Divorce him. He was sending that dick pic to someone who wasn't you – his affair partner. Drunk, he decided to try his luck with your sister while you're pregnant with his child and caring for his older child.
I hate to pile on, yet men who would cheat tend to do so when their partner is pregnant or caring for a young child. The woman does not make him the center of their lives and their jealousy over their own children acts out. I'm very sorry that this happened to you. My mother divorced my cheating father when I was 9 months old. It was hard for her to raise me, I'm sure. She remarried 9 years later, she has great friends and a full life.
My mother waited until I found out my father cheated on my stepmom to tell me why she divorced my father, as she wanted me to have a relationship with my father. It might be a difficult time. Yet you won't be worrying about him and can raise your children the way that you want to. The only thing to work out would be shared custody.
Divorce him. He was sending that dick pic to someone who wasn't you – his affair partner. Drunk, he decided to try his luck with your sister while you're pregnant with his child and caring for his older child.
I hate to pile on, yet men who would cheat tend to do so when their partner is pregnant or caring for a young child. The woman does not make him the center of their lives and their jealousy over their own children acts out. I'm very sorry that this happened to you. My mother divorced my cheating father when I was 9 months old. It was hard for her to raise me, I'm sure. She remarried 9 years later, she has great friends and a full life.
My mother waited until I found out my father cheated on my stepmom to tell me why she divorced my father, as she wanted me to have a relationship with my father. It might be a difficult time. Yet you won't be worrying about him and can raise your children the way that you want to. The only thing to work out would be shared custody.
Get an attorney and tell them your concerns. They will be able to advise you on the best way to handle things. I think moving out and having her served would likely be best, but IANAL. If she makes a threat, call for a wellness check. Don't take phone calls from her when you leave, let her text (IMO, again rely on an attorney).
My boyfriend moved in with a female friend when we first started dating and I didn’t care, I was later a bridesmaid at her wedding too because we became good friends ?♀️ Not everyone has all these hangups about being friends with different genders.
He held you down, and choked you, in order to penetrate you without your consent. This is violent rape. Have you showered? If not, consider going to the hospital, and having a rape kit done. It will be invasive, but it will give you options. Do not delete any texts. Put in writing that he choked you in order to get his way, after you said no multiple times. See if he’ll admit it via text. I am just so so sorry. You deserved so much better honey. Please don’t go back to him, and don’t be intimate with him ever again. Hell think this is okay.
Thank you very much, I know I’ve got to do it and soon, it’s just finding the time to do it… fridays/saturdays are the most convenient days, I just need to shake that fear and do it
Send screenshots of all of it to yourself. Don’t ever leave him alone around any of your little cousins and do not have kids with him. He isn’t wonderful he’s a pedo
Rip it off and move on.
This is what happens when u date foreigners
Dude, do you really think saying “$5 says he's gay” is a good way to convey that “there's nothing wrong with it at all” ?
People say “$5 says he's gay” when they make fun of someone, not when they are saying it's ok to be gay.
The baby in your womb is not “your body.” It has separate DNA than you. You're essentially giving it a piggyback ride.
Divorce him. He was sending that dick pic to someone who wasn't you – his affair partner. Drunk, he decided to try his luck with your sister while you're pregnant with his child and caring for his older child.
I hate to pile on, yet men who would cheat tend to do so when their partner is pregnant or caring for a young child. The woman does not make him the center of their lives and their jealousy over their own children acts out. I'm very sorry that this happened to you. My mother divorced my cheating father when I was 9 months old. It was hard for her to raise me, I'm sure. She remarried 9 years later, she has great friends and a full life.
My mother waited until I found out my father cheated on my stepmom to tell me why she divorced my father, as she wanted me to have a relationship with my father. It might be a difficult time. Yet you won't be worrying about him and can raise your children the way that you want to. The only thing to work out would be shared custody.
Divorce him. He was sending that dick pic to someone who wasn't you – his affair partner. Drunk, he decided to try his luck with your sister while you're pregnant with his child and caring for his older child.
I hate to pile on, yet men who would cheat tend to do so when their partner is pregnant or caring for a young child. The woman does not make him the center of their lives and their jealousy over their own children acts out. I'm very sorry that this happened to you. My mother divorced my cheating father when I was 9 months old. It was hard for her to raise me, I'm sure. She remarried 9 years later, she has great friends and a full life.
My mother waited until I found out my father cheated on my stepmom to tell me why she divorced my father, as she wanted me to have a relationship with my father. It might be a difficult time. Yet you won't be worrying about him and can raise your children the way that you want to. The only thing to work out would be shared custody.
Get an attorney and tell them your concerns. They will be able to advise you on the best way to handle things. I think moving out and having her served would likely be best, but IANAL. If she makes a threat, call for a wellness check. Don't take phone calls from her when you leave, let her text (IMO, again rely on an attorney).
My boyfriend moved in with a female friend when we first started dating and I didn’t care, I was later a bridesmaid at her wedding too because we became good friends ?♀️ Not everyone has all these hangups about being friends with different genders.
He held you down, and choked you, in order to penetrate you without your consent. This is violent rape. Have you showered? If not, consider going to the hospital, and having a rape kit done. It will be invasive, but it will give you options. Do not delete any texts. Put in writing that he choked you in order to get his way, after you said no multiple times. See if he’ll admit it via text. I am just so so sorry. You deserved so much better honey. Please don’t go back to him, and don’t be intimate with him ever again. Hell think this is okay.
Thank you very much, I know I’ve got to do it and soon, it’s just finding the time to do it… fridays/saturdays are the most convenient days, I just need to shake that fear and do it
Send screenshots of all of it to yourself. Don’t ever leave him alone around any of your little cousins and do not have kids with him. He isn’t wonderful he’s a pedo
I'd discuss this with your BF first and foremost as, honestly, he's the only person that matters.
Let him know the seriousness of what she's said and done to you personally. How there's no way you can forgive that. How she's done worse to others.
Then ask if he's going to support you and back you… or if family is more important.
Because if you have all these reasons and he still want to play the middle? Then he's not supporting you.
If you let him know boldly that you'll never forgive her and that it's a deal breaker if he does? Then the decision becomes his.
Without his support? Without his backing? he's going to play peace keeper and you're going to be stuck in the middle.
Hopefully once you give him a no-deal-possible line in the sand? he'll realize the seriousness of your attitude.
The question is what's more important to him? Emily… or you.
Bro it was a little awkward I’m not gonna lie?. That’s why I stopped too cause idk it would’ve been weird to continue