I have a friend who doing a proof in math. He has talked to me about it for at an hour maybe two. I have NO IDEA what he's talking about. It is a concept that is miles ahead of my ability. But I say: “un huh, wow. That's amazing.” I might pick up on certain part of the story.
But there is something missing in your wife's logic. being a protagonist does not mean that one will become a store manager.
If I were you, I would give your wife a choice. You can tell her that you notice that she talks in non sequiturs, and makes leaps of logic that you don't follow. You can either ask her questions, or you can pretend to understand. But you are tired of her getting mad at you these issues.
Yikes, from your ex bf's point of view it's the worst thing that could of happened to him. Nothing outside of time travel could fix this mess, better to just take it as a hard lesson learned and maybe work on not getting black out drunk.
You're assuming malice here and I don't think there is any. Just a thoughtless drunk teenage girl who listened to her hormones and not her head and did something stupid.
Would I agree OP probably shouldn't date her? Sure. Would I advise him to do anything you're saying? No. Unnecessarily cruel, not to mention she's close in his friendgroup and seeing each other is unavoidable for the foreseeable future. Maintaining civil relations means not disrupting the friend group.
He's not being civil to her for her sake, he's doing it for his and his friends.
You're under no obligation to allow self destructive people into your child's life. That includes your own mother.
If she gets off the addictions and against all odds gets her life together, I'm sure you'd give her more consideration, but really you must do what is best for your child.
Most guys do watch porn or naked women pictures. They like to masturbate and that way takes less effort. It usually has nothing to do with being unsatisfied with their partner.
I have a friend who doing a proof in math. He has talked to me about it for at an hour maybe two. I have NO IDEA what he's talking about. It is a concept that is miles ahead of my ability. But I say: “un huh, wow. That's amazing.” I might pick up on certain part of the story.
But there is something missing in your wife's logic. being a protagonist does not mean that one will become a store manager.
If I were you, I would give your wife a choice. You can tell her that you notice that she talks in non sequiturs, and makes leaps of logic that you don't follow. You can either ask her questions, or you can pretend to understand. But you are tired of her getting mad at you these issues.
Yikes, from your ex bf's point of view it's the worst thing that could of happened to him. Nothing outside of time travel could fix this mess, better to just take it as a hard lesson learned and maybe work on not getting black out drunk.
You're assuming malice here and I don't think there is any. Just a thoughtless drunk teenage girl who listened to her hormones and not her head and did something stupid.
Would I agree OP probably shouldn't date her? Sure. Would I advise him to do anything you're saying? No. Unnecessarily cruel, not to mention she's close in his friendgroup and seeing each other is unavoidable for the foreseeable future. Maintaining civil relations means not disrupting the friend group.
He's not being civil to her for her sake, he's doing it for his and his friends.
You're under no obligation to allow self destructive people into your child's life. That includes your own mother.
If she gets off the addictions and against all odds gets her life together, I'm sure you'd give her more consideration, but really you must do what is best for your child.
Most guys do watch porn or naked women pictures. They like to masturbate and that way takes less effort. It usually has nothing to do with being unsatisfied with their partner.
there's no coming back, man. Once you mess with a married woman, you will be a guy who goes after married women. Even if no one knows it.