Hi, OP. Thanks for the update. I have not forgotten about you and am grateful that you shared your update.
I totally get your confusion and the difficulties you're having in deciding where to go with this relationship. I do not have a daughter myself but something I tell young women is that I believe it's important to spend time NOT being in a relationship. This time alone best prepares you to gain confidence in your independence. In my view, this is especially critical for women because it enables you recognize and avoid being trapped in relationships with guys who try to control you. It also helps you not stay in relationships that you know in your heart have no future but you choose to stay anyway out of the fear of being on your own.
I suspect you both are having difficulty ending your relationship even though you both know it's on life support at this point, and that fear of what lies beyond may be what's keeping you both from moving on. Don't let the fear of being on your own keep you trapped in an unfulfilling relationship. Rather, embrace the idea of being on your own so you can work on being a strong and independent woman because that inner strength and independence will one day attract the right guy at the right time for you.
I want you to do something…for me. Please google and listen to the song, “Fear is a Liar” by Zach Williams. And when you're done listening to it, listen to it again while reading the lyrics. Please do this and then tell fear to get lost! Still have you in my prayers, young lady.
convictions are by no means the only pain in false accusations. His life could be torched (given the religious nature I'm going to assume his family/friends are also similarly aligned). His name being dragged through the mud could lead to a total social shun immediately, regardless of truth.
Why did they only test one of your children and not all 4? It seems odd that out of the blue they'd accuse you of cheating and not test all children
That’s hot
Hi, OP. Thanks for the update. I have not forgotten about you and am grateful that you shared your update.
I totally get your confusion and the difficulties you're having in deciding where to go with this relationship. I do not have a daughter myself but something I tell young women is that I believe it's important to spend time NOT being in a relationship. This time alone best prepares you to gain confidence in your independence. In my view, this is especially critical for women because it enables you recognize and avoid being trapped in relationships with guys who try to control you. It also helps you not stay in relationships that you know in your heart have no future but you choose to stay anyway out of the fear of being on your own.
I suspect you both are having difficulty ending your relationship even though you both know it's on life support at this point, and that fear of what lies beyond may be what's keeping you both from moving on. Don't let the fear of being on your own keep you trapped in an unfulfilling relationship. Rather, embrace the idea of being on your own so you can work on being a strong and independent woman because that inner strength and independence will one day attract the right guy at the right time for you.
I want you to do something…for me. Please google and listen to the song, “Fear is a Liar” by Zach Williams. And when you're done listening to it, listen to it again while reading the lyrics. Please do this and then tell fear to get lost! Still have you in my prayers, young lady.
convictions are by no means the only pain in false accusations. His life could be torched (given the religious nature I'm going to assume his family/friends are also similarly aligned). His name being dragged through the mud could lead to a total social shun immediately, regardless of truth.
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Wow! Do you know this guy personally? That was a lot of assumptions you just put on him.
Take it too far??? I would be talking to a divorce lawyer. No one is going to abuse me, then cheat on me to teach me a lesson.
Serve her some walking papers so she can ski by hetself.
This makes me happy to hear! Happy ending. Do you guys have kids?