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This could literally be avoided by writing out an actual will, marriage was still optional in this example
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A bit of backstory – They broke up 2 years ago, he had 20+ photos of her. After a month of us being official (we were dating for 6 months) I asked him why he still has the photos of her. He said “I had thought about deleting them because I wouldn’t like it if you had photos with your ex.” Annoyed me that he didn’t delete them by himself, and I had to ask. He deleted most of them, he kept 2 clear couple photos though and there’s still 4 group photos with friends. I brought it up again a week later, saying there’s still photos that are clearly couple pics. He deleted the one, the other one is them on a mountain where you can’t really see them but she’s tagged. Then there’s another one which is a bit blurry but is clearly them two and she’s also tagged. The group photos might be okay to keep, but there’s one where she’s taking the selfie of the group and it really stands out on his profile. I don’t know whether to bring those up again, because I’ve asked twice already and he kept some.
Regarding the pics of me. He posted a story of us for my birthday, which she unfollowed him after and removed him as a follower. I’m glad he posted the story, but it only lasts 24 hours and that was over a month ago. We went on holiday a few weeks ago and he hasn’t posted anything of the holiday. I asked him if he’s going to post anything, he said “I don’t really use it anymore.” He posted last in April so I can see he doesn’t much, but he posted every single holiday he went on with his ex. I don’t want to seem crazy if I bring up the ex pics, but it’s bothering me a lot lately.
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Oh OP no.
You are NOT to blame for your abuse. Ever. It is not a reflection of how strong, or mature, or independent you are. That's part of abuse, it's insidious and sneaks in. Then next thing you know, you look around and realize he's hurting you. It's a frog in the frying pan situation.
Sometimes its good to get a different perspective, so I'll toss in mine lol
I occasionally wear mens underwear cuz some of its more comfy than womens honestly. Could it be that, and shes just too embarrassed to tell you?
My roommate recently found an exes boxers mixed in with her laundry.. an ex she hasnt even spoken to for about 2 years. No clue where they came from, or where theyve been hiding for so long – they just materialised one day in the laundry. Weird shit happens sometimes. We've literally moved in that time, it was the most bewildering thing
Now, the more probable one – the excuse she gave, that theyre her BILs. A lot of people are bringing up, why would she be so opposed to you asking BIL? But honestly, I think thats an obvious one. How humiliating would it be for you to have your partner go to your family and say 'I found this underwear in my partners stuff, I dont trust them and think theyre cheating, is it yours?' – youd be so embarrassed, whether you did anything wrong or not! It doesnt matter how its worded.. theres only one reason someone would be asking a question like that. Now everyone knows your partner doesnt trust you.
Im not saying you shouldnt be suspicious – I would be too. But, honestly, id wait for a little more evidence before jumping around and humiliating her, because that is likely to be relationship-ending. Is she doing anything else to make you distrust her? Is this something you can sit down and talk to her about? Important to think about before you act on it
I would also consider publicly announcing what she did to the family and requesting she not be at gatherings you're invited to because she is torturing your wife. Also, even though it may be uncomfortable, if you are around her again and she makes comments about your body, raise your voice where people can hear it and tell her she is being inappropriate and making you feel uncomfortable and you’re in no way interested in her speaking to you like that or touching you. Personally, I don't know how you have put up with it this long. I probably would've made a scene by now. the family needs to put the sister in line or you guys need to go no contact bc if the parents aren't upset that the sister is doing this then they are part of the problem. It sounds like she's been allowed to behave this way for years.
She can just decide this for you. You DO NOT have to move in with her. You can still do this once she can provide 50% of the living costs
Please let her plan the trip all by herself and deal with all the obstacles on her own. There is a difference between being impulsive and being spontaneous. She sounds childish and immature and the fact that, at her age, she can’t even be bothered to drive and expects you to do all the “adulting” makes her sound absolutely awful, manipulative, and very unworthy of you. Leave her to fend for herself and maybe she will grow up a little.
There’s (obviously) a delicate line between how honest one should be, and what questions the other person should expect answers to.
A more safe way to navigate that argument would’ve been to say that you don’t want to talk about it. Sure, he is responsible for his own questions but still, it’s a dance where both of you are taking part.
The cats out of the bag now though, not much to do except wait for it to hopefully blow over.
Are you aware that your statements are inherently misogynistic? Women should not be forced to refrain from clubbing due to the actions of men. The underlying problem lies in why men feel the need to prey on intoxicated women, resulting in an unsafe environment for women at clubs. It is not a woman's obligation to modify her behavior or take responsibility for a man's advances. The onus should be on men to change their predatory behavior and being inappropriate, instead of suggesting that women stop their enjoyment of clubbing because of these unsavory men.
OP deleted her other post due to all the negativity ppl were giving her.
She also admitted her husband bullied someone to suicide and that she doesnt want her to punish her son because she doesnt want “to be mean”
Basically she and her husband are bullies, she’s blaming the husband only, her replies indicate shes terrible, and doesnt want to do anything actually serious about her son
The thing is my passion is drama, literature, photography, film, music.
These things can be your passion, but it doesn't necessarily mean that you are good enough at them to earn money. Or presumably you might be on a stage in the West End by now. And the odd jobs you've had don't align to what you say your passion is. Security, urban farming, video game testing and calls centers aren't going to bolster your resume to give you a foot up over other candidates.
If you don't want a regular job, your relationship will probably end. That's a decision you'll need to make vs. begrudgingly starting a job in Finance (at 30 yrs old) and holding it against your gf.
Or you could consider doing some actual research into what types of jobs you could do with a Finance degree in the arts: museum, theater, etc. Unfortunately, it doesn't look like you've invested any time working for a non-profit, which is a big hole in your resume.
Im not hung up on the scenario. This question did not affect my mood or my relationship with my wife in the slightest. I was just asking for other opinions after the talk and then had to deal with people being up in arms all emotionally on the internet. But it seems people aren't willing to see the whole picture and both perspectives, or we aren't talking about the same thing. People are just saying get over it but aren't seeing that it is hard scenario to get over if it ever did. I could be struck by lightning the next time i go to the mail box, the odds are slim but it could happen that's not gonna stop me from getting my mail. This isn't an immature question, would you eat my booger for 5 bucks is a immature question.
Yep – even “dressing your age” can make a big impact.
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Send him a text inviting him out on a second date! Could make it super casual… ‘so I’m off to see xxx at the cinema on Saturday, fancy joining me?’
RIP in peace Mitch.
While you are right, when he’s insecure is not the time to breakdown and attempt to dismantle the systemic body image issues perpetuated by the porn industry.
Anyone with that attitude is not worth dealing with. He's probably gotten sucked into some gross corner of the internet and will only get worse.
One of my favorite parts of my relationship with my husband is we don't care about “gender roles”, we're just two humans trying to make life work.
Whether or not someone feels like a “man” is all internal and all about him, and his own values and actions. It shouldn't be influenced by their partner, unless they see their partner as an object and extension of themselves to control.
I don't know what dictionary you got your definition of “accident” from, but none of this was accidental.
You've been deliberately hanging out with and flirting with a guy you're attracted to, have hidden the fact that you have a boyfriend from him, have consented to be in a relationship with him, and have kissed him.
None of this is accidental. This is you just making piss-poor decisions and cheating on your boyfriend.
You should be stressed. You're making fools of two men right now with your crappy choices.
He is likely afraid of intimacy.