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And they can discuss it before deciding whether or not to keep it. It’s not like OP can force her to keep the car if she declines it. Did he make the smartest decision? No I never said he did I was commenting on the implication that he should’ve gotten the husband’s permission first.
Please reread your post over and over again and use this to guide you.
-Is he controlling? -Will he separate you from other women because he hates them? Meaning no friends. -Does he freak out when you talk to men? Meaning no friends
He is isolating you and setting you up for misery. Please run. This is not fixable because odds are he’s gone down a rabbit hole that will take professional help.
You mean, your husband sexually assaulted your sister when she was unable to consent. You should be taking care of her, not making accusations about her.
I believe I can. Expenses are a bit high right now but I believe that’s because there’s 3 of us living here. If it’s just me, they will be lower. Plus I’ll have Solar to help compensate some of that in the coming months.
But that's the assumption of OP who also said he's never been in a relationship. I highly doubt they had a talk about their feelings when they were both under the influence. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying OP should be fine with this behaviour and forgive her, because at the very least it shows that she's not that into him and in a worst case it shows that she is very prone to hurting people she does actually care about. He shouldn't be with her. However, he doesn't need to be mean to her. She didn't say that she loved him, or anything close to that. She just kissed him and everything else he filled in himself
Instead of complete strangers telling you “what girls who has partners are doing in the clubs,” you should be focusing on seeking help for yourself. If you have admittedly really bad trust issues with everyone, that's not healthy.
The issue isn't your girlfriend going out with friends. It's you not trusting her and anyone else around you.
I told him that was exhausting and I’d rather just not finish my lessons. He said “okay” and that was that, he went on to play his THIRTY WEEKS of bowling, never missing a single one, no matter how much he was needed at home on a given week.
I don't think you should have caved on this. His proposal did not work with your schedule, you should have held your ground and said that you were going to continue with the lessons until they were done and that he would need to continue handling childcare during those times. You need to stand up for yourself and your NEEDS to him more. Assert your right to your recreation and relaxation, because he's obviously either oblivious or doesn't care about what you need. You should both get hobby time, once a week might be too much. Maybe you both find something you can do every two weeks and alternate. But this situation isn't viable. A weekly nanny will put a bandaid on it but honestly I doubt it's a long-term solution.
I think your schedule sounds unsustainable. I know it's really difficult to justify losing $40k+ or more in a year to either childcare or quitting your work, but you are pulling triple shifts and you are going to burn out. Personally, I think you should consider going back to a more regular full time 9-5 and do your best to climb up the ladder so you can earn more. And pay for the childcare. The loss of the money is worth what you would gain back in time, relaxation, and probably work opportunities. You have sacrificed too much and that's not good for anyone in the family. A fully burnt out mom can sometimes be unable to work or be a childcare provider. You and your husband should sacrifice the money for childcare together. It's a hard pill to swallow but it would only be for 2-3 more years until your youngest is in kindergarten.
And they can discuss it before deciding whether or not to keep it. It’s not like OP can force her to keep the car if she declines it. Did he make the smartest decision? No I never said he did I was commenting on the implication that he should’ve gotten the husband’s permission first.
Please reread your post over and over again and use this to guide you.
-Is he controlling? -Will he separate you from other women because he hates them? Meaning no friends. -Does he freak out when you talk to men? Meaning no friends
He is isolating you and setting you up for misery. Please run. This is not fixable because odds are he’s gone down a rabbit hole that will take professional help.
You mean, your husband sexually assaulted your sister when she was unable to consent. You should be taking care of her, not making accusations about her.
I believe I can. Expenses are a bit high right now but I believe that’s because there’s 3 of us living here. If it’s just me, they will be lower. Plus I’ll have Solar to help compensate some of that in the coming months.
But that's the assumption of OP who also said he's never been in a relationship. I highly doubt they had a talk about their feelings when they were both under the influence. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying OP should be fine with this behaviour and forgive her, because at the very least it shows that she's not that into him and in a worst case it shows that she is very prone to hurting people she does actually care about. He shouldn't be with her. However, he doesn't need to be mean to her. She didn't say that she loved him, or anything close to that. She just kissed him and everything else he filled in himself
You can't expect people to behave rationally when they've been drinking.
Instead of complete strangers telling you “what girls who has partners are doing in the clubs,” you should be focusing on seeking help for yourself. If you have admittedly really bad trust issues with everyone, that's not healthy.
The issue isn't your girlfriend going out with friends. It's you not trusting her and anyone else around you.
No doubt he will one day want u to reciprocate his act of generosity
I told him that was exhausting and I’d rather just not finish my lessons. He said “okay” and that was that, he went on to play his THIRTY WEEKS of bowling, never missing a single one, no matter how much he was needed at home on a given week.
I don't think you should have caved on this. His proposal did not work with your schedule, you should have held your ground and said that you were going to continue with the lessons until they were done and that he would need to continue handling childcare during those times. You need to stand up for yourself and your NEEDS to him more. Assert your right to your recreation and relaxation, because he's obviously either oblivious or doesn't care about what you need. You should both get hobby time, once a week might be too much. Maybe you both find something you can do every two weeks and alternate. But this situation isn't viable. A weekly nanny will put a bandaid on it but honestly I doubt it's a long-term solution.
I think your schedule sounds unsustainable. I know it's really difficult to justify losing $40k+ or more in a year to either childcare or quitting your work, but you are pulling triple shifts and you are going to burn out. Personally, I think you should consider going back to a more regular full time 9-5 and do your best to climb up the ladder so you can earn more. And pay for the childcare. The loss of the money is worth what you would gain back in time, relaxation, and probably work opportunities. You have sacrificed too much and that's not good for anyone in the family. A fully burnt out mom can sometimes be unable to work or be a childcare provider. You and your husband should sacrifice the money for childcare together. It's a hard pill to swallow but it would only be for 2-3 more years until your youngest is in kindergarten.