Jesus Christ, so you’re saying people to get married under the age of 25 are still children, people that have children under the age of 25 are still children. I do not agree with any of that. Under 25’s can’t make decisions? I think every woman under the age of 25 would strongly disagree with this. Should they still be asking their parents to decide for them.
Honestly I would suggest the both of you going to therapy. You need to communicate how these accusations make you feel and she needs to deal with whatever is making her internalize her friends problems. Its normal and healthy to have empathy for your friends in bad situations but when they become stuck in a loop and can't move on, they might need the help in doing it.
I don't disagree but some people date for 2 months and see each other 4 times during that time. People also have wildly, wildly different ideas of when it makes sense to become official. I just think it needs to be before strong feelings emerge, sometimes that's before or after the official thing and I've seen more and more people bundle everything in with moving in together because they're doing that out of convenience.
Basically, do it before any of those things. Fair?
this situation is just annoying
Why do women do this to their children.
Jesus Christ, so you’re saying people to get married under the age of 25 are still children, people that have children under the age of 25 are still children. I do not agree with any of that. Under 25’s can’t make decisions? I think every woman under the age of 25 would strongly disagree with this. Should they still be asking their parents to decide for them.
If you invite your girlfriend then that should be good enough. Npt sure what's the problem is.
I have and there's a problem. I mean this with complete sincerity; did you read my post?
Also my friend did not tell me not to invite my girlfriend. I am not sure where you're getting that.
Honestly I would suggest the both of you going to therapy. You need to communicate how these accusations make you feel and she needs to deal with whatever is making her internalize her friends problems. Its normal and healthy to have empathy for your friends in bad situations but when they become stuck in a loop and can't move on, they might need the help in doing it.
You are 28 and can celebrate your birthday 15 times a year if you want. A bar mitzvah is once in a lifetime.
Boundary: if you do _____, I’m leaving.
Not a boundary: You can’t do _____.
The 2nd one is controlling and is what your boyfriend does. Why are you putting up with it??
Would he get upset if you told him he couldn’t go clubbing? Would he do what you demanded or would he go anyway?
Tell her to grow up. It's a fucking pillow for God's sake. I hate to imagine what else sets her off. She sounds dandy.
I don't disagree but some people date for 2 months and see each other 4 times during that time. People also have wildly, wildly different ideas of when it makes sense to become official. I just think it needs to be before strong feelings emerge, sometimes that's before or after the official thing and I've seen more and more people bundle everything in with moving in together because they're doing that out of convenience.
Basically, do it before any of those things. Fair?
i think i replied right as it got deleted ?