The painful part is idk how someone can be “better” without just being a different person. I take care of him really well and feel like I should be checking all of the boxes. I’m also receptive to feedback so I’m not even stuck in my ways.
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It's your girlfriend man. You're supposed to be able to talk about stuff like that. As long as you don't sound judgmental or salty about it, you should be fine. Just assure her that you're just wondering about it.
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Hey, i didn’t say it’s good advice, i just said you would get your way…i’m not here giving out good or bad advices, i’m just telling how to get your way, you decide what is good bad for you
I’d rather he tell me. I’d want to know if someone I loved was assaulted. You don’t have to tell her you got off, but it might be important to tell her that someone touched you without your consent. Just because that’s a pretty serious thing.
I literally never said what she did was okay. Are you illiterate? Your original comment said “that’s a pretty whack gift to get from a spouse in my opinion…just nude pictures of the other person. Is it just me or is that pretty tasteless.” In that comment you do not mention the OP or his wife at all. Does or does this not imply that you think any nude photos are tasteless as a gift to a spouse? I AGREED with you and said the way OP went about it is tasteless. We don’t know OP’s wife, so it’s hard to speak on her intent. I’m done arguing with someone who is arguing the same point with me and who clearly cannot read or comprehend basic English.
The painful part is idk how someone can be “better” without just being a different person. I take care of him really well and feel like I should be checking all of the boxes. I’m also receptive to feedback so I’m not even stuck in my ways.
She said she fixed that problem but he still doesn’t want to be intimate.
Are you in therapy for your anxiety?
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You only have her side of everything. There could be very valid reasons why she has no relatives speaking with her at the moment.
Shouldn’t you be putting it on my husband to find time to make sure his dogs who’ve been in his life longer than me, are comfortable around his child?
I think that’s how ill approach it actually. Thanks for the inspiration.
She cheated on me…. I knew I was right….
It's your girlfriend man. You're supposed to be able to talk about stuff like that. As long as you don't sound judgmental or salty about it, you should be fine. Just assure her that you're just wondering about it.
Right? It doesn’t mean “I regret my decision”
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He told you he's not good at relationships.
Sounds like he's pretty tuned in to the situation.
Knowing this, you have a few options.
I wish I had more upvotes to give this comment. DEAD. NUTS. ON.
Hey, i didn’t say it’s good advice, i just said you would get your way…i’m not here giving out good or bad advices, i’m just telling how to get your way, you decide what is good bad for you
I’d rather he tell me. I’d want to know if someone I loved was assaulted. You don’t have to tell her you got off, but it might be important to tell her that someone touched you without your consent. Just because that’s a pretty serious thing.
I literally never said what she did was okay. Are you illiterate? Your original comment said “that’s a pretty whack gift to get from a spouse in my opinion…just nude pictures of the other person. Is it just me or is that pretty tasteless.” In that comment you do not mention the OP or his wife at all. Does or does this not imply that you think any nude photos are tasteless as a gift to a spouse? I AGREED with you and said the way OP went about it is tasteless. We don’t know OP’s wife, so it’s hard to speak on her intent. I’m done arguing with someone who is arguing the same point with me and who clearly cannot read or comprehend basic English.
Fool me once, strike one. Fool me twice, strike three.
Good point
I don’t understand… do you want to stay with him?? No pissing in 9 months that you know of