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Date: October 8, 2022
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relationships should stay pretty private. issues between you two should stay that way. you should always be able to communicate and it seems like he lacks that emotional maturity. you said you tried couples therapy and didn’t work. have you considered you aren’t compatible? pls find someone who can act like an adult and do the basics of communicating to you and not confiding solely in others/strangers.
Yup. There is no possible way you KNOW him, you just know a bit about him. It takes a long time to really know a person, so you literally cannot love him, just maybe the idea of what he could be.
Prepare for disappointment.
I had to go reread because I was definitely thinking this was 2 people who had been together for like 6 months. Married?!? Oh boy.
In retrospect, I wish I would have done more training to get the cats and the dog to a more cordial point then they are now, so I guess that is my bad. My wife was good with the cats when we didn't have the dog. And she is really good with the dog but I am having a hard time with her unwillingness to work on this. According to her, she is to busy when she works from home. The fact that I can manage this when I work from home is of no importance.
Yeah you're not as bad as my bf is but de-escalation is tricky. There's lots of variables when dealing with strangers so there's no best way to do it, but you should probably try asking your girlfriend if she wants to move somewhere else, ignoring the guy as much as you can, finding security if necessary.
Why in the world would you even consider meeting up with an abuser? WHY?
Call your therapist.
Do not even respond, block him.
You dont need an apology, or closure. Its over and done. Your therapist needs to know you are looking for excuses to see him again,.
I would suggest that you two don't have kids. I can certainly understand his anxiety and I can certainly understand how you feel disrespected. But this is something you both need to find a peaceful way to solve before you ever think about having kids or it's going to get explosive.
It sounds like he's got some trauma from being cheated on or has cheated in his past so he's almost expecting it. He could do well with some therapy to try to overcome that trauma. Personally, I wouldn't try to take it too personally. I know it sounds like he may be talking about you being an unfaithful person, but it might be more of a nagging “but what if?” question in the back of his head. And you being resistant to it might also be further making him suspicious.
He also needs to be accepting of how that can be upsetting to you and not make it feel like it's a requirement to have the kid.
Please fix this before having any kids because this sounds very volatile and that won't be good for a child to go through.
End it. Trust me. He’s way out of line here.
If he has iphone you can look up deleted texts for the past 30 days. Google instructions