You make it sound like they would just disappear like Thanos just snapped at them or something?
They will still exist, he’ll still be a loving father and they will still be his very legitimate children (except for the one you spawned through cheating) the only difference between pre and post divorce for him is that he doesn’t have to share the bed with a cheater and liar that is trying to turn him against his family which is trying to protect him.
Monster. Like you said “god knows the truth” and he’s historically not been very kind on liars or adulterers lol
She hid things from you and is easily aggravated and angered. What you love about her can be found in a person withOUT those awful qualities. Dump her.
I thought this as well. Why postpone, when you can cancel??
You make it sound like they would just disappear like Thanos just snapped at them or something?
They will still exist, he’ll still be a loving father and they will still be his very legitimate children (except for the one you spawned through cheating) the only difference between pre and post divorce for him is that he doesn’t have to share the bed with a cheater and liar that is trying to turn him against his family which is trying to protect him.
Monster. Like you said “god knows the truth” and he’s historically not been very kind on liars or adulterers lol
He needs therapy
You might be able to get him there with an ultimatum around maintaining your friendship
But, honestly, why do you want to help this person?
What does this person add to your life?
Your answers there should help you decide how to proceed
What’s the nuance, bud?
It has become a running joke within the family that I’m basically a gigantic pussy.
It does seem that way when you're crying about it. Shutting it down makes it seem more so.
You're going to have to live with this one. As family stories go, this one isn't getting forgotten.
Has the doctor has confirmed she's only 6 weeks pregnant?
She hid things from you and is easily aggravated and angered. What you love about her can be found in a person withOUT those awful qualities. Dump her.
First; this is not on you. Stop trying to get tighter for him. Secondly ; as other says, this is SA.
Thirdly: ask him if his tiny Dick migh
He wants you to kill your baby and you still want to marry him?