You married a superficial man. He is not going to be around for the long haul. He is willing to disrespect his wife behind her back to his friends. Stop being intimate with him. You had an injury that you are recovering from and he’s not even supportive. Work on building yourself up safely on your career and health. He’s not a keeper.
I’m not sure how much she knows, I called her after I found out they’re getting separated but she didn’t answer my call and didn’t call back so I took that as a sign and didn’t reach out again
Thanks for this input. I’m down to just be friends with her and not have any sex or anything, she’s the one that initiated everything from the start. I just wish she could’ve communicated with me about how she was feeling at least. I’ll just cut my losses and keep moving forward
This would be an instant deal breaker for me. I wouldn't even consider moving forward with this relationship. Your friends saying this isn't a big deal are either dumb or naive. I could never trust this girl 100% ever again. If you could lie to me before, what's to stop you from doing it again? Nope. Loyalty and trust are necessary to have a healthy relationship. It doesn't matter if it was early on in the relationship and you've been together for 6 years now. In some ways that makes it worse in my opinion, you lied to me for 6 years?! Hell no. Her actions were completely selfish, first the cheating and then not confessing it right away because she “couldn't bear to lose you” or whatever. If she really didn't wanna lose you, she shouldn't have fucking cheated. ?
Be real then. You can't afford it, you're not gonna set yourself back months or years just to humour this. If she doesn't get it then really this confrontation was a long time coming, it just came to a head in this instance.
No. Real men do not get jealous. They may even wanna hold it inside you and play too!
You married a superficial man. He is not going to be around for the long haul. He is willing to disrespect his wife behind her back to his friends. Stop being intimate with him. You had an injury that you are recovering from and he’s not even supportive. Work on building yourself up safely on your career and health. He’s not a keeper.
I’m not sure how much she knows, I called her after I found out they’re getting separated but she didn’t answer my call and didn’t call back so I took that as a sign and didn’t reach out again
Thanks for this input. I’m down to just be friends with her and not have any sex or anything, she’s the one that initiated everything from the start. I just wish she could’ve communicated with me about how she was feeling at least. I’ll just cut my losses and keep moving forward
What do you mean by 'man code'? You think there's some hidden meaning to what he's telling you?
This would be an instant deal breaker for me. I wouldn't even consider moving forward with this relationship. Your friends saying this isn't a big deal are either dumb or naive. I could never trust this girl 100% ever again. If you could lie to me before, what's to stop you from doing it again? Nope. Loyalty and trust are necessary to have a healthy relationship. It doesn't matter if it was early on in the relationship and you've been together for 6 years now. In some ways that makes it worse in my opinion, you lied to me for 6 years?! Hell no. Her actions were completely selfish, first the cheating and then not confessing it right away because she “couldn't bear to lose you” or whatever. If she really didn't wanna lose you, she shouldn't have fucking cheated. ?
Lol. Can't even take responsibility for your own actions.
Want some solid advice. Buck up and stop blaming others for your shitty decision
Be real then. You can't afford it, you're not gonna set yourself back months or years just to humour this. If she doesn't get it then really this confrontation was a long time coming, it just came to a head in this instance.
He can't say no? Jeez Louis.