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Date: September 30, 2022
I did, it was hard at first. I got therapy and a new hobby on top of my passion hobby and 6 months later my new friends and life in general was so peaceful! 2 years later of single life I met my husband. We are celebrating 7 years together and my life is still peaceful. I picked up one of my husband’s hobbies and he took up one of mine and we, in general, enjoy each other on so many levels. You’re 20 you’ll learn that sometimes when life sucks you only have yourself to get through it, learning to be alone is actually the best lesson to learn.
Exactly ! OP I want you to ask yourself something:
If you had self esteem and self respect , what would you be doing about this?
Would you be thinking about staying with him because you feel desperate and scared ?
Or would you value yourself enough to get rid of someone who is so utterly despicable to you?
What would your life look like if you actually took care of yourself?
Group of 10 men don’t just stand in the woods… it’s sex, drugs, or both. Or might be dooms day prepping or starting a cult but you didn’t see anything that points to that .
This isn’t going to work. If OP were interested in the family’s ancestry, he and his wife could both get tested. What reason would he give for wanting the baby tested?
2 things here. Number 1 your family/friends telling you your SO is being a bit selfish and not being flexible is usually a red flag. 2. You seem to know this which only leaves you with one thing to do.
Have a talk with her heart to heart and let her know. Let her know how you feel. Don’t mention people telling you but use your OWN emotions and let her know how her behavior is negatively impacting your guys relationship. If she is not flexible or doesn’t help you come up with a solution it’s best to break things off.
I'm not saying it's right what she is doing. But you seem to think the Court is going to care based on the word of the divorcee.
I get asked ‘are you and the kids free?’ for any events, so yes, I do feel he would be explicitly invited if he was wanted there.
We are not married. Our choice. Neither of us have ever wanted to get, or seen the point in being, married. Just a personal preference. We debated it when we went for a mortgage, but when discussed with a solicitor, they advised what there were other things that could be done much more quickly and simply, without having to get married if we did not want to, with the exact same outcome if the worst should happen. If we ever were to marry, it would change nothing other than change my surname.
Is it possible that he’s a little overwhelmed because you depend on him as your primary person to interact with and he wants a little more autonomy?
I’ve dated people before who don’t have their “own thing” and basically expected me to entertain them and spend every spare moment with them. That’s pretty stifling.
If you thought the tone of my posts were hostile, then I can clearly see why you have a hard time connecting with people (yes, this is hostile…no doubt about it).
What I was saying is that the reason you have trouble making friends is because you want too much from them individually. Most people are not wired the way you are in that you want complexity from the jump. You would have likely been able to make more friends or sustain relationships if you would have been open to the fact that most people are also coming to YOU with their emotional needs as well. You're approaching the friendships selfishly and looking at it from only what you can gain. What about what they would like out of a friendship with you?
Your best friend came with you with news he was excited about. He wanted a friend who would be happy for him and would share in his joy. But instead you told him how he was making a horrible mistake and then he stopped talking to you. You never considered why he came to you and what he needed from YOU emotionally.
Lastly you wrote out a novel. For which, not many people here would even take the time to read. I read it, considered it, gave insight as to how you could help your own relationships with your partner and best friend and also seek additional outside emotional fulfillment by spreading it around. And then you condescend me by saying it wasn't thoughtful or even “advice” is pretty telling.
If someone has problems with everyone, what is the common denominator? It's not everyone. Good luck.
he also doesn’t go to them or take anything anymore
She’s offering to pay for his lawyer
If OP doesn't have money for a lawyer the court will force the wife to pay for it anyway.
bring the kids to him 2 weeks out of every 2 months,
2 things here: First, this promise is bullshit because everyone knows once the kids are school age, it will be impossible to keep. Second, the court will never grant her to move the children out of state without OP's consent, so this isn't a offering to OP at all, it's a taking from him
not asking for child support,
Again the court is likely to award split custody, and since the Wife is the breadwinner and OP is disabled, if there is any child support or alimony payments awarded, they will go to OP.
giving him the house
This she is legitimately offering, but only because she can't take it with her out of state.
paying for his caretaker,
Again, if OP doesn't have his own money for this, the court is likely to award it to him anyway.
and also saying she won’t remarry.
This is a bullshit, unenforceable promise.
So basically the wife is offering a house she can't use for OP's kids. I don't think that is that good of an offer, especially if there's a still a substantial mortgage on it.