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That’s tough- but I do think even an online/distance session could be helpful. Set out a number of calls to talk about it with your practitioner (I don’t know, maybe 3?) for once a week. That also gives yourself some time to process and slow down the initial feelings of panic/feeling like how upset you are is permanent. If you can slow down a bit and process what happened you may be able to repair the relationship. I know a lot of people on here are like, “on to the next”, “lesson learned”, etc, but it sounds like this has been a deeply meaningful relationship and just because you are young doesn’t mean it’s not significant. Also, being on an island and finding someone with similar vision for their life path is a big deal. Taking a little time to see if you can work through this may be worth it in my opinion. Mistakes were made, but you are both young and mistakes can happen especially when trying something out like a threesome. Older you will be grateful at how you practiced maturity- even if it doesn’t work out. Good luck OP!
No you're not an asshole for wanting different things.
The two of you have very different ideas of what life is going to look like and you're well within your guilt free rights to not want this setup at all.
Yeah I see where you’re coming from. But vasectomies and tubal ligations are not equal. One is easy to get. One is difficult. Especially if you haven’t already had children and you’re under 50.
One is a minor procedure that will have you him within a couple of hours. The other often requires general anaesthetic and abdominal surgery.
One is commonly reversible. The other almost impossible to reverse.
One requires a very simple action to deposit sperm for freezing if necessary. The other requires a more complex and difficult and specially timed procedure for egg removal if needed.
One is often covered under government health programmes or easily by health insurance. The other is very rarely funded by either government or insurance.
So they really can’t be talked about in any true equal measure.
“Weak character will neutralize all of the other possible good qualities a person might possess.” -Robert Greene
Your friend has weak character. She’s not a fundamentally kind person, and I can guarantee that any kindness that she shows is highly contingent on how much attention she’s gotten that day.
“Weak character will neutralize all of the other possible good qualities a person might possess.” -Robert Greene
Your friend has weak character. She’s not a fundamentally kind person, and I can guarantee that any kindness that she shows is highly contingent on how much attention she’s gotten that day.
That’s tough- but I do think even an online/distance session could be helpful. Set out a number of calls to talk about it with your practitioner (I don’t know, maybe 3?) for once a week. That also gives yourself some time to process and slow down the initial feelings of panic/feeling like how upset you are is permanent. If you can slow down a bit and process what happened you may be able to repair the relationship. I know a lot of people on here are like, “on to the next”, “lesson learned”, etc, but it sounds like this has been a deeply meaningful relationship and just because you are young doesn’t mean it’s not significant. Also, being on an island and finding someone with similar vision for their life path is a big deal. Taking a little time to see if you can work through this may be worth it in my opinion. Mistakes were made, but you are both young and mistakes can happen especially when trying something out like a threesome. Older you will be grateful at how you practiced maturity- even if it doesn’t work out. Good luck OP!
No you're not an asshole for wanting different things.
The two of you have very different ideas of what life is going to look like and you're well within your guilt free rights to not want this setup at all.
Yeah I see where you’re coming from. But vasectomies and tubal ligations are not equal. One is easy to get. One is difficult. Especially if you haven’t already had children and you’re under 50.
One is a minor procedure that will have you him within a couple of hours. The other often requires general anaesthetic and abdominal surgery.
One is commonly reversible. The other almost impossible to reverse.
One requires a very simple action to deposit sperm for freezing if necessary. The other requires a more complex and difficult and specially timed procedure for egg removal if needed.
One is often covered under government health programmes or easily by health insurance. The other is very rarely funded by either government or insurance.
So they really can’t be talked about in any true equal measure.
Are you gonna have to cover his loss? If not, then don't worry about it. He has to learn on his own.
“Weak character will neutralize all of the other possible good qualities a person might possess.” -Robert Greene
Your friend has weak character. She’s not a fundamentally kind person, and I can guarantee that any kindness that she shows is highly contingent on how much attention she’s gotten that day.
“Weak character will neutralize all of the other possible good qualities a person might possess.” -Robert Greene
Your friend has weak character. She’s not a fundamentally kind person, and I can guarantee that any kindness that she shows is highly contingent on how much attention she’s gotten that day.
Not even just that. But his reason is a huge red flag too.
He can’t put on his big boy pants and suck it up that his girlfriend has an apartment, so he wants to break up with her to spare his own feelings…
Easy, you tell him no not ready may never be ready. Don’t do this under duress