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Why don't you just ask him? Jesus Christ. Women are always complaining that men do not communicate, then they do not communicate. WTF?
You got the 90% and the 10% the wrong way around. I wish you a safe exit and a happier life
Imagine a man where it all began A scientist pacing the floor In each nation always eager to explore To build the best big stick To turn the winning trick But this was something more…
Not everyone in the defense industry wants to make a bigger stick.
Depends on what that means. Why does it bother you. Have you told her to stop? Has she tried and making mistakes or is she ignoring your requests?
need more info and communication is as important with her as it is here. So I have a guess that you need to talk to her.
For most people, yes, the value a child brings to your life far outweighs the stress you accumulate early on when they are completely dependent on you.
You know it really doesn’t matter- whether or not my explanation was not 100% accurate his response was not appropriate and ultimately I know a lot more about this topic than he as a man ever will.
It's called Mansplaining.
PS it is totally normal to take anywhere from 20 – 60 minutes including lots of foreplay.
Tell him this friendship is making you uncomfortable as his wife and he has to understand marriage comes with sacrifice and compromise.
“He fought over me”—girl bye
Telling them you’re interested.
UPDATE: I broke up with her a few weeks back , but during the breaking up process she used against me all the vulnerabilities I've shown her ( I'm a person who honestly has never done that and I prefer to keep everything to myself and she proved me why I am this way). Anyway i feel like I made the right choice and I dodged a bullet .Last but not least my “bro” of seven years started hanging out with her out of nowhere, I don't know what to think about that but honestly I don't really care I prefer my circle small anyway
I understand.
I’ve seen nothing but things go up in flames from multiple couples. I personally wouldn’t
I've never seen a single episode of The Office, but I still get the reference.
I don't think its anyone's business really.
I do think its based on a lack of trust, security, and maturity. However, if one or both of you really are those things then I mean if it works for you. There is a reasonable amount of accommodation between consenting adults to compensate for shortcomings.
He has trust issues, and they are tied to past trauma, if these rules are something you can live with it doesn't matter so long as you weren't manipulated or controlled into it.
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If I were you I would jusy cut out her and the whole friend group, and there are a number of reasons for that.
For starters they, especially she, has shown you where their priorities lie, which is in self preservation and lying instead of being honest with you and prioritizing the friendship with you. These people cannot be trusted, and I cant keep watching my own back. Making new friends is far easier than reconciling old one.
Also, if this ex guy is integrated in your friend group, its not fair to your bf to ask him to be around ex, so you'd have to cut thr group off anyways. Again, they didn't think about you and your new bf and didn't even ask you when integrating your ex into the group.
It’s not illegal, but getting into a serious relationship with a man who is 6 years older than you will introduce you to a Power Dynamic that you may find concerning. I’m a 24 year old man myself, and I can honestly tell you that if I dated an 18 year old, my social circle would immediately identify that as a problem. Any 24 year old man who seeks a relationship with somebody who is still a teenager, is looking for a partner who can be easily manipulated and controlled and does not maintain a social circle which would encourage him to make logical and ethical decisions in his life. He’s not a good person to latch yourself onto as you begin the very first steps of your adulthood. Whatever you do going forward, be careful and tell your people where you’re at, and who you’re with, at all times
Nothing here talks about the pain you caused your ex, how much of her life you wasted. You deserve to be alone OP, you are in pain right now and you deserve every last bit of it.
Unfortunately, if you're a guy, you need to get into the habit of carefully inspecting all takeout before you leave the store. I've been where you are more than once, although the reaction wasn't that severe.
That said, that was a pretty severe reaction, and you need to think long and hard about whether you want to be in this relationship.
Often, when people leave their marriage/relationship for their affair partner, it's difficult to admit it was a horrible decision. Nobody wants to admit to friends and family that tearing apart their loved ones was a selfish mistake. Sometimes we stubbornly try to make it work with someone that we really don't love. You commited the ultimate betrayal for someone you didn't really know beyond a surface level.
Fantasy is ALWAYS better than reality. You need to break up bc if you don't, you'll be getting a divorce a couple of years down the road. You can't trust your fiance. Ever. If she'll cheat with you she'll cheat on you, and vice-versa. She is not a great catch and i think you know it. Get some IC to deal with your issues and become better man. Do the right thing OP. Good luck.
for your own good do not get involved with this person, mate. you barely know her nor the extent of her mental health problems. i'm telling you this for free, speaking as someone who seriously attempted suicide 6 times last year, bridges and everything. she needs to get well without you and she surely should not be dating as a suicidal person.
Do not treat this as a date!!
but if you don’t want or can’t join it’s okay, I will just invite another friend of mine
With this line, you have set this squarely in the realm of “work friends hanging out”, as opposed to “date”. It would be really uncool to treat it as a date after saying that. If she actually doesn't want to date you, for whatever reason!, and you spring on her “surprise! it's actually a date!”, she is going to feel lured out under false pretenses.
You could certainly tell her a day or two afterward that you had fun hanging out, and you'd like to ask her on an actual date, and see what she says to that!
Because she has BPD
Exploding literally any situation that gives them any sort of emotional response is what happens with that disorder. It’s extremely destructive and tragic. I tried to manage a relationship with someone who exhibits every symptom yet refuses any help or testing so I can’t say she has it.
But attempting to live with someone you love with BPD is just one stressful heartbreak after another. Nothing you do will ever be enough. There will always be a strand of hair, a missed text, a glance across the street, a tiring day, etc which all point to this person that you’re cheating, you don’t love them, you never loved them, why don’t you just leave them, why aren’t you communicating in exactly the manner I think you should be at this exact moment which changes every single time???!!!
I fucking still have PTSD sometimes when I’m coming home from work, too scared to enter the house. My wife hasn’t lived here for almost a year.
I can't imagine what went through his head.
Was he just not great in bed and knew it?
How dare you be eager for something that is meant to be enjoyable, fun and connecting?!
Based on your comments and post: Don't worry about it. Your friends are probably right: she was looking for a reason to end things. Let her. Move on to a relationship with someone emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship to begin with. She might need a few more years before she can get to that point, and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm sure you are a much different person now, than you were at 19.
Try dating a little closer to your age next time: maybe a classmate or friend. It helps if both partners are in a similar phase of life. In this case: college or post-college and looking to establish yourself. At 19, a girl is likely still adjusting to the wider world and figuring out what it means (in practical, every day terms,) to be an adult. You likely are beyond that, which can make it difficult to communicate, talk out conflict and express your needs without some confusion or further conflict occuring.
Good luck moving forward, and keep your passwords private unless or until it's appropriate to share them! (Ex: phone password for a trusted partner so that she can assist you in something, access your phone in an emergency, etc…shared accounts where you should both have access; banking, healthcare…etc.)
I’ll pre-face this by saying I have Anorexia and Bulimia, and I experience weight loss with one and weight gain with the other.
Some people with restrictive eating disorders will restrict their eating to once a day, some people eat in secret when no one else is around, embarrassed to eat in front of others or unable to purge around others. But, some people without eating disorders can also be uncomfortable eating around other people. Has she told you she has an eating disorder or are you piecing this together?
I don’t think your last question would be an appropriate one to push. I’ve had waves of Anorexia and Bulimia for a decade and sometimes I’m teetering on overweight with the latter. Eating disorders come in all shapes and sizes and the last thing you want to do is push that question, as it could potentially have a negative impact if an eating disorder is driven by appearance.
My advice, if you are going to have a conversation about her eating, would be to go into it first from a perspective of, “I’ve noticed you’re barely eating most of the time and I’m worried about you, do you want to talk about it?”
When she is saying to “just cancel” the wedding does that mean ending the relationship for her? Because I personally think she should end the relationship.
Nice one Harold
Honestly too fast, I seriously recommend you get therapy if you can. An abusive relationship can do hell on your mental health and psyche.
calm down
She is my one and only. Not many people get to have what we have. We’ve been talking and have worked it out. Even though it may seem hypocritical on this post, having someone you can truly trust, with anything and everything in the entire world is a beautiful gift, and I’m not going to let a misunderstanding disrupt that. We are good now and both see each others sides and have made changes and apologies
Lol ya think? 27 and 32 virgins maybe the first clue eh? Def some type of kink erotica.
I don’t think people often just wake up one day and change their mind on such a fundamental issue. There are two likely scenarios:
she says yes, gets pregnant and is an absentee mother at best because she considered this a compromise
she says she wants kids but remains on birth control and has “issues getting pregnant”
The latter, while mischievous, isn’t unheard of.
Just do something inbetween, pleasure her first, but don’t necessarily all the way to orgasm. Have sex, maybe she can keep touching herself and you guys can orgasm together, or she can finish after. – at least if this is a concern for her.
I just don't understand how you could involve your family so much into your relationship and base it on their opinions
It is YOUR relationship, YOUR responsibility. Especially now that you're having a child.
Ah.
perhaps meds would be a good idea
Never date a cop fr
This requires more assistance than you can provide. She needs medical intervention, and the sooner the better. If she takes 6 hours (approximately) to eat 3 partial meals, and weighs as little as you stated, her life is at risk. That's not something your love and care can overcome.
Your boyfriend is mean and immature. Any one who can't have an argument without getting off track and start name calling really needs to up their communication skills. If you want to stay together you should seek councilling.
If you have been questioning your relationship for that long I think it’s probably time for a serious talk with him. Tell him exactly what you are feeling and that you’re considering leaving. Another thing I just thought of, sex drives dwindle as men get older. He’s older and your sex drive is probably higher than his. If he’s not willing to make any changes to help the relationship it’s time to walk away.
He didn’t get to eat at all during his shift because he got stubborn and petty by asking me to turn around when I felt bad and was on my way to bring him the lunch – I would have made it in time for his second lunch
If my partner spat in my face purposefully I'd tell them to get the fck out of my house and take their crap with them. We'd be done instantly.
If my partner spat in my face purposefully I'd tell them to get the fck out of my house and take their crap with them. We'd be done instantly.
Seems pretty simple, own up and tell them its yours. It seems your sister knows about your sexuality and has kept that secret for you despite you letting her take the fall and be punished for your actions. Your sister is a much better person than you.
Hey OP, a few things. First in general good job doing you! My wife and I both grew a lot in our early 20s, but we’ve grown together (early 30s now) growing apart is also totally possible.
The reason I’m replying to this in particular is your “memory” issues don’t sound like memory issues, they sound like underdeveloped executive functioning. Please see a mental health professional, in addition to the general benefits of therapy (my wife and I do individual therapy, couples therapy might help you and your husbands relationship) talking to one might help you with strategies or even medication to help with those issues. I’ve spent a long time developing a hodgepodge system (phone reminders being some of mine too) to get me through those.
I honestly wish you all the best in your career and life in general. Take care of yourself. Good luck.
PS. I'm nosy enough to wanna know how it turns out if you're willing to share.
We were being dumb and not using protection. I wanted to start using it to avoid getting her pregnant. It only takes once.
If my spouse tried to tell people my kid, his step kid, was not actually mine I would be looking at a divorce, but that's me. You have kids together, so obviously you want to try to work stuff out.
You need to take a more active role in your community social lives. Are there father son events? Sign you and your son up. Take walks together and stop and say hi to your neighbors, introducing them to your son and letting them know he just moved over here from France. Go grocery shopping together and introduce him to any of your wife's friends when you see them. Show up to school events with him. Not only will you be getting much needed bonding time with your son, you'll be showing your son and the community that he's your kid and not some dirty secret your wife gets to lie about.
Also try to get your wife to therapy- there's something very wrong with her.
This is the truth.
OP you expressed feeling like the relationship has run its course. Stick to that feeling. He is absolutely abusive and this is definitely one of those things that should not only trigger the red flags but the sirens. You need to get out of this situation.
Do you have someone else to stay with? If I was you I would pack up my stuff while he is away at work and get out before you tell him it's over. Leaving abusers is the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship.
You'll never know if he is weaponizing his therapy or being genuine. But it really doesn't matter. He is not interested in hearing your concerns and feelings. He is abusive. He had choked you. There is so much more out there for you.
She’s too young for you. And you’re entirely incompatible.