I don't care if y'all were off and on. She could have spread her legs for anyone but she did it with your BF? That's out of revenge..
As far as your friend, let's be honest, bros before hoes is only when it's convenient for many.
But it's also fucked up because sge allowed him to remain close to her. If she was motivated by revenge once, you got yo ask yourself, after other big fights, did that feeling of revenge come back?
When you drink you make a choice. She made a choice before that because she got close to somebody when she was in a relationship. Alcohol gave her permission. She was not assaulted.
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Honestly, this would be the end of our marriage and I'd file as quickly as possible. I'd be done.
There are some things you do NOT do in a marriage and one of them is cast cheating accusations haphazardly. If I am committing to live my life with you, merge finances, put myself on the line financially and make the sacrifices necessary for an enduring marriage, you better believe that a throw down like a demand for a paternity test will destroy my faith in you.
Trust is so incredibly fragile… once it is broken you might be able to rebuild it with marriage counseling but if my husband genuinely believed I would cheat then we shouldn't be together because he doesn't know me. I'm not going to waste my life on someone who doesn't trust me and hasn't bothered to get to know me as a person well enough to know that I don't cheat in a class assignment, a board game or on my taxes… let alone in a marriage.
So you went alone to his room drunk? Why? It hasn't been that long so I would most likely dump someone who thinks it's okay to go alone to a guy you just mets room drunk. I wouldn't date someone with such poor judgement regardless of what happened in the room.
do I say nothing and what he doesn’t know can’t hurt him but if he finds out down the line it will be a hundred times worse?
Fyi this is the logic most cheaters uses to “justify” not telling their spouse, so I don't think this is a healthy mindset to have. I'd tell him, because if it comes out later I don't there is any chance your relationship survives, I mean why he would he believe what you say then. The quicker the better
Nerd, routine? Hobbies … he’s not tryna do what she’s trying to do… not compatible. It’s that simple. Ppl will make plans and compromises for the same wants and needs…
you know, that actually makes me roll my eyes a little less at the people who take seriously what is sometimes very clearly fiction. at least people are responding and keeping the sense of community going. idk hope that makes sense i’m high but yea thanks man
Sooo… where did the car come from?
I don't care if y'all were off and on. She could have spread her legs for anyone but she did it with your BF? That's out of revenge..
As far as your friend, let's be honest, bros before hoes is only when it's convenient for many.
But it's also fucked up because sge allowed him to remain close to her. If she was motivated by revenge once, you got yo ask yourself, after other big fights, did that feeling of revenge come back?
When you drink you make a choice. She made a choice before that because she got close to somebody when she was in a relationship. Alcohol gave her permission. She was not assaulted.
No, she should be someone who isnt an emotional mess. This guy would irritate anyone.
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And this is exactly why children shouldnt get married.
Honestly, this would be the end of our marriage and I'd file as quickly as possible. I'd be done.
There are some things you do NOT do in a marriage and one of them is cast cheating accusations haphazardly. If I am committing to live my life with you, merge finances, put myself on the line financially and make the sacrifices necessary for an enduring marriage, you better believe that a throw down like a demand for a paternity test will destroy my faith in you.
Trust is so incredibly fragile… once it is broken you might be able to rebuild it with marriage counseling but if my husband genuinely believed I would cheat then we shouldn't be together because he doesn't know me. I'm not going to waste my life on someone who doesn't trust me and hasn't bothered to get to know me as a person well enough to know that I don't cheat in a class assignment, a board game or on my taxes… let alone in a marriage.
But, that is just me.
So you went alone to his room drunk? Why? It hasn't been that long so I would most likely dump someone who thinks it's okay to go alone to a guy you just mets room drunk. I wouldn't date someone with such poor judgement regardless of what happened in the room.
do I say nothing and what he doesn’t know can’t hurt him but if he finds out down the line it will be a hundred times worse?
Fyi this is the logic most cheaters uses to “justify” not telling their spouse, so I don't think this is a healthy mindset to have. I'd tell him, because if it comes out later I don't there is any chance your relationship survives, I mean why he would he believe what you say then. The quicker the better
Nerd, routine? Hobbies … he’s not tryna do what she’s trying to do… not compatible. It’s that simple. Ppl will make plans and compromises for the same wants and needs…
you know, that actually makes me roll my eyes a little less at the people who take seriously what is sometimes very clearly fiction. at least people are responding and keeping the sense of community going. idk hope that makes sense i’m high but yea thanks man
Leave.
This is not healthy.
You deserve someone who doesn't make you feel like this.
I’m 30 years old; in a similar position wanting to get on the property ladder. If my parents could give me a house; they would. But they can’t.
Don’t turn this down. You’ll forever regret it. Put the house 100% in your own name; and have your partner be a tenant of yours.
Protect this gift at all costs and do what some of us wish would happen to us.
You’re doing great by listening to the rest of the thread.
Good luck and well done