He’s not going to go to marriage counseling, he’s not interested or invested in the marriage. I’m sorry to be glib but 4 failed marriages (yes yours has failed) by 41? This is a jim issue, cut your losses and get out. Seek IC; you’re likely still grieving the loss of your dad and now your marriage . Good luck OP.
Do you realize he is still lying to you? He told you she was a friend of friend. If this was true, there would be no point not telling about it as the news would spread among his friends.
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Break up
It is exhausting. Appreciate your advice.
He said that no other girls have asked him to use a rubber
So he is a Petri dish of everyone before you and if they were fine with no rubbers that is not a good thing
Also he is too cheap to buy a condom
I think you should hold yourself to higher standards
He’s not going to go to marriage counseling, he’s not interested or invested in the marriage. I’m sorry to be glib but 4 failed marriages (yes yours has failed) by 41? This is a jim issue, cut your losses and get out. Seek IC; you’re likely still grieving the loss of your dad and now your marriage . Good luck OP.
Do you realize he is still lying to you? He told you she was a friend of friend. If this was true, there would be no point not telling about it as the news would spread among his friends.