I think it's great you guys are friends. If there was anything suspicious then I could understand her feelings but honestly she should be glad your ex is so nice and normal and not trying to butt into your relationship. Sooo many people have to worry about an ex over stepping or being difficult to be difficult but it's so nice and ideal when they're focused on the kids wellbeing with healthy coparenting.
This Reddit sub is some of your evidence. Screenshot all of it. Get a lawyer. Take your kid and go to a shelter. Go to the ER and get both of you tested. Do not communicate with your H. Clean out your bank account and start a new one at a different bank. NOW.
You’re welcome. Truly if your family is so wrapped up in a sky daddy from a few thousand years ago and can’t accept that the universe is billions of years old and that dinosaurs and the existence of Lucy prove that…..and can’t accept that their beloved family member wants to be a contributing member of society that doesn’t attend church, then big whoop dee doo, they don’t need to be in your life.
To me, it’s the equivalent of kicking your gay children out to the streets if they try to blackmail you or belittle you into THEIR way to keep contact. Even the POPE says no, that’s not okay. If you have any stock in religion, pretty sure the Pope has a good idea of the fundamental principles of love one another as He commanded.
I don't like your boyfriend. You may have made some poor choices trying to smooth things over with your family and him, and I think your uncle was overstepping to get involved, BUT – and it's a big but: you say that when you argue, your boyfriend says things that “cut the deepest, and then radio silence.” This doesn't sound like a recipe for a comfortable happy relationship.
Second, you seem very close to your family, and he seems to not want that. He doesn't want to be close to your family, and he doesn't really like it that you are close to your family. I think this complaint he had about your grandmother was contrived on his part as an excuse to not have to be with you and your family together.
Whether you realize it now or not, your family IS precious, and if you are close to them, you should find someone who shares those values, and will want to be a part of your family. Not someone who gives you ultimatums about them and makes excuses about why they don't want to be around them. Let him go. Keep the family. Even keep the dog.
How could you possibly “fall back into this relationship“?
He left the relationship, OP! The new gf was his future, he even introduced her to his family! Probably to his friends too.
The only person who didn’t know about her was you! He didn’t even have enough respect for you to end your relationship. Introducing her to his family tells you everything. That he had absolutely no plans on you ever seeing them again, you two were over. His family got some type of explanation, more than you did.
This was not a mistake or an affair. He’s a lowlife & you need to stay far away from him. The only reason he wants to stay with you is if new gf is smart enough to dump him. He‘ll need you as backup while he starts dating again. That’s how lousy this guy is. You deserve better than this.
Why don't you remove yourself from the personal drama and just be professional at work? dont bother telling drama or listening to it. that way it wont matter if billy ray is having an affair with loquisha or that Madeline likes to lick toes. You simply wont care anymore since they will stop telling you the drama, which in no way fuels you.
Like it’ll backfire, he’ll be mad and jealous and blame you for being unfaithful. Or he’ll love it and expect to share you whenever and whenever he wants. Or, he’ll decide it’s only fair now if he fucks another woman. There are a million ways for this to go wrong, take your pick.
Then you need to end the relationship.
I think it's great you guys are friends. If there was anything suspicious then I could understand her feelings but honestly she should be glad your ex is so nice and normal and not trying to butt into your relationship. Sooo many people have to worry about an ex over stepping or being difficult to be difficult but it's so nice and ideal when they're focused on the kids wellbeing with healthy coparenting.
This Reddit sub is some of your evidence. Screenshot all of it. Get a lawyer. Take your kid and go to a shelter. Go to the ER and get both of you tested. Do not communicate with your H. Clean out your bank account and start a new one at a different bank. NOW.
You’re welcome. Truly if your family is so wrapped up in a sky daddy from a few thousand years ago and can’t accept that the universe is billions of years old and that dinosaurs and the existence of Lucy prove that…..and can’t accept that their beloved family member wants to be a contributing member of society that doesn’t attend church, then big whoop dee doo, they don’t need to be in your life.
To me, it’s the equivalent of kicking your gay children out to the streets if they try to blackmail you or belittle you into THEIR way to keep contact. Even the POPE says no, that’s not okay. If you have any stock in religion, pretty sure the Pope has a good idea of the fundamental principles of love one another as He commanded.
Okay, thank you for ur time
I don't like your boyfriend. You may have made some poor choices trying to smooth things over with your family and him, and I think your uncle was overstepping to get involved, BUT – and it's a big but: you say that when you argue, your boyfriend says things that “cut the deepest, and then radio silence.” This doesn't sound like a recipe for a comfortable happy relationship.
Second, you seem very close to your family, and he seems to not want that. He doesn't want to be close to your family, and he doesn't really like it that you are close to your family. I think this complaint he had about your grandmother was contrived on his part as an excuse to not have to be with you and your family together.
Whether you realize it now or not, your family IS precious, and if you are close to them, you should find someone who shares those values, and will want to be a part of your family. Not someone who gives you ultimatums about them and makes excuses about why they don't want to be around them. Let him go. Keep the family. Even keep the dog.
How could you possibly “fall back into this relationship“?
He left the relationship, OP! The new gf was his future, he even introduced her to his family! Probably to his friends too.
The only person who didn’t know about her was you! He didn’t even have enough respect for you to end your relationship. Introducing her to his family tells you everything. That he had absolutely no plans on you ever seeing them again, you two were over. His family got some type of explanation, more than you did.
This was not a mistake or an affair. He’s a lowlife & you need to stay far away from him. The only reason he wants to stay with you is if new gf is smart enough to dump him. He‘ll need you as backup while he starts dating again. That’s how lousy this guy is. You deserve better than this.
Why don't you remove yourself from the personal drama and just be professional at work? dont bother telling drama or listening to it. that way it wont matter if billy ray is having an affair with loquisha or that Madeline likes to lick toes. You simply wont care anymore since they will stop telling you the drama, which in no way fuels you.
Sounds like he failed the boyfriend test to me. Give him the boot, you'll find someone who treats you properly instead.
You’ve got a baby not a boyfriend. Leave him behind
That is why they call it snapping out if it.. all of a sudden, after a long build up of tension, you suddenly snap and do not care anymore.
Like it’ll backfire, he’ll be mad and jealous and blame you for being unfaithful. Or he’ll love it and expect to share you whenever and whenever he wants. Or, he’ll decide it’s only fair now if he fucks another woman. There are a million ways for this to go wrong, take your pick.