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Date: October 22, 2022
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Ohhh Miss you are missing out what the purpose of blessing. If you are blessed, count your blessings and do the same to others. God commandments say “love your neighbor as yourself ” you may think you deserve all thi…it's through God mercy and love you get this and if you only pride with yourself though you will loose in a moments. My dear sister humble yourself and pray to inherit wisdom . If you have a wisdom you make look at things in a different perspective. Don't forget the blessing comes from God but God's blessing can fly away in seconds. Maybe if you decrease your self for a second you will understand what I'm saying. Blessing to you!
Does my co worker just give me emotional support I don’t currently get and that’s the reason I enjoy her so much or is there something deeper?
See, I found this odd, as you hadn’t mentioned that your current gf doesn’t give you emotional support. You said the only thing lacking was the frequency of sex.
I think you’re building this up to be something it isn’t. You’re attracted to your colleague and she’s new – so you’re putting her on a pedestal. Your gf can’t compete with that, because it’s not a fair comparison.
You either need to commit yourself to your gf fully, and cut this other woman out your life. Or you need to be honest that you don’t love your gf enough and you want to hook up with someone else. It may or may not work out with your colleague, but I suspect it’s mostly a ‘grass is greener’ situation.
saying that you are questioning the foundation of the relationship might make him actually and properly reassess why he made that action.
sounds like he wants to keep the peace between him and his family? personally i would think that you are more important.
If he wanted to hang out, he would.
Stop trying to press the issue.
Yeah, me too. My sexual trauma made me extra horny. Gaining back control with someone i actually want in there is very empowering
Yeah I am not in a position to be declining work like that lol
Follow your gut. His reactions are not how a normal caring boyfriend/person would react. You deserve better than “smh”. You’re young, get yourself someone who would have shown up with a hug, cuddles and dinner.
No girl break up w him!! It doesnt sound good
How am I delusional?
He's trying to establish an FWB dynamic. He doesn't want to date you.
I can't say he's inherently dickish for wanting said dynamic but if that's not what you want make it plain to him.
Im just scared…
Maybe you didn’t read her comments. She said she could “do some magic” and get out of work if she wanted. But she didn’t tell her boyfriend that and only brought it up as a possibility after the ex became a factor.
And maybe you’ve never had anesthesia. But you can in fact die. Hence why they will not perform the surgery without having someone there to drive you home and care for you after.
Why does she have to if she’s working ? It was an emergency when he was asking who is going to care for me after the emergency surgery. He has time to see if she had her brother or sister around something. And again who cares it was an ex. It’s the fact he didn’t mention it at all. Why wouldn’t you ? I’d feel wrong knowing I did shit with them a few months prior to this but I guess that’s just me.
Such a crazy feeling! Congratulations that’s amazing. Really hope it’s soon ??
I read your original post and I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I wish I could tell you that I’m surprised by your wife’s behavior but unfortunately, I’m not.
Definitely start therapy for yourself. You need help dealing with the betrayal and awful behavior she’s exhibited. This is really going to screw up your mental health.
But, regarding staying together, if there is no trust, there is no relationship. She wasn’t even remotely remorseful. She couldn’t come completely clean about her activities in the first place. Even her confession was filled with lies.
Seriously, I would be looking for a lawyer and getting divorce papers drawn up. You don’t want to live life as the infidelity police and keeping track of her online activity. Keeping track of where she is and who she’s talking to is a full time job.
Not to mention she could buy a burner phone and conduct her activities behind your back, using fake names on her dating site accounts. Yeah, she’s been so awful and disrespectful of you, I wouldn’t put it past her. I wouldn’t even be surprised if there’s more she’s hiding and lying about.
Good luck. I hope you kick her out and divorce her. I couldn’t stay with someone who treated me so awfully.
She doesn’t but the infant is 2 weeks old and there’s a nationwide formula shortage.
It’s an overreaction and an under reaction. I get you are still figuring out your sexuality, but obviously this guy is an asshole, so it would be an overreaction to write off all men due to this one extremely weird guy.
But also you seem super passive in this situation. Talk to your dad and his gf and find an appropriate response. For me it would be not talking to or being around this guy because he sounds like a total piece of shit with no redeeming qualities. But it could also be be saying “that’s inappropriate. Stop talking to me like this. I’m not interested in you.” And asking for your dad and his gf to back you up.
Before
I’m not exactly sure what you’re talking about, but I wanted to see if anybody thought that I should end the relationship or do something about my lack of attraction and attraction for other women
did your physical attributes changed from the time you guys got together till todate?
What does she say when you share your concerns about her staying in CA?
If kids are important to you and she's against them, this just wont work. Im like you, i really want to be a parent. I want to be a parent more than i want to be a wife, if that makes sense. Do you have a fall back plan to adopt or anything?
You are getting a get out of jail free card here. Do you want to deal with his brother for the rest of your life? Because you will. I honestly would say postpone it indefinitely if you’re strong enough to.
He doesn't care how swimming is amazing and that you like it homeboy is insecure and doesn't want man around you, cause he is scared that you end up tempted… Just like he does
Thought it would be because of him, he sounds like an asshole and abusive which is probably why your friends hated him. Break up with him and try and get your old friends back, if not get new friends
They really hated him and vice versa.
I think you did the right thing in leaving. I don't think the new guy will last if I am being honest, its easy to sweep a woman off her feet online, its easy to say the right things, its easy to get a girl to give you attention when you know what to say. The truth is living together, being a step parent, that stuff is hard, and he may find it easier to run. You say you have codependency issues, and your AP also has these issues, that you are “working on them together”, I'm not sure if you will resolve these issues, and may become codependent on each other. Make sure you do your background check on the new boyfriend, make sure he isn't on a list that would make it easier for your husband to take your kids from you. I do hope you and your ex find happiness, but make sure to cover your bases, because as shitty as life may be it can get way worse.
Wow I am so sorry this happened to you, your sister and her children. Your soon to be ex-bil and ex-best friend both suck so bad and I doubt they will last long. People change a lot from their early 20s to their 30s it seems. Best wishes to you and your sister and the children.
Take your child to the doctor/urgent care ASAP. Also, call the police. Explain to them what happened – get it documented. Your SO can not be trusted with your child.
Get out NOW with your child.
Well when you both agreed to keep working together, then you knew that there would be a time when somebody finds a partner and t they may get pregnant/have baby and even get married, possibly in that order or opposite order.
So just treat it in a mature way and let her know your partner is pregnant
I will! Thank you!
Listen. If you care- go to Counesling. Not ideal but it isn’t gonna hurt. But frankly, if you go you have to be honest and say you want to leave. And the counselor will back you because no relationship counseling will work if both parties don’t want it to work…
I guess you got a point, I just didn’t really make that much sense to me because at first because she ran me down so much after we split that I figured that she actually had some hatred towards me or something, I just found it weird that she the one random time I ran into her she decided to keep her eyes locked onto me while feeling up on her current bf like I’m supposed to care or something, I’m honestly glad she found someone I just wish she would forget me
Sounds like you two have different relationship goals and should have a talk about if you should stay together.
She wants to keep you as her safe backup plan while she she’s whether it works with this other guy. I get you’re open minded but that doesn’t mean you should open yourself up for ruin friend. She and you need to choose and you both live with that decision. If she ends up running off with this man and it doesn’t work and wants to come back in future you can see where your open mind stretches to or has limits to are THEN. Not now. Don’t allow yourself to get messed around and used this way. From a fellow – far more – open minded person who is trying to show you the difference between open minded and just plain old being used as a backup
Tell her to GTFO. My ex husband did this. The fact that he didn’t want me to divorce him yet because he wasn’t sure what he wanted was a bigger slap in the face that the affair itself. F that racket.
It literally would change how much danger there is. If he did it on purpose then he is a threat at all times, she should call the police and he should go to jail.
If it was parasomnia, and he has no clue whatsoever about his actions, then it's up to them to decide how they want to move forward in their lives.
It matters. Why something happened matters.
Wow there’s alot of comments about how you need to can’t be subtle cuz gUyS dOnT gEt iT ? Sounds like a bunch of “boys will be boys” bull shyte. He doesn’t mind “hinting” about intimacy though, huh? Funny how that works. You should be paying attention while being expected to spoon feed him?
He’s a 40yo man, this isn’t his first Valentine’s Day. He made sure you were available on what is touted as a romantic holiday but couldn’t manage anything beyond let’s do carry out at your place but also hint hint sex? My car windows are less transparent.
Yes, definitely let him know you are disappointed, but he doesn’t get a cookie for building things up, offering to half ass it then doing something about it. And don’t buy into any after-fact “I was gonna” crap either. What? He was gonna stop by Walgreens on the way over to see what cheap flowers & Whitman’s samplers were leftover? If he really was gonna do something nice & trying to be low key, he would’ve said so.
This early in the relationship he should be trying to impress & romance you a bit – not necessarily with money, but consideration & creativity. Instead you nailed it on the head – it was an afterthought. His only priority was to ensure your availability. His access to you. How lazy.
I’m not all about Valentine’s Day. It’s a made up holiday to sell Hallmark cards. But I’m partnered & he made it a thing sonI’m suiting up & showing up (he had to work, so he made reservations for this weekend at a restaurant where we had our first date.)
At 40yo, this man should anticipate a woman buying a new dress, maybe getting her hair or nails done, putting forth a little extra effort for a special date. It’s really common for women to do things like that. At the very least you prioritized him in your schedule & he planned nothing worth that effort.
Hell, now I’m annoyed for you. I’d pump the brakes on this relationship, if he’s being this lazy so early on, don’t be surprised if other things are anticlimactic.
That's a big worry that I've had. She has quite a high libido, and after speaking, she said that if I don't want to do anything sexual AT ALL, then she doesn't too. But a high drive doesn't just disappear, and I'm just a bit worried I suppose. Another comment suggested therapy, which I could look into.
Even in this post and comments you can't pinpoint what your wife is upset about, but you admit you knew she had things she had raised with you.
And of course, you have some communication issues and can be a bit lazy, while she twists words and is overly defensive.
I'm not sure if you are being deliberately vague to get sympathy on reddit, or if this is literally all the information you have processed about what your wife is upset about.
Just from this post and your comments, it is clear your wife has tried to address issues with you, and she is tired of trying, hence the divorce and why she thinks 4 counseling sessions aren't going to cut it.
If you do want to save your marriage, you have to actually admit what she has been asking you to do/change that you haven't, and decide if you will actually change that behavior or not.
Well because of her behavior you have had to put yourself in an awkward position. Was it controlling? Debatable. But realistically you shouldn't have to act that way. If she's unable to control her drinking or does not want to, there is nothing you can realistically do. You need to re-assess the relationship otherwise you will end up being her chaperone to all parties involved with Alcohol at minimum.
Absolutely address this. And ask for the same you offered, to read everything. And if there’s nothing else, ask her to stop her communication and if there is, dump her.
I'd be really upset but addressing it will likely only make her defensive and angry that you looked at her messages. I doubt you'll get any truth from talking about it.
It doesn’t sound like your sis consented. Your husband raped her.
No sex for a year is not a reasonable situation at your age.
Religion, trauma, or just plain bad relationships can be the root of this, but it's not unreasonable to want to have sex with your girlfriend more often than annually.
You can't fix it from your end, take it from a guy who was with a woman with a lot of problems like this. You can't fix it.
It's really up to her to decide if/when she wants to do something about how she feels about sex, but it's probably not going to involve you.
She told me she wants to be honest and open, and says she has feelings for a co-worker of hers. … I guess this guy came out and said he has feelings for my girlfriend, and she said she feels the same. … But she says she wants to be with me. … She’s fighting for our relationship completely. Says she will quit her job and move away because she loves me so much and wants to prove she wants to be with me.
The guilt seems disproportionate to any crime she has confessed to. If there's nothing more to tell, I'd let it slide.
Maybe it's a location thing? I've heard of keeping a lock of baby's first haircut, absolutely never heard of keeping dead pet hair.
Fair enough on not liking the clay print. Like i said, I've had dozens of pets and I only have a couple prints. Mostly I just have pictures and memories and I'm content with that.
Love seeing a Key and Peele reference out in the wild. I agree with this comment wholeheartedly Meegan.
Took what from you?
I think maybe telling the photographers to pretend to take photos of him would be a better option. If they obviously try to exclude him, maybe that’ll make him act out more and try to get into more photos? Idk, just a thought. The situation is ridiculous though, I’m so sorry ?
Your not overreacting, you’ve been together for 15 years and he’s the father of your kids! Personally I’d be clarifying every invite and making plain to your parents that from now on an invite to you is an invite to both of you.
No.
You are lame boss. Instead of actually doing anything you just told her I’m really mad right now and she said ok I’m still doing it. If your not gonna do shit about it then just keep complaining to her and call it a day.
If you actually had balls you would have voiced your displeasure and let her do what she wants but as a single women.
Can you make a schedule? Two hours twice a week, on set days and times. They need to save their requests for those times. So you don't feel like you are at their beck and call, missing your own opportunities. It will be hard to set this boundary. You can also refuse to fix certain mistakes. Every project and pie of theirs is not life or death. If they screw something up in a time consuming way because they won't wait for you, just say no.
Weird that he’s doing this on social media.
“Types” rarely mean much. I tend to prefer lighter hair and taller/leaner. That does not stop me from finding dark hair and short/chubby from being extremely attractive, nor does it mean I find every tall and blonde haired person attractive.
Honestly .. as soon as I saw the title I had to say something .. girl if that were my man he’d be gone … even if I was dependent on him .
Do you want to be loved like this forever? Do you honestly think it’s actually love?
Thank you all for your kind comments, I already knew something was off but needed a little push/validation. I’ll leave the post live to read all your comments tomorrow for courage to cut all ties with him.
Also I kindly request you keep encouraging idiots like me because some of us are heavily gaslighted.
Thank you again for all of your advice.
An opinion that cheating is bad isn't held deep with in. Its the social norm to think cheating is bad.
So are you saying its OK if she cheats on him, so long as he never finds out ?
Maybe he was looking for an excuse to break up?
Does he actually have friends though? Like people he actively talks about and makes time to hang out with? From what you said about him I get the feeling that he might just be a loner and hasn’t introduced you to any friends because he doesn’t really have any people that he considers close enough to introduce you too
You did what you did and now he’s upset which is valid, don’t get blackout drunk. A good starting point is stop drinking, show him you made a mistake and you’re doing your best to make sure that doesn’t happen again. Maybe he’ll stay, maybe he won’t.
I'm a person that often needs space after conflict. To process, think, ground myself. I'm not always in the mental/emotional headspace to just kiss and makeup. So if somebody pesters me or pushes me to make up or continues to rehash a problem that's going in circles, I get anxious, flustered and my window of tolerance definitely shrinks.
I think your boyfriend is really at his breaking point over this. I think he feels unheard, what he needs for him and his mental headspace isn't seen as important because you take what he needs for him, personally vs learning skills to cope with how you feel.
Feels a bit like you're both stuck in the anxious & avoidant trap.
A partner is someone who lifts your spirits when you’re feeling down or insecure.
Yeah, in the context of telling each other you look beautiful just because, but if I ask my girlfriend “Hey I think my ballsack looks funny, do you agree” and she nods, I'm not going to fault her for that response
That is a relationship that will never be fixed so don't even try. You might have to come to the conclusion that you will not be seeing your parents in your country again because if you go over there by yourself I don't see you ever returning.
I’m very frustrated as it is an activity we used to enjoy together and she used to enjoy very much. I didn’t know that she was enjoying less as time went on. She would usually say she was to tired to bother. I can see being tired as we both have been exhausted due to taking care of kids and I work full time. She is stay at home mother and I know that’s a lot of work too. I’m not sure what changed. She only ever wanted the same three positions and never wanted to try anything I wanted to try. She was my first and I was her second as she was married/divorced before.
I’m very frustrated as it is an activity we used to enjoy together and she used to enjoy very much. I didn’t know that she was enjoying less as time went on. She would usually say she was to tired to bother. I can see being tired as we both have been exhausted due to taking care of kids and I work full time. She is stay at home mother and I know that’s a lot of work too. I’m not sure what changed. She only ever wanted the same three positions and never wanted to try anything I wanted to try. She was my first and I was her second as she was married/divorced before.
I know the rules are that we are not supposed to be judgemental, etc, but dude, what the hell is wrong with you?
Wouldn't make a difference if the person looking found my SO attractive or not. Still crosses a line for me
No I’m not saying that you did it I’m just saying that the visual is funny
He has a degree and he’s “above” those kind of jobs
If he's open to cheating he's not a good man, he's probably done it before, maybe even while you were married, and he's a cheater.
You have no idea how much intimacy he is getting at home, you only know what he is telling you in order to get you into an inappropriate relationship with him.
It's OK to feel a sense of smug satisfaction at turning down somome who disrespects you twice.
Don't be anybody's backup plan.
Don't ever agree to date somone when they ask for your pity.
She admits she fucked up and the reason she waited to get in contact with me because she felt so ashamed that she was played for a fool.
Beware anyone who Leads with self-pity. Who was trying to play whom for a fool here?
Note that she didn't ever acknowledge or show much awareness of how her actions might have been insulting and humiliating to others. All she cared about was soothing her hurt ego. But if your friend had decided to be a two-faced scumbag rather than taking the high road, then she wouldn't have given you a second thought.
yeah, you have a stupid mind of a 3 year old
Sometimes when they're crushing on someone, people change their behavior in an attempt to appeal to them or control the situation.
Runnn!!! Get to da choppa!!!
It's too late to have cut ties in the past. It's not too late to do so now. This person you're putting up on a pedestal is a terrible person.
Oh but she said “we've been losing feelings” to justify her cheating. Then fucking leave. That's not an excuse to cheat. She's conflicted what to do? That's her telling her boyfriend that she's not all in, because she's fucking a random guy. That's also her telling you that she can't confirm that she sees any sort of future with you. If she could, she'd have broken up with him.
Conventional wisdom will tell you that if it'll happen with you, it'll happen to you. So even if she breaks up with him (which she won't), are you honestly going to just trust her knowing the context of your situation?
Either way, you're right, you should end it sooner. You feel strongly about her more than you have with others. Fair enough. You however need to realize that you feel strongly about someone who's objectively awful. And I know you want to believe that you're the exception to the rule and that it's happening because you two have a real and strong connection. Again, she's still with her boyfriend. She obviously doesn't like you as much as she says she does.
You need to stop blaming your wife for your actions. You keep trying to say that you lie because you want to avoid conflict and your wife is very forceful making you give up doing things you love. Well, what games has she forced you to stop? What activities did she have issues with? I'm being there is a common thread to all the issues she's had with your hobbies and choice of friend.
You have to acknowledge that at least on some level you KNOW going out on lunch dates to private museums and shutting off your phone while spending time with another woman is wrong. There is a reason you lied, and I doubt very much that it has anything to do with your wife's forceful personality. You said yourself that your wife knew about this friend and you have spent time with her together so why suddenly lie? Why did you think your wife would be bothered by you hanging out with a known friend? I think you know and I think you are in denial about your feelings for this other woman. I also think that's the real reason you are so hesitant to distance yourself from her because you are having an emotional affair. The sooner you can admit what's really going on here, the sooner you can get therapy and fix your marriage.
Individual therapy first then couples therapy; you have to end this dynamic you and your wife have before your lies destroy you both.
I already work tripple the amount at least and barely make 2 grands so yup I'd kill for a job like that.
And at the same time, for some it can change nothing at all. Been on birth control for years, the only side effect I’ve ever experienced is not getting pregnant !
You already posted this. Stop trolling.
I'm graduating soon so I'm planning to move out after that. I just have to deal with this for the next few months I guess
Is this another creative “writing subreddit” this is so insanely lazy to just make an AI do it. What do you get out of this other than being annoying.
You literally put in the post that this is a writing prompt for an AI.
Jfc learn to write and stop being whatever tf you are
Sorry, I’m an idiot on Reddit. I didn’t mean straight to divorce but straight to an environment where you’re kiddo know literally nothing and nobody is more important than her and her emotions (and they will be ugly) are ok. I hope you have her with a trauma informed therapist. She is gonna push you real hard to see if you’ll really stay and love her. Doesn’t mean no rules or consequences for behaviors but that you’re not gonna bail or tell her you wish she had been aborted (you can guess the source)
Wifey might like kiddo more once kiddo is stable in her relationship with you
I don't want us to break up
Why the hell not??? There are millions of men your age and any a good percentage of them would be a better fit for you than this guy! How are you going to build a long-term relationship with this guy if six months in it's nothing but high-school drama?!?
FFS, move on!
Gross. Dump him already, he's a selfish little prick.
now you listen here OP – everyone here cares for you as you posted & needed some sort of advise & help. we care as we took the time to read & asses your post & advise.
Most of us believe that you are unaware of the grey line & what is ok & not ok in a relationship since your last was a domestic abusive type.
so you better start looking for a women support group in your area/city for immediate help asap, pack your bags & leave him.
HE IS ABUSIVE & DISRESPECTFUL. NO MAN IN LOVE will be doing what he is doing to you. He has all the RED FLAGS.
Please leave him. you deserve better.
That sounds like a mother / sex worker situation.
You don't even leave together ?
This isn't support this is playing therapist and enabling his behavior. Why would he even attempt to better himself? He's also not a child to be coddled and encouraged to do things just to even attempt achieving something for himself. And you're supposed to be aroused by this after? Just gross.
This is horrifying. You are clearly not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship. I feel so so bad for your girlfriend. I hope this is fake.
All these commenters need to get off their ethical high horses. Not to mention, they are really pushing the fallacy of meritocracy (if you work hard enough you will be rich too! /s) – with little understanding of the reality of today’s economic landscape. Don’t let them shame you for struggling financially like the rest of us.
Your father was (and is?) a dick. I say get your money and don’t look back!