned away at the door. Inform the rest of her family that you both are hiring security and that this occasion is not a joke to you, it will not be funny to you, and they are not going to change your mind. He will not be at his sister's wedding if he chooses to be an ass. And follow through, no matter what they say or do. If he wants to do a round of FAFO with y'all, then he's going to find out. 2 is to not play the game. Let him in and give him zero reaction. The part that's “funny” is the emotional reaction from the victims, so don't react. Let him look like an idiot ass to everyone that's not his immediate family. It's no reflection on you, it's him and the ones who support him who look bad. Speak of him like he's a charity case and he's only around because you feel sorry for him. It's not fun being mean to someone who doesn't care.
The choice is whatever you decide really. Your boyfriend can’t stop you regardless. But your boyfriend’s concern is warranted and has nothing to do with insecurities. How many stories on Reddit have started out like yours , male roommate just friends the boyfriend who doesn’t want to be controlling or looked at insecure just goes along with it and within a year the girlfriend and roommate are hooking up. So yeah I’m sure if you place yourself in your boyfriend’s shoes, you can see where he is coming from. Hope you guys figure it out ✌?
It's not anywhere near that simple in cases of a man making a woman have a baby. Reproductive coercion and domestic violence are huge barriers to abortion. I've worked with many women who were coerced into not having an abortion under threat of harm to themselves and/or their loved ones, as well as women for whom domestic violence became even more severe during pregnancy and they were too afraid to obtain an abortion. Also women whose partners controlled their every move and finances, making obtaining an abortion something they could not do.
Just because abortion is legal doesn't mean it's possible, safe, or easy.
It means you need to work through your anxiety before you try a relationship
There is probably a prenup in this case
If you report your husband to the police for what he is doing to you, they would tell you he is raping you and would arrest him.
How then is he a great man? Because he makes up by buying you gifts and does a few chores?
I’ve given her an ultimatum of if she’d like to tell me anything that she’s hiding from me she could say it then and there and we could work it out or I’d break up with her. She proceeded to make it seem like I didn’t wanna be with her anymore.
Don’t get attached then.
No I did that and wasted a year chasing and living with a guy who just used me for the gf benefits but not the actually full commitment. OP needs to protect her feelings.
Your Mrs is a pisshead. I'll be honest though pal, nothing will change unless she sees an issue.
OP -I'm sorry you're being emotionally manipulated/blackmailed by a woman who doesn't seem to have a firm grip on reality.
Talk to a lawyer. You are not the only person to find themselves in this situation, so talk with a lawyer. You've already stated your intentions, now follow-thru. Don't waste anymore time on someone who doesn't take the details as seriously as you do. She will drag you down and has already made your life a misery.
Get free if at all possible. Then go live your best life, and if it's only “the best” because you don't have to deal with her anymore -then that's a bonus.
My question is why would you hang out with people who feel comfortable to comment on your GF’s weight? I’m literally running through scenarios in my head trying to figure out who ever dared to comment on my partner’s weight.
And that was grandma! She said he’s so skinny she needs to feed him. To be fair, she said that about every one.
Stop playing into it.
She only “upstages” you if you consider yourself on stage. Stop caring. Stop reacting the way she wants.
Live your life, just stop caring about her weird little games.
That's all the explanation needed. He doesn't have to like it but he does have to accept it, or he is allowed to break up with her.
That's what he is doing.
So what do you bring to the relationship besides wanting to have fun and spend money? Dude sees a real future with you so he's trying to build and your response is “you're boring”.
I don't know if it's cheating or not, but I would not be shocked if this were emotional cheating. He entertained another woman and although they did not meet or anything, he still wanted to see her or whatever.
I don't understand the whole “wasn't taking you seriously” when you guys were already committed to each other. It's a cop-out.
Some people are very good friends with their exes.