We just started crate training him last week and he hates it especially when we’re home. But he’s in the crate while we’re at work. Never thought about the blanket tho. I wonder if that’ll help. She doesn’t want to hear him whine while we’re doing the deed because she’ll be focused on that.
But do phone bills actually show that kind of detail anymore? Literally the only person I get actual texts or old-school calls from is my mum. Everyone else I communicate with on internet apps. Wouldn't show up on a bill. You'd need to snoop on my phone before I got a chance to delete the evidence (thinking hypothetically here)!
No this has been the only thing. I’ve never screwed up like this ever before. I don’t even know what I was thinking. There’s no excuse for it. She even said that I’ve been an amazing boyfriend and this happens. She said that just because of all the good I’ve done, doesn’t excuse this problem. I have a huge thing planned for her. I told her I have 3 phases of ways I’m going to get her back to just try and be cute and show her that I am very sorry. Phase 1 was a poem I wrote for her, which I sent. Phase 2 is tomorrow when we see each other I have a huge day planned, I have a night out of mini putt and bowling which I asked them to play music from the concert we were supposed to see (we didn’t go because she was so upset from me) and then I’m taking her out for dinner then I’m taking her to have some time out in this park. I also made 8 notes why I really like her and why she is amazing, along with a picture of a rose I drew which I’m going to place when I have a chance, either at night when she tells me to leave or if things go well and I spend the night, I’ll set them up in the morning. A trail of little letters with rose pedals leading to this picture of a rose. Phase 3 is I’m taking her on a trip.
It sounds like they started dating when she was 17 though. A kid. If she has since realized that she might be polyamorous, or even if she’s just curious about other people, that’s understandable. She’s human. She shouldn’t pressure OP into something he has no interest in, obviously, but she’s not a bad person for asking.
You look so beautiful in that photo and full of joy. I don’t want you to look at it and always hear his dumbass comment. Your boyfriend is a child. Toss him into the sea.
I see both sides. But your wife’s idea of getting past the wedding so it didn’t impact anything is reasonable. Now you know, and he’s cut off. So, problem is solved.
You sound pressured in this the situation, that’s not the right headspace! It’s a big decision and also not ideal that this 3rd person is under your roof on a daily basis too. Look for some resources online for changing your relationship in this way, there are all kinds of guidelines to help set boundaries, expectations, and whether you should really be doing this. If your husband would be upset at you declining that’s on him, not you.
We just started crate training him last week and he hates it especially when we’re home. But he’s in the crate while we’re at work. Never thought about the blanket tho. I wonder if that’ll help. She doesn’t want to hear him whine while we’re doing the deed because she’ll be focused on that.
But do phone bills actually show that kind of detail anymore? Literally the only person I get actual texts or old-school calls from is my mum. Everyone else I communicate with on internet apps. Wouldn't show up on a bill. You'd need to snoop on my phone before I got a chance to delete the evidence (thinking hypothetically here)!
He didn't get mad. He just expressed relief
No this has been the only thing. I’ve never screwed up like this ever before. I don’t even know what I was thinking. There’s no excuse for it. She even said that I’ve been an amazing boyfriend and this happens. She said that just because of all the good I’ve done, doesn’t excuse this problem. I have a huge thing planned for her. I told her I have 3 phases of ways I’m going to get her back to just try and be cute and show her that I am very sorry. Phase 1 was a poem I wrote for her, which I sent. Phase 2 is tomorrow when we see each other I have a huge day planned, I have a night out of mini putt and bowling which I asked them to play music from the concert we were supposed to see (we didn’t go because she was so upset from me) and then I’m taking her out for dinner then I’m taking her to have some time out in this park. I also made 8 notes why I really like her and why she is amazing, along with a picture of a rose I drew which I’m going to place when I have a chance, either at night when she tells me to leave or if things go well and I spend the night, I’ll set them up in the morning. A trail of little letters with rose pedals leading to this picture of a rose. Phase 3 is I’m taking her on a trip.
It sounds like they started dating when she was 17 though. A kid. If she has since realized that she might be polyamorous, or even if she’s just curious about other people, that’s understandable. She’s human. She shouldn’t pressure OP into something he has no interest in, obviously, but she’s not a bad person for asking.
I do know people who do that actually, they stay on call all night together. I never understood it, but maybe it's cos I'm old lmao
What, and I cannot stress this enough, the fuck?!
You look so beautiful in that photo and full of joy. I don’t want you to look at it and always hear his dumbass comment. Your boyfriend is a child. Toss him into the sea.
I see both sides. But your wife’s idea of getting past the wedding so it didn’t impact anything is reasonable. Now you know, and he’s cut off. So, problem is solved.
You sound pressured in this the situation, that’s not the right headspace! It’s a big decision and also not ideal that this 3rd person is under your roof on a daily basis too. Look for some resources online for changing your relationship in this way, there are all kinds of guidelines to help set boundaries, expectations, and whether you should really be doing this. If your husband would be upset at you declining that’s on him, not you.