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Luke and Isabella, 22 y.o.
Location: California, United States
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Date: January 4, 2023
Life is almost never black and white, and usually operates in the Grey. Anyone that tells you to break up or stick it out unequivocally is either pulling from personal experience or discerning too in depth from your post.
First, you all are both very young. I can’t speak to relative maturity levels. However, life experience wise, you’re both immature. Is this your only “real” relationship thus far? How about for him?
Second, have you considered his side of things? I’m not condoning bigotry towards others or his asinine commentary towards you. I’m also not saying you’ve done anything wrong. However, he loves you as you are right now. The future of you becoming different than you are currently is most likely frightening and hard to imagine for him. He may have issues with transgender people. But he may also be struggling to cope with the idea of his partner fundamentally changing. Not to mention the drastic shift in relationship dynamics, sex life, his individual conception of gender and sexuality.
Third, while it is important to plan, we have to live in the present. If he makes you happy while also being supportive, then it isn’t a negative situation necessarily. Unfortunately though, a lot of relationships have shelf lives. When you do have gender reassignment surgery, you might need to reevaluate or surround yourself with positive people.
At the end of the day, be yourself and surround yourself with people that support your true identity. However, if you truly care about him, it’s important to realize this is a complex situation with many different factors. He may be transphobic. Or he may just be struggling with the idea of you being different and your relationship changing. Or he may love you regardless of your gender, but no longer be attracted to you physically once you transition.
Just communicate. Involve a third party if necessary. Set boundaries. Be yourself. Strive for joy. And live in the present.
Logically it makes sense. Emotionally it does not. Because statistics around about your personal relationship but everyone else.
Imagine you are a man who proposes to your SO and she turned you down because 50% of marriages end in divorce (or some other large figure; I haven’t fact-checked). It’s not about logic of the statistic. It’s that she would say that your unique relationship is a statistic.
And in this hypothetical, it could be absolutely anyone’s fault for divorce. In a paternity test, it’s way more insulting because the only way that statistic would work would be if the woman is a cheating scumbag.
Exactly. Same here ! I may have talked to her but with all that evidence…hey I understand
Some women can. This is absolutely untrue for a lot of women.
If op says she likes it, there's no reason to think she's lying. But it's equally as silly to blanket statement women enjoy and feel pleasure from it.
Anecdotally, only one woman I know actually feels pleasure from it. Everyone else finds it either uncomfortable or just unpleasant.
I’m surprised everyone was harping on OP when her husband is being a complete dick. She has a little something for herself whilst she accommodated everyone he shits ALLLLL over it and people are glossing over this. I mean when people treat their spouses like this and I’m supposed to believe they respect each other. I feel so sad for OP