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Hime Marie, 27 y.o.
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Date: September 29, 2022
27 year old girl seeing a 50 year old man, then, surprise, the 50 year old dude treats the dumbass chick like a tool. A classic relationship_advice story if there ever was one.
You should try giving her time heal after that. But her using her mental illness doesn't make up for not telling you about what is happening and lying to you. Talk to her about it and see where you at. I have bpd and i would never do such thing to my beloved one.
not a man but it’s cheating. and even if it wasn’t technically considered that, you have a right to set your own boundaries
You gotta shoot your shot
I just want to get some advice on how to move forward to better our relationship
Have you tried talking to her about it? That's always a good start.
Nobody said always. Just a quick hello so they know who has your time. It's fine if you don't want that. You both just have different ideas.
Lmao. No, it was not. At all. It was about as vague as you can get.
WhatsUp, your GF's abusive behaviors cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no chance to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If it is an issue for your GF, you likely would be seeing 4 other red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.
Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).
Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells around her. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.
WhatsUp, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
Wow That’s disgusting
I read his posts honestly I felt like hitting him. There is an amazing life ahead of you and the best part is you get to divorce him and take back control because honestly he sounds like a immature little boy that is looking through the candy store window wishing for things he can’t have. You have got this.
I mean, I didn't ask for tests on my kids, I just can understand why some might.
He has no reason to doubt the paternity
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No second chances
He had a few 6 month to year long relationships in the decade that he was single before meeting me but says that none of them stuck. They always broke up with him.
I look really young for my age (people assume I'm 16-20 years old. I'm 30) but my husband looks 30. People give him weird looks sometimes when we are out with our 5 kids and he kisses what looks like the nanny. Then the kids start calling me momma and everyone realizes I'm not a teenager babysitter lol.
If you can learn to laugh about it it will make your life easier. My husband and I just laugh at all the teenage boys who try to ask me out thinking I'm their age. We laugh when someone calls me the babysitter. She can't help how young she looks and what other people assume. And honestly their opinion doesn't matter. At all.
It’s completely understandable why you wouldn’t want any contact with you. Sounds like they only ran back because things didn’t work out between the two of them. Them calling you “immature and selfish” just further shows that they aren’t worth your time.
FFS, she needs to leave and stay gone!!
Not only it's better to be alone, there are dating website for people with sti
There are other good people who dated assholes
I remember your post from a few days ago, tbh my friend I think you have to call the relationship as this is far too much baggage
Might be worth seriously distancing yourself from your uncle as well as I remember this isn't the first relationship of yours he's complicated
Its weird seeing him as manipulative as hes been