I think you need to leave if he can’t respect your very reasonable boundaries whos to say he will respect any of them. Unfortunately I don’t think it’s worth staying
You don't. Why, because there's really no polite way! All your words and tone may be polite, but …. Good luck, but if you want to keep enjoying what's behind the bush….
Ok well “single person that don’t (doesn’t) want to be a parent” we don’t actually want your advice. I’m almost 30 and men who are *actually mature, completely understand that I have to think of my child before anything else. I’ve never had anyone get upset with me for this. Sometimes it’s a dealbreaker but 99% of the time, at my age, it is not.
Sometimes, I’m looking for something casual. I’m not telling you about my child if I don’t see a future where you’ll meet her.
I think you need to leave if he can’t respect your very reasonable boundaries whos to say he will respect any of them. Unfortunately I don’t think it’s worth staying
Wise words. Come to think of it that’s how it was with my ex husband and me.
You don't. Why, because there's really no polite way! All your words and tone may be polite, but …. Good luck, but if you want to keep enjoying what's behind the bush….
Enjoy it!
We never discussed that at all! It doesn’t seem like she does, unless she very good at hiding it?
Okay
You cant be with someone expecting them to change. If none of his habits ever change, will you be happy in this relationship?
Update me!
She may be Bi curious, don't judge, they are both adults.
Ok well “single person that don’t (doesn’t) want to be a parent” we don’t actually want your advice. I’m almost 30 and men who are *actually mature, completely understand that I have to think of my child before anything else. I’ve never had anyone get upset with me for this. Sometimes it’s a dealbreaker but 99% of the time, at my age, it is not.
Sometimes, I’m looking for something casual. I’m not telling you about my child if I don’t see a future where you’ll meet her.
Ok. VALID point.
He perceives that you’re rapidly ascending to a level that will soon be out of his league, and he’s feeling very insecure about it.
I’m wondering as well