Listen to your therapist. What he is doing is very sinister, and you need to protect yourself. He has managed to make you doubt the truth that you know for a fact is real. You are being manipulated.
Someone is always that dumb. Check out r/wallstreetbets for proof. I once saw a guy pretty much light $90,000 on fire because they were convinced the GameStop stock was guaranteed to hit $400 by the end of the week
I think the only reason it concerns is because it’s not just, “heh, I’m looking forward to next weekend”. In my head it’s more like “god, I gotta go through this whole week before I see her again” even though “this whole week” is pretty exciting yet I still only want to see her.
Think I’m overthinking this the more I type. Realising how ridiculous it sounds to be worried why I’m looking forward to seeing her.
Appreciate your advice nonetheless, thank you. I think you’re spot on.
First off the hypocrisy of not seeing you committing adultery as big a sin as abortion is laughable when one is clearly stated as one of the 10 commandments. Also the bible allows for abortion if the wife is suspected of cheating read numbers 5:20-28. You can make any excuse you want about the type of marriage she had, but you helped her commit adultery.
Your anger is valid, but that doesn’t really change your situation.
what do I do?
It sounds like you’ve already done what you can do, which is tell him how his actions make you feel and ask if he’s willing to change. His actions communicate that his answer is basically no, he’s not willing to change.
It’s really up to you to decide if you want to be in a relationship where you are basically the side piece and video games are his true priority.
Listen to your therapist. What he is doing is very sinister, and you need to protect yourself. He has managed to make you doubt the truth that you know for a fact is real. You are being manipulated.
No one is that dumb.
Someone is always that dumb. Check out r/wallstreetbets for proof. I once saw a guy pretty much light $90,000 on fire because they were convinced the GameStop stock was guaranteed to hit $400 by the end of the week
As the saying goes….”she belongs to the streets now…”
Dude … talk with a divorce lawyer, get half the house and half her shit and find somebody who doesnt treat you like shit.
yep
I think the only reason it concerns is because it’s not just, “heh, I’m looking forward to next weekend”. In my head it’s more like “god, I gotta go through this whole week before I see her again” even though “this whole week” is pretty exciting yet I still only want to see her.
Think I’m overthinking this the more I type. Realising how ridiculous it sounds to be worried why I’m looking forward to seeing her.
Appreciate your advice nonetheless, thank you. I think you’re spot on.
Stop with the all caps title.
Accept it's over and move on.
I did kinda always feel he was a bit of a drama queen, and very self-centered. Thanks for your comment reminding me of that
yeah this is definitely grounds for divorce. I'm sorry you had to deal with this for so long
First off the hypocrisy of not seeing you committing adultery as big a sin as abortion is laughable when one is clearly stated as one of the 10 commandments. Also the bible allows for abortion if the wife is suspected of cheating read numbers 5:20-28. You can make any excuse you want about the type of marriage she had, but you helped her commit adultery.
Life is hard but if your truly unhappy you do what you have to do to find peace and happiness
You mention “pornographic” above. There’s a difference between porno and nude. How would you describe pornographic?
Buy the car, leave the man. But not in that order, you don’t want him having a claim to the car in the divorce.
He’s a freeloader who thinks he can control your money. Doesn’t he disgust you?
I've read that but I still don't understand what the comments were that you made
Your anger is valid, but that doesn’t really change your situation.
what do I do?
It sounds like you’ve already done what you can do, which is tell him how his actions make you feel and ask if he’s willing to change. His actions communicate that his answer is basically no, he’s not willing to change.
It’s really up to you to decide if you want to be in a relationship where you are basically the side piece and video games are his true priority.
He’s actually a really good dad. I couldn’t do that to my kids. Or to him. Even if he’s being unfair right now.
Sometimes it’s closure. She’s been dating this man since she was 13.