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I wouldn’t suspect his cheating. If it’s a hotel like a bar thats pretty normal for mates to go there for a drink? I wouldn’t question my boyfriend at all for doing that.
I’m surprised you have each others locations on, from what I read it sounds intense like almost over protective of each other which can cause the other being afraid of where they can and cannot go. I mean I would turn my phone off too just to have some normality/freedom.
If he loves you, why are you second guessing the start?
Many years ago, one of my sisters was seeing a couple of guys casually, and unsure if either of them was long term material, but thought she had more of a spark with one. Her car broke down in a bad neighborhood in NYC, where she was living at the time, and she was told it would be hours before she could get a tow. The guy who was kind of her second choice was part owner of a family auto repair place with his dad. He came to her immediately. The relief of the rescue of course made her look at him more closely, and to see more of those good qualities she'd been overlooking. Additionally, she found out that when he'd asked his dad if he'd cover so he could go help her, his dad's reaction was something along the lines of 'why are you even asking, go!' Seeing what kind of person had raised him was also a plus. Though he started as somewhat second choice, she fell deeply for him, and they've been married well over ten years.
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Sounds like this girl has a temptation and has a hard time following through with it.
She knows she shouldn't get involved with you. Which results in this back and forth of her mind flipping to hot and cold.
It would be nice to see him and have sex. No, I can't he's my ex Oh but he looks so good! NO! HES MY FUCKING EX I CANT *blocked*
I really doubt that's the case. He lives with me and spends 95% of his free time with me. Other than meeting his family, he's very open about his life. He says his biggest regret is that he never found the right person and had children.
I do know his brother and SIL are a bit younger, but have been together for a long time. I had my son when I was 20 and his dad is not involved at all. BF was very interested in that, because his brother had a child (nephew) in his late teens. Apparently, the mother of the child was very high conflict and fought with BF's brother all the time. His brother then met SIL when she was in her late teens, and they ended up with full custody of BF's nephew. BF told me this in relation to being relieved that there wasn't a hostile ex around and a belief that we could have a nuclear family unit, too.
It doesn't seem plausible that his neices are his secret daughters, given that SIL has been with his brother for so long.
I’m confused. You think he’ll go off because you don’t get a sorry? That doesn’t make sense.
Seriously? Grow tf up and tell your mom she either accepts it or she's not a part of your life. You're 30 ffs! Why do you need mommy's approval?
Meow? No… but you make a good point.. sigh It really sucksn because aside from this one, really awful side of things we're actually good together. (When I'm not being annoying with the hyperactive attention seeking energy of a Labradoodle) ?
I 18 F found out My boyfriend 18M was jerking off to other girls pictures, for context we first dated for 2 years but broke up in 2020 and got back together in January 2022 I found out I was 8 weeks pregnant in may and had our daughter in December so I am almost 2 months postpartum we had sex for the first time again 3 days ago and 2 days ago I woke up and heard him making some suspicious noises in our bathroom so I went to see if he was on Snapchat where our “spicy videos” are where he says he jerks off to and he wasn’t active but he was active on Facebook so I played it cool and went to the bathroom to ask what he was doing and he said he was shitting but by the noises he was making that was forsure not the case so I went and laid down when he came back he asked what was wrong since I was quiet and I asked if he was jerking off he lied to me and I felt so betrayed and hurt so I asked him to be honest and he admitted to it and I asked what he was doing it to he told me he was doing it to my nudes and the videos we made together I told him I knew he wasn’t and his face gave it away I straight up asked if he was doing it to pictures if other girls and he said yes but it wasn’t a reflection to his attraction to me or his love for me and in that moment I felt the urge to break up with him but I can’t bring myself to do that because of our daughter I grew up with separated parents and I hated it I don’t wanna put her through that so I’m debating on asking him for an open relationship I feel it’s like some sort of revenge for me since I don’t find closure in him I can find it in myself with someone else I don’t wanna break up with him also because he has depression and I don’t want him to fall into a worse state since I do still love him dearly but I don’t want my daughter growing up watching sunsets since I fear his depression can get that worse if I break up with him
You shouldn't have to explain in detail your history of trauma for a man to listen to “no”
That is honestly one of the greatest things I’ve heard. Thank you for highlighting this for me. I never thought about it that way, and I have to find a way to understand what this is. I have no clue where to start but maybe time will help me see it. bless you too and thank you so much for being part of my journey in discovering this part of my life. I’m really grateful
>>This is the first time I've felt this strongly about her.
This is competition at work, not love for one who got away? Tell yourself that whenever you are inclined to perseverate about her. You left her, and now she has perhaps done better than you (not to sound harsh)? And that is a blow to your ego.
I don’t see how her admitting her ex was the biggest and made her orgasm the most has anything to do with her perception of your sex life together. To get her perception of your sex life you need to ask her directly about it and then talk about ways to make it better.
If you want better for yourself, and he doesn’t want better for himself, then there is only so much you can do.
You can direct him towards professional help. Maybe he needs a prescription for antidepressants. I’m not a doctor, just brainstorming.
You can reach out to his family, and let them know you’re worried that he might be suicidal. I’m sure his family would rather have a heads up and intervene when it matters, rather than attend his funeral. If for some reason they truly don’t care, then maybe you can reach out to one of his old friends. If nothing is working, then at some point all you can do is take care of yourself.
I would also recommend YOU seek a professional for yourself. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot. Talking with a therapist can be part of you doing better for yourself. Also, spend quality time with your friends and family. You’re worried so much about him but you need your support as well.
Ultimately, he chooses how to spend his time. He chooses what to do with his life. Same way you decide what to do with your time. You choose what to do with your life.
She does need to see a doctor. I understand her concerns about being admitted to hospital but generally this doesn’t happen unless she’s a threat to herself or others, or floridly psychotic. Given the fact that she disclosed to you that she thinks she’s hallucinating, she still has a level of insight left that indicates she’s likely not meeting any of that criteria.
She’s confided in you that she’s unwell and when this has happened before things have spiralled. Help her get some help
No, you are not overreacting. You deserve more. I totally understand how you feel. It is toxic.